hello everyone! i recently purchased instant openess, instant shine, mx135 and got a free sample of instant sexiness b (thank you ) and eow just arrived today. for the past several days i’ve been using instant openess, shine and mx135, but i don’t really notice any results. i’m bi and there’s this girl that i know likes me.
she’s a co-worker but we’re in different departments so we’ve never had the chance to talk. i’m wondering what mixture i should use and the amount i should spray. also what are your results using these products? any advice would be great and thank you in advance!
First thing to bear in mind is that it’s not always easy to notice if you’re getting hits. I’ve found that I only realise I was getting hits in hindsight. You might well be getting hits but just haven’t noticed them.
I’m no expert on the matter, but the one thing all the experts have been telling me is to not get into mixtures just yet (even though it’s SO tempting). You need to get a sense of each of them separately, find what dosage gets you hits and what kind of effect you get (for instance, I don’t get the “superstar” effect from MX135, I just become someone everyone wants to be around and confide in).
I would suggest starting with Instant Shine or MX135 alone, I think they’re the most likely to give you a feel-good effect, and that helps to start getting you hits from other people. Depending on the dosage, I’d say 3-5 sprays to various locations (wrists, neck, chest and hair are the most common spots, armpits are an interesting variation, you get better diffusion because the phero heats up)
Then just give people an opportunity to breathe it in, don’t be off in a corner somewhere, it won’t work unless you’re putting yourself out there. And in order to get talking to this girl, figure out a time when you’re definately going to see her and apply a top-up of whichever phero you want to use about 15 minutes beforehand. You can bet she won’t want the conversation to end.
So you went for the Phero baptism. Its ok we all did it, its a right of passage into the world of Pheromones LOL
Start with one product at a time. One spray and go see if you get any behavoir changes in people. If not the next day you use 2 and so on and so on.
Now I have a question, You mention a girl you know who likes you. Does she just like you or admire your or does she “like” you ? Is this girl Bi ? Because if she isnt it wont attract her other then in a friendly causual manner.
She is in another department, How close to you get to her distance and length of time wise during the day ?
Where are you applying it, How long between the time you apply and the time you see her ?
Look for behavoir changes in people. Patterns, I jot anything out of ordinary that happens at the end of the day in my personal journal and thats when you begin to see patterns. " Everytime I wear XYZ this occurs"
Keep at it sometimes it takes time and suddenly it kicks in and you have that holy shit this is working moment.
haha! yes i went for the baptism! i usually apply it before work. today i put on 5 sprays of shine on the wrists, neck, and chest. but i did this in the middle of the day to see any difference, and i somewhat did. in the morning as i passed by people on the street, i didn’t get any looks and people just went about their ways. but after applying shine, i noticed a few who did (including one cute guy ).
about the girl, we’ve gotten pretty close in terms of distance, just never talked though. i have no clue if she’s straight, bi, or gay but i’ve observed her staring at me when she thinks i don’t notice. when i sometimes do, i look back but i catch her turning her head elsewhere or look down at whatever is in her possession. also at times, she’d try to be near where i am.
work was pretty busy today so i didn’t see her, but will try tomorrow using shine…and maybe one or two sprays of openness?
thanks a lot for the reply, i’ll report back tomorrow.
) and eow just arrived today. for the past several days i’ve been using instant openess, shine and mx135, but i don’t really notice any results. i’m bi and there’s this girl that i know likes me.