The MX329 Experience

Yesterday, I decided to test MX329 first. This is, I believe, Dancing Joker’s “Love Boat” mix.

I applied what I estimate to be 1.75 sprays at first, and enjoying the scent, I rather huffed it a bit… but the effects were elusive, and if there, were very subtle. I went to visit my grandfather and take him to the hardware store, during which time I noted that I had a definite admirer in a girl who couldn’t have been older than 15 years old… as to whether that was pheromones or not, I can’t say I know. Nobody else responded with interest.

In fact I can’t say I got anything that was a definitive hit… another possible hit was the floor salesman being a little more positive and gracious than I would expect, but that could simply be a good employee.

So after that I went home and applied two more sprays to my neck. This time, I started noticing that I was becoming slightly irritable/impatient/critical on the way over to pick up my ex. It was very frustrating to me that I had not simply told her to wait until tomorrow nstead of trying to go out to a movie at 10:40, when I was arriving at her house at 10:40 and the movie theater was 45 minutes away. What was I thinking? What a waste of time, and gas… I’m not paying for a movie I won’t get to see all of! grumble grumble

But with some effort, I calmed that down, and she found on her phone that there was the same movie playing at 11 PM at a theater that was close enough to get to in time, so we went there. I was feeling rather touchy feely, in a caring way, so I was caressing her shoulders while we watched the movie… and she was enjoying the attention, but it was decidedly non-sexual for both of us.

After the movie, we would normally have made out and maybe shared pleasures, but this evening was completely non-sexual again… I was happy, enjoying her company, but no desire for sex. Usually we can’t keep our hands off each other… it’s as if she was designed to turn me on, and vice versa. Not this night. So we went to IHOP, and the conversation quickly turned deep and personal, with her explaining what she wants from a man she’s going to spend the rest of her life with…

Uh… hello? We broke up for a reason… and now we’re getting to know eachother again… slooooowly… okay, I fully understand her not wanting sex all the time because a relationship based on nothing but is no relationship at all, but previously it had been the path to shared emotional intimacy… and where did we get back to marriage negotiations again? She sounded as if she was almost scolding me about what I need to do to be worthy of her…

Now given why we broke up, this was more than a little upsetting to me, and as the night wore on, became more and more offensive. We ended up in a complete deadlock squared off at 180 degrees opposition, right back where we came from before we broke up.

I don’t know how much of all this was the influence of the MX, but the nonsexuality was odd and the way she was treating me during dinner was odd… I will have to use this mix in alternating patterns with a known quantity to understand it better.

I suspect I sense androstenone and beta androstenol, though.

i’m beginning to dislike the self effects of mx329 myself…makes me so dam upbeat that i get ADD and motormouthy. i’ve had one super duper hit from a girl, but the self effects are just too strong for me to keep using.

Thanks for the detailed report of your MX329 test, Catlord :slight_smile:

From what you’ve mentioned, it seems to me that your ex was already planning to have “the talk” with you, and MX329 gave her the comfort and confidence to initiate that discussion with you because you were comfortable and confident with being together with her without being sexual.

You mentioned that you were happy to be with her and cuddly in a caring way, and she may have perceived it as you being more comfortable and ready to be with her as a couple. In the past, she had indicated that she had wanted the relationship to be more than just sex. Perhaps she was associating sex with the old relationship and what led it to fail or not work (I’m not sure of the specifics of your relationship with her), and when she saw that you were comfortable being with her without the need for sex, she felt that you were ready for the next step in the relationship.

The fact that it wasn’t the first non-sexual night seems to indicate that she was preparing to move things to the next level and have this discussion, and MX329 may have caused her to jump the gun prematurely, thinking you would be ready and looking forward to moving your relationship in that direction.

Try testing MX329 with distractants that may not be planning to give you the ol’ ball and chain talk :stuck_out_tongue: Have fun with it and take it where you want it to go!

P.S. I didn’t know they were going to name the forum mixes … I would have thought up a good name for MX329. I don’t know how my mix ended up being called the “Love Boat” mix LOL

You’re quite welcome. I thought I would try to draw some attention to your mix since mine seems to have stolen the spotlight.

I don’t know how it got the name “love boat” mix, but I disregarded that and approached it as a complete blank. I was curious as to whether it would make me very happy like it did some others.

It seems I did not do a good enough job explaining the situation, however, by your response. My relationship with my ex has always been strongly sexual because we are very much sexually magnetic. It has always been that sex was not just erotic, but it was how we understood eachother at a deep emotional level. And that was how we expressed our love in a language we both understood.

The situation is too complex and private to make perfectly clear here, but we had decided to stop having sex previously because we didn’t have enough time and freedom to be intimate the way we used to be… neither of us want “just sex”. So “the talk” is not what I got out of it at all… it is no secret that she wants me to be her husband, but it is very odd that she should bring it up in that context and approach it from that direction and in that way. As in… I have never had her talk to me that way… she’s come close, but this was different… she seemed to think I was more the one at fault for why we broke up, when any sane person hearing the whole story would recognize that as sheer insanity. I think it had the effect of making her feel more comfortable, and yet become stronger in herself and more critical and demanding.

I did a test today with two sprays of Revision 0x of Panty Scorcher, and she was very much open, emotional, sexually aroused… no mention of what we talked about yesterday… we eventually got so turned on that we made love, after I spent several hours explaining how to get started in an online business to her… and our lovemaking was very erotic and passionate, but it was also very much the emotionally connective lovemaking that we used to have. She also gushed afterwards about how she loved the connection and intimacy and wanted more.

So I’m going to see, next time I see her, how she responds to NO pheromones… and then the time after that, I’ll try three sprays of your MX again to contrast this with.

But I’m going to see about hanging out at a public location and socializing with it on. Any suggestion on dosing?

Sorry for the confusion about your relationship with your ex. I’m glad things were able to get back on track again! (thanks to your PS mix of course :smiley:)

I was able to test MX329 this week. I had a similar reaction where a normally friendly and open distractant suddenly became quiet and distant. It wasn’t until I began to develop social and mood momentum that she began to react much more positively. I believe that she wasn’t used to the change in phero signature and ended up focusing on herself and her work until I “stood out” and defined myself again. MX329 needs you to be active in being congruent and taking charge of the situation. Just stand out and be noticed, and the rest falls into place. Think of MX329 as a phero “avalanche” - it takes a few shifts in the layers of snow to get it started, but once it gets going, it just keeps building and building …

I will probably make a more complete report in my journal when I get a chance, but I used MX329 at a group event, and it was insane how much it boosted my self confidence as well as the mood and positive energy of everyone I was with. The more fun I had and the more interactions with other people I engaged in, the greater the positive effects became. As for dosage, try 3 sprays. Being in a positive, social mood definitely helps get the ball rolling, but if you’re naturally good at socializing, just sit back and enjoy the ride :wink:

Thanks for the guidance. :slight_smile: That helps a lot.