The Merlot Brief...

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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So, the beginning of a journal ?

I have been experimenting with mones for a couple of months now. I dare say I’m not the first to just grab a bunch of stuff and start spraying. But I’ve regained some sort of control and am now taking a more scientific approach. I have been reading with great interest the reports of a number of regular correspondents on this page ? in particular Conjurator, Mobocaster, CelticPrince and Justintime469 (amongst others). That said, any crazy or stupid things that I have done are down to me not them.

Back story: I’m 52, single and working in a project management position for an Australian cultural institution, which involves lots of meetings and facilitation type workshops. I’m deep in the friend zone with the Object of My Heart’s Desire (OMHD) with whom I share a house, though that doesn’t mean that I’m going to leave myself hanging on the tree indefinitely. I just have a set of priorities.

Work wise, I have settled on a standard dose of 2 or 3 drops of A314 (jawlines and across the top lip if I think it’s going to be a combative morning) plus two sprays of IS in the morning depending on the day’s schedule. I generally run a 30 minute scrum first thing in the morning to set the team running for the day. Then I may have some other meetings in the morning with stakeholders or other business units. If there is going to be a high number of females in the meetings then I might add a bit of Ammo (world) for the flirty effect, which has helped me overcome some potentially difficult negotiations.

On the social front, I have discovered that a mix of 25mcgs p96 and 2 sprays of TUTH in the evening at home has created a nice fallout affect with OMHD. I have exposed her to this over the last few weeks and have noticed her becoming more touchy and affectionate (though still distant).

The first time I tried mones in her presence was a combo of TUTH, IG, IS and IO in a bit of a scattergun approach. It definitely triggered a DIHL response - we were sitting next to each other having a birthday lunch with some friends. She would lose track of what she was saying and was continuously playing with and pulling the hem of her skirt. Unfortunately, OMHD reacts negatively to strong scents so I have to be careful about what I use - she’s already commented on IS for example.

Later that evening we hit the pub which was a boisterous reggae night with a mix of bands and sound systems. After a number (!) of beers I hit myself up with some MX353. I bumped into a number of women there that I knew. And they bumped back… Quite a bit of touching during conversations and a couple of boob rubs.

There have been a number of other nights with varying degrees of success (and excess) but lacking a coherent strategy has made it next to impossible to report meaningfully on it. So from tonight, I’m going to take a more scientific and disciplined approach.

Stay tuned..

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Nice to see you have done quite a bit of experimenting and now have a journal going.

I am definitely subscribing.

Keep writing, Merlot.

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I am tuned in to my man. If you have any questions you can post here and we will respond.

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Thanks for the encouragement gentlemen. This weekend will have some time for play as well as for work so come Monday, I hope to have some fine tales (tails?) to tell…

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Friday Night - a quiet gig at the a local club. Quiet as in seated at tables:

A314 - two drops
P96 - 25Mcg

OMHD and I walked down to the club - about 15min. She was chatty, travelling in my wake. A couple of friends were manning the door, one a lesbian ex colleague, was gave me a discount even though I didn’t have my membership on me. Met a few old friends in there. An ex FWB was there with her new feller. They sat with us and we talked laughed and drank. FWB and OMHD were both very touchy - holding my arm etc. Before the main act started I excused my self and had three hits of MX353 and a hit of IG.

When I got back to the table, another couple about the same age that we didn’t know were sitting immediately to my right, the woman sitting next to me. She immediately looked at me and kept looking back continuously, touching her (short) hair and her face. Meanwhile OMHD kept leaning in quite close to talk to me and FWB reached out a number of times to hold and maintain holding my hand. Luckily her new feller is a aware of our old friendship and was not put out by her platonic affections.

At one stage I got up to grab beers and when I got back the couple we didn’t know had swapped seats - i.e. He was sitting next to me now in what seemed to me an obvious blocking pose. Hmmmm…

Post gig cigarettes - FWB was very affectionate (which admittedly is not unusual) and said after a spontaneous hug “You smell nice”. OMHD was very attentive and made a point of inviting me into the convesations with some old pals of hers. We’re organising a camping trip soon, which will include FWB and her feller. He was hugely pleased to be invited (respect hit?) so this could be an interesting adventure. The great outdoors will probably limit the application of mones - unless anyone has some suggestions…

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With being outdoors just make sure to stay close to your targets to keep them in the mone cloud and the more exposure the better so you get what you want. Nice hits man especially the respect one from the new feller as most of the time in that type of situation it does not go well as the new guy is usually jealous and it leads to problems. So I would say that was a huge hit for sure.

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Subscribing for the camping reports :smiley:

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Camping trip has been put back a few weeks. In the meantime I have been using 2-3 drops of A314, 20mcg TAC and 25-50mcg of P96 on a semi regular basis. In the evening I might substitute TuTH for the A314. The idea behind this is amplifying the rapport that we already share while adding a hint of sexuality. The effects have been subtle but positive. OMHD has been sincerely friendly and affectionate - in the past she has been careful to maintain a certain distance and this seems to be dissolving.

The impact at work has been noticeable as well. In meetings I have been chairing, there is generally a palpable level of respect from men and women. Some of these have gone a bit feral in the past with people being reactive rather than responsive. Lately though, I have been able to gently reign in some of the more strident participants while minimising the amount of feathers being ruffled. Before meeting that I think are going to be contentious, I will probably have three shots of IS and get to the meeting room early to “spread the love”. There are a couple of younger (than me - early to mid 30s) women who have become much more friendly as well, stopping at my desk to talk about not much, waving hello from opposite ends of the corridors. There behavior (which was never stand offish) has become much warmer over the last few weeks.

The trip to the campsite is a four(+) hour drive. I’m thinking of using pretty much the evening mix, but adding P83 (25mcg?). I’m using larger doses as both of us are “of a certain age”… While camping we will be participating in an ecological survey during daylight (so probably not much opportunity for mones) but at night there will be time for closer contact around the campfire. We’re in the Southern Hemisphere so snow is not unexpected - skin surface area will be limited… though we may have to share a tent :wink:

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With being at work and the women being right around 30 I find A314 all by itself 2-3 drops should be just enough None in it to attract them. With P96 I find it does turn the A314 into a fallout mix. I have tried TAC at work, but I keep the dose very low or it can create more of a silly and to relaxed of an environment.

I have not tried P83 yet so I can’t comment on that one.

P96 does work on men and women. I have tried P96 and P74 and sometimes P96 get’s me in trouble with women(I am married) where I get hit on. So what I did was swap out the P96 for P74 and I get a whole new dynamic from the mix. But if you are looking for attraction P96 will do it with A314.

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Ehem… I know it’s late… but I am still waiting for that campsite report? :smiley:

I’m assuming here that several other campsite reports are ready to be posted here. :stuck_out_tongue: It’s almost a year after all. :stuck_out_tongue: