Hey there, I’d like to introduce myself.
I’m a 21 year old medical student from The Netherlands, I’ve had a relationship for over 3 years which we have ended a while ago. Since then I’ve been getting back into the whole being single thing going out a lot etc.
While I’m a succesful guy in general, women have never been my specialty, I kind of got “lucky” with my ex-gf who I would rate a 8.5. I haven’t had a lot of experience in total, I guess just short of 20 girls up until makeout and 5 homeruns. Now some of you might say “that’s quite a lot compared to me”, but honestly I have only ever seduced like 1-3, the other girls kind of got into me, asked for a date and “stuff” happened.
Since my breakup I have made a mission. I want to become a full package 9.5+, the guy women and men want to be around, yes the whole picture, not just a general good looking guy. I’ve been a top level athlete 5 years ago, this is where my strive for perfection started. I look pretty good now, depending on the day I’d say I’m a 7-8. This hasn’t always been in the case, throughout most of high school I looked like a 6 at best and definately not the social skills to compensate. Up until the age of about 16-17 I’d say I was pretty much a loser. Eventually I got picked up by a close friend who kind of took me as his pupil and I evolved into something “better”. This is something I intend to do too.
3 years ago I moved here to study medicine, due to me having a relationship I have not opened myself to new people enough, that’s something I intend to change. I know there are great people around here but I’ve sticked to my old friends (who are all awesome aswell, but it’s complicated having them live so far away).
This is a pretty large puzzle, which I have broken down to:
#1: Mastering social dynamics - Learn and master NLP
#2: Confidence, not arrogance!
#3: Look good, real good
#4: Get back the lean muscular physique
#5: Dress well, be different
#6: Be busy, have stories
#7: Succesful career
These are main fundamentals in a particular order but not this order per se. BUT! I’m definately not completely blocking out other pieces of the puzzle, and as I study medicine pheromones immediately sparked my interest. I’m here to see as to what effect pheromones may have, but more particularly H-O-W they work. I’m a “how” person, which I believe is the essence of knowledge (stopping here, don’t want to get philosophical).
I will document my processes, experience and knowledge and probably start a website soon where I will share my info on all these areas.