I better start updating this more!
Ok last night I went on a 3rd date with this girl, and I hired a movie and brang her back to my house.
For this night, I wanted to not use any A314 to just see if it makes a difference, in her opening up more, being quiet, not voicing her opinion..etc. When I used A314 I did always use 1 spray of IS X2 and 1 spray of IH 1x.
Now for this night I used:
6 sprays of IS x2, 2 sprays to face, 1 spray to each side of neck, and 1 to front of neck, 1 to front of hair.
2 spray of CTTM2, 1 to top of each hand.
WOW I got in the car, I tell you I felt GREAT! I could feel it, I just literally went WOOOOHOOO! in the car on the way to pick her up, I was singing, excited, up for it, turned on! This was the first time I have ever used this much IS. The most I have used before must of been 3 sprays of IS 2x.
When I picked her up she was quiet at first, which is expected, but we first drove to blockbusters and we was talking, on and off on the way there, there was some quiet silences but this time it was not awkward silences, which is good 
We then spend a while in Blockbusters, looking for a good movie to watch, we end up getting Drag me to hell on blue ray. I defiantly I notice myself more, easy going, more speaking openly without thinking of what to say, coming out with things that don’t really have that much meaning, but making sense lol, I am usually like this but this time much more flowing, with less caring, more confident. With the other dayes I noticed my self, being more cocky, teasing more..etc. But did want to cut that out and be more my true self, and this night I do feel like I did that, which I am glad. I was more real, more being my self, playing and having fun, with more words, as I said before my easier going, just flowing, flowing is a good word to describe it.
After we got a movie, we walked to the car, I said to her relax, laugh or something, jump up down and go wooohoooo! lol, I then nearly slipped over on the ice, which she laughed. Which was erm …good
After this it seems she really started to open up much, much more. To me she felt more as ease, more relaxed, her words started flowing more, as we drove to my house.
We she got to my house, which looks pretty good, because of all the snow and Christmas light 7 & decorations, it kind of made it into a really nice night, because my parents where out, and we had a nice log fire going, a movie to watch and some toffee popcorn :o)
When In my house, sitting down in the lounge with the log fire going, she really started to open up, lots of smiling, talking about her self, her memories of certain things related to my house..etc. I liked it because I was seeing more of her insides, instead of her being behind a tight shell.
I was still flowing, just being my natural BEST self, making her smiling & laugh, making her comfortable as possible. Making simple things seem amazing! Specially telling her my tea that I make is AMAZING! and that she should try some, but she wouldn’t have none of it, so I told her she is missing out and that if she ever did taste my tea, she would want to marry me 
Anyway as the we watch the movie, I know I have to kino alot this time as where I didn’t do much kino on the previous dates. So soon as I sit down I give her a cuddle, and then as we watch the movie I put my arm/hand on her thigh, keeping it there through most of the movie, also adding in little rubbing action up and down the thigh
Then I noticed she starts to ‘quietly’ start to stroke my arm this is placed on her thigh, getting more aggressive as the movie progresses. I also stop half way through the movie for a piss break, and give her a passionately french kiss lol.
As the movie finished, we make out loads!, I end up rubbbing her fanny though her jeans, and just lots and lots of kissing. I didn’t plan to have sex with her because I really feel that she is a virgin, I just wanted this night to be ‘getting closer’ not just in rapport but in sexually touching ways also. But as before this night I completely forgot about certain things, like kino. So I refreshed my memory on certain things, and I wanted to make the most of this night to make us closer, and dry humping made that happen 
We ended up watching another movie and we ended the night, cuddling, kissing, rubbing, stroking, and dry humping alot.
I really feel that we got closer, which is what I wanted, but most likely the coming back to my house made this happen, because the other dates where outside sources. I feel that not wearing the Alpha A314, actually made things better, this night I saw the best side to her, her real self. I really can’t say there was any negative side effects of me not wearing the A314.
The IS made me feel great!, and I am sure it made her feel great also, and I also feel that the CTTM2 made me more open, and my conversation/words flow more. And made her more relaxed and comfortable with talking, and being with me in general.
All in all I had a really good night, and I think I will test around with IS and CTTM2 a bit more. But I will be living out the A314 for a while 