First real test of IO at the climbing gym a few days ago. 2 shots of TOGO on my neck, half shot to wrists.
There seemed to no personal bubble around me. Women usually keep a bit of a distance, don’t engage me in convo, wont make eye contact. At one point I had 4 women standing with in 6" of me, and they immediately filled the space I was just occupying when I moved. A little conversation with a few of the ladies, one in her mid 30s was most receptive to me. I am beginning to wonder if I naturally have a high phero sent, thus the keeping of the distance, and effectiveness of the IO by itself.
Personally I felt a little light headed, nervous and airy, not something I like to feel. I am most comfortable being grounded, sometimes feel best when hungover, almost brain bead.
Tried A314 spray at work on Saturday. Affects were noticeable. One shot to either side of my neck about an hour before starting, reapply about 5 hours later. I felt great, makes me feel more responsible, like I deserve better. More aggressive joking with friends who are naturally more aggressive, less eye contact from everyone. More physical contact from jokes then like, ever. Played a joke on a friend, one that we always play on each other, instead of just laughing, he just did what I said (we were both valet captains at one point, and so we joke about telling each other what to do). Noticed a lot more looking to me, and including me in the random sh*% talking that goes on there. Strange looks from, and a lot less interaction from the lead guy, a 6’5" ex army captain in his mid 30’s. He and I always are talking about workout stuff and protein intake, stuff like that. He was a lot less eager to give me any advice, and would drop the conversation early when normally he would keep talking until I would have to walk away to do something.
2nd test A314 work the next morning (I work from 3pm on saturday to 1:30 am sunday morning, then I go back in sunday at 8am and work till 3pm. i set it up that way for myself to get the good tips
). Valet boss for the morning was standoffish, a good friend, Asian. I’m a coffee snob and wont drink Starbucks like the rest of them, I like my Stumptown coffee, they always give me sh*% about it, but there was only one joke cracked about it that was dropped very quickly, then the boss started inquiring about it, like he wanted to try it.
2nd Test at the climbing gym.
Application: 2 shots ammo TOGO to the sides of my neck, 2.5 shots of IO to my neck and forearms.
Personal effects: Felt lite headed again, ungrounded, nervous. Had a strange feeling of being sexy I guess? hard to describe, found it hard to not walk with a “im a pimp” limp ![]()
I noticed a lot more eyes on me, but no one would hold eye contact, not even when I smiled. I caught girls looking at me, the ones with there boyfriends seemed nervous and would try to get the boyfriends to move to a different part of the gym with them. Talked to one guy, convo was easy and open, his girl wouldn’t look at me, he was all smiles and respect, asked my advice about a climb (I am a good climber and was bouldering a rout 3 grades above the one he and his friends were working on, usually no one will interact with me when not working on the same or similar grade problem). One girl kept walking past me after completing her climbs, very attractive, would walk within inches of me each time but wouldn’t look at me. After a while, she started to do the quick glance look over at me, when I caught her eye, I smiled, but she looked away to fast to see.
Thats all for now, will be going back to the climbing gym tonight, thinking of trying IO with A314, see if the A314 counters the light headed of the IO, helps me feel more confident.