So I’m a complete newbie with pheromones and I was able to test TAL for the first time yesterday. I’ve been seeing a guy about 7 years older; he’s Romanian, went to an Ivy League for his undergrad, and is currently working on his PhD at another prestigious university (the one I happen to be going to for my undergrad). Just a little more background info; he seems really intelligent-- not just book-smart, fairly confident, but also more on the analytical and critical side whereas I’m much more of an intuitive person. From this I kind of get the sense that he’s an alpha male so as I was reading up on the differences between TAL and TAH, I was worried that TAL would appeal less to him.
Anyway, I finally saw him yesterday after not seeing him for 1 week and 4 days so it’s hard to tell how much of his excitement to see me was based on that fact and how much was a result of the pheromones. He seemed to respond pretty well with TAL and almost tried to eat it off me, haha. I mean, he is pretty generous with kisses around the neck, etc. but I felt like he was practically licking off the TAL with his kisses. Anyone ever experience this?? I actually smelled the TAL on his lips.
In terms of self-effects, I’ve had the TAL for a few days before I gave it a test drive and I absolutely love the smell. I might be getting TAH soon so I guess I can test out whether there is a difference in how I feel after inhaling the two because I’m ordering TAH in Coconut Vanilla also (and therefore it wouldn’t necessarily be the difference in scent that would cause me to feel differently about them, but the pheromones?). I’m pretty excited, but I’m also a broke college student so pheromones might become a bad addiction
I’m also going to see how he responds to TAH in the future too. When I’m around TAL though, it’s impossible not to want to inhale a lungful of it. I notice also that I seem to become sassier if I’m talking to someone and that I feel a little more confident which causes me to say what I’m feeling more (hence, the sassiness). What are the kind of self-effects you guys get from TAL? I’m really curious.
Hope you guys are having a great day
I’ll keep you posted on how things go if you’re interested; it’s kind of like keeping a blog, but with the added bonus of anonymity.
I just got TAL and have been taking it to work. In person, I’m super shy and think that people tend to take advantage of that and feel like they can walk all over me. When I use TAL, people give me a lot less shit which is GREAT because when I’m feeling those awesome self-effects, I am willing to take a lot less shit. They don’t argue or even try to negotiate, they just -listen- to me when I’m talking and do what I suggest. I absolutely love it.
I had always wondered about those alpha type women and how they were able to speak with so much authority and confidence and not be brushed off or dismissed, but taken very seriously and respected. I found that when TAL put me in this frame of mind (“I’m not going to stand for any bullshit today. If they don’t like it, that’s their problem.”) I acted accordingly and it felt great and people just accepted it.
As far as responses from men went, it was weird. Some were flirtatious in a challenging way, if that makes any sense. Not quite sure how to describe it. It’s like when you’re having a funny conversation and the aim is for each quip to be more clever than the last? Like they were trying to one-up me, but in a flirty way. If there’s a name for that, I don’t know what it is. But it was fun. I was up for the challenge.
I was wondering if you got around to testing TAH. I am thinking about ordering either TAH or TAL for my girlfriend, to make her feel more confident and sexy. Do you think this will work?
I did get to try out TAH on the guy that I’m seeing, but it had nowhere near the effect TAL had on me. When I tried out TAH, I didn’t think it was “working”. If anything I felt a little less confident and “lost”, but I’m not sure how much of those feelings were my own rather than TAH. My guy seems to react more to TAL, but he also seems more of an alpha male and more into the Marilyn Monroe type. I’m not sure what’s going on. I really like wearing TAL around him because I feel like it puts me on more of an equal footing with him and I can hold my own if something he says puts me off a little, but I do like the fact that he’s older; he likes to give me a lot of life advice (not that I take all of it) and I like feeling taken care of.
But from reading your post, “confident” and “sexy” I associate more with TAL all the way. I love that stuff.
Thank you, I’ve ordered TAL anyway because of your first post. I also ordered Instant Sexiness B and read somewhere that there was TAH in there - is that correct? I am very curious what the results will be!
Have you tried to combine TAH and TAL in equal amounts? To create a balance between soft and dominant. As a male I do wear TAH and TAL in low amounts, to add a feminine touch in a mix. With TAH, I do notice a feeling of weakness and become a little more emotional. With TAL, I notice a confidence boost, but combined with Androstenone the bitch comes out in a woman. So I like to combine it with TAH to balance that effect.
In what kind of mcg/spray do you have TAH and TAL? You could play with certain dosages, until you find the effect you like.
