I’ve ordered IS/b & have a feeling this matches my personality more than the discription of IS/a, but in terms of tailoring for my TG’s personality I’m a bit confused…
I thought TAH was the one generally most effective on alpha males, but maybee I’m confusing myself with doing too much reading?
"Tisha;
(Group A) Well I noticed that the guys that attract to TAL when I wear it seem to be attracted to stronger more self confident women who are not afraid to speak there minds. They tend to have relationships were the women is more dominant. They tend to be introverts. They also tend to be smart and serious.
(Group B) TAH seems to attract more of the flirty playboy types. Extroverted, smart but not as studious as group A, They tend to have more care free personalities. Like to have fun and are rarely serious. Have more frequent relationships."
"Countesszero; It seems to me that TAH works for reserved and alpha guys. I’ve added TAH to my various mixes and I’d have to agree. It gives you the “I’m every woman vibe” meaning you become attractive to everyone."
My TG is definitively an alpha male , but he fits Tisha 's group A more (except for the introvert bit). He’s the stereotypical surgeon; confident, ambitious, smart & a bit serious. He’s also very social & popular with a quite sarcastic sense of humour…
Yeah, me too. I keep checking back for replies. I feel like I’m a TAH person – It gives me self effects and I don’t think I’m an alpha female at all. For example I can and do assume leadership roles and try to take them seriously when I have them, but I’m not ambitious about seeking out leadership roles I don’t need to take. As long as someone else competent is leading I’m happy to be a follower.
However, I’ve been wondering if using TAH will undermine my role as an instructor (university level).
The reports on tailoring to a guys personal preference are just that… “reports” of what I and others observed but it hasnt led to a conclusive findings yet. So there really is no right and wrong anwser to give.
Tailoring can be tough unless you have a target and know him well enough to know what he likes and what he is looking for. It can depend to on if he is looking for the long term relationship or if he is looking to play and just have fun.
One thing that I have found from all the testing results and data from others that I have. The one that works the best for the wearer tends to match the wearers personality closest. It enhances who you already are. Alot of people can pull off both a TAL and a TAH vibe. I love them both but for different reasons.
These molecules while very popular need more testing before any concreate statement on “tailoring” can be made. I suspect that there are many factors we have not even considerd yet that influence what a man is most attracted to.
I imagine it would and I would go with TAL for this environment. You want to be taken seriously and your target base is large, consistanting of many personalities.
Think of it this way who would you take more serious if they came to your school to give a speech. Marilyn Monroe or Angelina Jolie. ?
Lets say that each man had to choose one or the other for a partner though
Now both will get the mens attention in the audience but for different reasons. Men looking for a partner strong enough to lead with them and compliment there status would go for the TAL girl (AJ) while the TAH girl (MM) peaks there interest because men, both Alpha and Beta are sexually driven. (MM) would be fun to play with, have on your arm, depending on the man she could up his status. Beta males tend to care more about sexual status. Betas think long term with a (MM) type. Think about JFK. Obviously a high status alpha male but also a playboy at heart. Jackie is a Alpha female, she compliments that side of his nature and her presense ups his status. While JFK’s playboy side was more drawn to (MM) who is a TAH girl. She upped his sexual status but not his status as a whole. You also have to consider that some Alphas depending on what there needs are will go for the more TAH type because they want some arm candy they can put away when not needed. Jeez there are so many facets to consider.
See how complicated tailoring can be. So it depends on many different factors and whether your target as well as yourself are looking for long term or just more casual fun. Is he status driven ? What would up his status more ? Consider your own needs as well. You want a guy who wants you for you. This is why going with what compliments you as opposed to what you think your target wants is best in a situation where you trying to atract “one” special person.
This is so well-said! You shouldn’t have to change who you are just for your target guy.
My personality is a TAH personality. I can pull off a TAL vibe when I wear IS/a, but I definitely don’t feel comfortable doing it. It’s like I’m not in my own skin, and I’m trying to be someone I’m not. It makes sense that you should wear the product that is close to your own personality to enhance it. I’ve been meaning to try IS/b to see if it really does suit me better, but it’s not available in a to-go size…
Xiphoid, since there is no definite answer as to how you should tailor, the best way to go is still to test, test, test! lol
If you find that IS/b suits you better but your TG seems to like TAL better, you can always wear IS/b on your chest or neck (where the pheros affect you) and spray some TAL or IS/a to your hair (where the pheros affect others) to balance it out.
i personally cant give advice on what mix is correct for what situation because Tah on me isnt the same as Tah on everyone.
we can go probable but never definate.
Tah never netted me a specific type as it either meshed with the mood of the day or it didnt;
sometimes i am not feeling confident and so having sexiness A present was worth its weight in gold that day, but then there are days where i need a tad bit softening and so Tah worked my personality better on that day.
im guessing my own signiture changes with my cycles, diet, or lifestyle in the moment and so not having TAH and TAL around to play with individually-
as well as not having instant sexiness A and B present-
would not only annoy me, but i would be prepared only half of the time in any month.
my advice here?
there will be days when TAH works better with him, and days when TAL is more appropriate.
experimenting with how both molecules affect those around you mixed with your personality and signiture will be the only way youll know for sure what the mix will be on any given day.
