Had to throw in that she is quite beautiful. Anyways, I have enough pheros to say that I have many to choose from. I have many none products, instant shine, magic, gentleman, A314, tah, tac, taf, p80, p86, p91, instant honesty 2x, p75, p76, the raw power test pack. Many others.
She came onto me, so things seem good with that. I believe that my own phero signature is high rone, because many people call me sir, most people don’t maintain eye contact with me, look to me to lead, etc.
So I’m thinking she may want a comfort mix of p86, p75, mx272, maybe a dash of instant gentleman? Excitedly waiting for pointers from the wise!
Since I think I have very high test levels I want to stay away from too much none. Still don’t know for certain if mx272 has none, but I love it. Unless someone has an earthshattering combo different than this, I think the mx272 will add in the social genius and rapport with her that I want to achieve.
Hi YogaLefty,
I’m not sure if you mention the black part as a factor into the phero combos or just general 411… just in case: I too am a ‘black girl’ lol (well “half” technically but in the states culturally this is what i primarily identify w so), but I am not 18- add 10 yrs- however I am annoyingly assumed to be 16-20 for an age range which is one of my goals with pheros- trying to unkitten my brainy zany self for work. Anyhow, I do think I can offer you some good overall advice hopefully!..
Perhaps some forum folk are probably a little intimidated to discuss given the tag line yet I have seen other ethnicities mentioned for Tg’s with some detailed advice although, again, I have not read enough to personally assess the true merits of ethnicities and phero responses). I’m new to Androtics but not to pheros however Diane999 has been a great help to me here. She is definitely someone to talk to about this and all things related! : )
Consider this: In as much as SHE came onto YOU (maybe you could get more specific) it could be that comfort is not her first need in a male.. or second. I know it isn’t kosher and certainly not an across the board assertion IN ANY WAY, but my black and “black culture” based girlfriends often times DO tend to agree on certain masculine traits/attributes.
Personally and for many women of all ethnicities and backgrounds, men that can command a room, well, it’s great. No Beta male nonsense. I guess it’s really a blonde vs brunette type debate but it seems like this one is all tied up!
And based on YOUR self descrip you seem to be highly respected i.e. Alpha and obviously she desires that. I understand the desire to put her at ease but it could be that taking charge full on will do just that. Do you tell her what/how you feel? or is it not there yet?
Asking her about previous boyfriends, dating, etc in a casual way WILL let he know you are interested in knowing what makes her happy, you will also be able to get a better read on her personality and that will help you proceed with which pheros and how much.
Talking to her will also reassure her as you were so considerate to take the time to truly get to know her. Obviously we know care as you are here making this a priority! Very Cool. I think that is a great idea and your plan should help. If you do talk- nothing serious or depressing in the ex bf/past dept ! and if she goes there by accident as people do, steer her away- you know, playful yet purposeful candor. Have natural (phero) fun! lol
I know I am likely being repetitive at this point but; since she already likes you and I believe on the forum it says you are not supposed to change your original phero signature you had on when she met you/for the duration of interaction to date (except for experiments of course!) … all the other stuff is probably terrific and will surely have positive effects in varying forms, but the key seems to be that she already LIKES YOU! It could be that Enhancing your masculine essence would do wonders since it is more of what we know she is into. I Looooove that kind of thing personally. It def depends on the girl, but she WILL let you know, just watch and listen. Aand have fun!
Thank you for the response! Extremely helpful.. A woman’s perspective is sorta the insider key into the perspective I don’t normally get. The only reason that I mentioned that she is black is because of the higher tolerance for none. I really didn’t think much of it and in no way meant for it to be a racist observation. Your ideas are very useful and I am implementing what you said into my mix and how I approach the date with her tonight. Thank you very much!
Date couldn’t have gone any better if I tried.. best mix I think for the night I’ve had.
I used a drop of A314, 1 spray of instant gentleman, 30mcg of p86, 2.5p75, 1 spray of mx272, p83 at 12.5mcg, and a taf refresher. Me and her were flirting back and forth like mad.
I took her into the guest room to look for more movies, and she said “you’re just trying to get me into the room so you can take advantage of me”. Kinda with a seductive tone. She wanted to watch a scary movie, and I was saying as long as I can hold her tight, and when I demonstrated a big close hug, she wouldn’t let me go, feeling my body, etc.
She fell asleep on my arm watching the movie, which is understandable at 2am. I carried her into my car, and she melted like putty after this. My friend and his girl were on the date with us, and they said stuff to each other like “they’re so cute together”, they have potential. It was pretty cool to have both of us so into each other.
I waited on the kiss to keep her wanting more and for the next time I see her to be even better. Overall, the gentleman helps me be extremely clever and flirt in a really nice way. I think it wraps up the mx272. While everything else in the mix helped, I think the gentleman made the difference. She was feeling my vibe, definitely gonna talk with her some more.
I think I should have kissed her. As well as the date went, haven’t really talked with her much since. She surprised me because halfway into the date she told my mom how she wants a boyfriend, with me standing right there, and how lucky my sister is to have one. So, live and learn. She was a fun date, I will move on. thanks for checking up though!