I guess time will tell whether he’s the right guy for me or not . . . but in the meantime, he’s had a heck of an effect on me.
Ail,
I want to thank you for your advice and counsel. Your guidance is genuinely appreciated.
Before I used the EW in the mix I wore to work, I gave it a lot of thought . . . might have to rethink some more. Since I don’t see TargetGuy only at work – just mostly at work – I could save the EW for one of the away-from-work times. There’s just a lot of competition at work, and this girl felt like she needed an edge.
Well, Ail, I am not the Essence of Woman type. I’m painfully shy when it comes to dating. Any other arena, I’m a total extrovert. I’ll sing on stage, etc. but one on one, (AGGH!) My targetguy is great, but I think he’s shy too! On the phone we can talk for hours, but when we see eachother it’s like “this is weird..do you want to say something..no do you..no.” I am trying to avoid the horrible FRIEND ZONE!!!
Anyway, what is Essence of Woman. I just keep hereing so much about it, but I guess it’s not by androtics?
Hi Muse!
EW is purely and simply synthetic female copulins. Nothing else, no other pheromones, just cops, which only we females naturally produce. Nice to have something over on the men, since they don’t have to put up with periods - huh? ^_~
If you read my post in Carrie’s Poll about cops, you can read exactly what pure cops do to our poor men ^_~, and if DO you decide to use EW, which can only be purchased from Love-Scent.com, please be very careful with it!
Take some time to read through all the advice given on how the women here who have used it for a long time use it, by doing a wee search for EW, and if you still have any questions, please feel free to drop me a PM, and I’ll answer as soon as I humanly can.
Ail 
And as you write..I read Carrie’s post (WOW!!!) yea, it’s cool.
Hey! I think I invented a new word! LOL 
Okay . . . my work assignment is changing, and I will soon be working with TargetGuy daily. Oh my! 
He actually told me today, “You’re mine.” Alas, it’s only in a work setting . . . but it’s a start!
Should I come up with a new mix? There’s too much going on at work for Instant Honesty to have much benefit. I need to come off as confident, positive, and in control, because this new assignment is going to be a major learning experience. There’s not a lot of time to chat – the best we can do is snippets of conversation.
I have Instant Sexiness, Instant Honesty, TAH, Essence of Woman (understandably not recommended for the work setting), MX174 and MX175. I’m open to recommendations, please.
I tend to use the word “victim”…
If you want to be “in control”, use ISexi, definitely…
To be confident and slightly dominant Pherobeliever, you want to be wearing around 3 sprays of ISexi/W Mix A, (in hair, split between frontal pulses of neck, and in cleavage) and then around 15-20 mcg of TAL, applied RIGHT over the other application points.
TAL gives you that edginess that loads of men like - and definitely helps you exude a confident stance, whereas TAH is more suited to being kittenish and playful - AFTER you are out the workplace.
Ail
I’m going to have to invest in some TAL, then. One of the most fun days we had working together was a day that TargetGuy said I was feisty, and that was without pheromones. If I’ve already got the edginess going, would the TAL emphasize it too much?
Oh, absolutely not…if you have a guy who likes the strong women, TAL is terrific…I am a very strong personality already, and I am dating a man who gets really REALLY excited when I wear TAL…
The 'mones did their job . . . I got a definite hit today! TargetGuy suggested us going out sometime. Nothing definite yet, but he’ll come up with a date. I’ll be able to hit him with a one-on-one pheromone cloud!
WooHoo, way to go, girlfriend! Good for you. The date would be a perfect time for you to bring on the TAH and the copulins. I am so happy for you!
You bet I will!!
Thanks for the good words Ilsa!
Definitely get some Essence of Woman, if you don’t have it yet!!!
I do have Essence of Woman, and I just ordered a full-size bottle of Instant Sexiness and a To-Go Instant Shine to try. Look out TargetGuy!
He doesn’t stand a chance!
Well, since I’m so far gone on him, it’s only fair, eh?
Well, I saw my TargetGuy today. I used a mix of instant sexiness, mx108 and lust after me. when I saw him this morning, I gave him a BIG hug. Then I touched his face (he’s trying to grow a beard) and said someting like, "oh! nice and scruffy!) This is sooooo out of my usual behavior, I surprised myself.
A little while later, he was having a conversation with someone and i stood right next to him. a couple of minutes later he turned directly towards me and we conversed about this and that..he was yawning and telling me that he was going to go home and sleep.also, he’s leaving tuesday because he’s going away for christmas. Now i knew he was going away, but I sort of went into panic mode, and then he was called away into another meeting. as he walked away, I called out to him, “don’t leave without seeing me.”
Then I was called into a meeting and began thinking, “what am i gonna say to him next that will make sense about why i told him not to leave?”
Anyway, my meeting lasted way too long and when i came out he was gone. I felt really bad and then my girlfriends began analyzing our relationship and decided that i have been giving this guy mixed signals. For example, he has asked me to hang out,and I have turned him down because I felt like they weren’t official dates. and usually he’ll call me, but i’ll only call him to return a call. i thought i was being “mysterious” but they said i was being too unavailable and i had to do something to show him to make the next move.
so, we came up with the idea to get him a xmas present and tell him that was the reason i wanted him to wait for me…because i wanted to give him his present. we ran to barnes and nobles and i got him a book by his favorite author. i called him and when he answered, i could tell that i woke him up. i said i was sorry and he said not to worry because he had to get up anyway to study (he’s in med school) I said to him playfully, “you didn’t wait for me!” he said, that he did wait around for me for a while but he didn’t know where i was and he asked and nobody knew either. then i asked him if he was free in the next hour. he said yes, he was making dinner and then gonna study. I told him that i wanted to give him his xmas present. he sounded excited and then said, “uh, I didn’t get you anything. i’m sorry.” I said not to worry and he said to come by.
i arrived at his place and we started talking. he told me that he was not pickingup his phone today, but he picked it up for me (i joked that i was special). now this is where it gets a little weird. nothing happenned. the closest he got to me was putting his feet near me. he made dinner, we laughed, and then i gave him his present. he loved the book, went on and on how he had that book in his hand the other day and almost got it, how he was gonna take the book on the plane with him, etc. then, when i went to leave, we hugged each other, and i awkwardly gave him a kiss on his cheek.
I feel like a DORK! Did I do the right thing? Did the cops work on me but not him (I would NEVER be so forward)
Oh one more thing!! I’m moving to a new place next month and he volunteered to move me!!!
Sounds like he is willing to make an investment … which can only be a good signal.
Ok…my two cents…the fact that he volunteered to move you is a good sign…as far as the cops…some men need a stronger copulin vibe…Essence of Woman usually does the trick…it will practically raise the dead, and I am not joking… Try it along with Instant Sexiness next time…put a drop of EW on each side of your neck and one in your cleavage, and cover with ISexi. Get some Instant Honesty, and put a couple blasts in your hair…if that blend doesn’t work, I don’t know what will…