Exactly. Beyond the profound perceptual effects it can have on the wearer, it can also act as a “reset switch” for both the wearer and targets.
Perceptually, you seem to get just raw data, minus all of the judgements and filtering.
These were first of bit research we generated that appeared to be substantial, and they’ve now weather time well. Lots of confirmation here by surprised first time users. 
For whatever reason, the “raw filtering” (and the suppression of the reticular activating system, or whatever it’s doing, we need to check by fmri to make sure) seems to increase people’s appreciation of things. You lay reality bare, and whala… it turns out to be a good thing to most people.
Could famous therapists and changeworkers like Richard Bandler be correct? Could reality be better than we think? Could most negativity just be made up nonsense passed from generation to generation?
All interesting things to consider. Especially during holidays when you’re supposed to be more giving. Thinking about this gives you more of a reason to love thy neighbor and thy fellow grocery store shopper alike.
So it has this effect on you, the wearer, but not your girlfriend, the target?
We first noticed the “second chance” / “second look” / “new again” type effect at 2 sprays of 10mcg (20mcg total). So about the same you’re using. Most profound effects to us were at a minimum 50mcg total as a baseline, but users here may have figured out the dosage curve a little more precisely after all this time.