Hi everyone. Please bear with me. I stumbled on this site by accident and I have quite gone out of my mind.
So, I figure the best thing to do is document this madness…
Friday - found the site and ordered me up some:
MX134
Lust After Me
MX110 Instant Shine.
Monday - the shipment arrives late afternoon.
2 sprays of IS to my hair (weird, but I could FEEL it there all night) - it smells good, BTW and can pass as hairspray smell to unsuspecting victims
2 sprays MX110
no other perfume..
So I went to my nail appt. they were nice and chatty as usual, but the guy who did my nails kinda flirted with me (said I was in really good shape, then blushed). Ok, could be random.
When my hubby came home I tried to “waft” around to get the smell going. He admits to being olfactorily challenged (if there is a term like that).
Anyway, he works really late, aways gets home after 8pm (after leaving the house at 7:30am) - and almost always NOT in the mood to talk.
So he was really chatty? Almost flirty? This is not a fun, affectionate man. Nice guy, but all business - all suit - all the time.
He acted like he did when we were first dating. Huge grin on his face - he said he felt “squishy”.
My imagination?
Tuesday - Last night I read a bunch of posts and because I have really bad ADHD and problems with impulsivity, I figured I would DIE a long slow HORRIBLE death if I didn’t leave work early and buy some Pink Sugar - without trying it (on Kitten’s recommendation). The lady at Sephora was so nice and chatty (or was it the IS?) that I bought the Chocolate flavor too! She said they drive men wild!
OMG I LOVE THEM BOTH!!! I smell like a Krispy Kreme! YEA! THAT oughta get him interested.
I just used the Pink for today - my kids LOVED it !!!
Ok. So for a pre-Valentine dry run here is my mix:
2 sprays IShine - to hair
4 sprays MX134 - wrists and decollete
and later … will add some LAM (since I read that MX134 is take your phero to work day)
He won’t know what hit him!!!
ps. I sprayed my kid’s hair today before she went to school. 1 spray Instant Shine. She said “OMG what was that stuff? I smelled it all day - people on the bus were wondering what it was”. Usually grouchy, the little demon has been rather chipper…
Am I a bad mommy for that? To sacrifice my child in the name of science?
Tue night I thought I would try the Lust After Me - just for grins.
Wow! What a powerful smell! Sort of like chocolate. Anyway, I put a bunch on, then let it dry. After a while I sprayed a TON of Pink Sugar to cover it up. I REEKED!!!
So hubby comes home. I asked him if he could tell if I was wearing a new perfume <wink wink>.
He said “oh, that is so delicate, I can hardly smell it”.
Heloooooooooooo! What happened? I thought he was supposed to go out of his mind? Instead he went to iron a shirt.
So - he always says that he does not have a sensitive sense of smell, is that it? Or is his personality not sensitive to the “concoction” I was wearing?
This morning, I have applied 4 sprays of IShine (to which I am inexplicably and hopelessly addicted).
The boring coffee shop dude was actually friendly… Hmmmm.
I think I’m going to need some advice before I become dejected…
I think husbands and long term lovers take a little longer to respond to a change in pheromone signature so don’t be too upset. It takes some time to find the best dose of copulins for yourself. Huge grins, chatty and self described squishy feeling is definitely him noticing your new pheromones so just keep up with it and try different amounts of lust after me for the best reactions.
So it sounds like the husband likes the copulins, since he responded well to MX110, which is from the drive him crazy series and contains cops I believe, and he enjoys Instant Shine. Wonder what he thinks of MX134. We just need to figure out what “type” he is. Maybe try different combos with the Instant Shine.
Took my kids to their lesson tonight weariing Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness - plus a few squirts of pink sugar.
Wow - usually the teachers (both male and both EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE) are pressed for time and dont talk much.
They were both really chatty and smiley - even though we all had to drive there in the WORST weather!
Do you think that was a hit?
BYW- I’ve been trying to figur e out what type my husband is since we got married. I think I’m just not his - which explains the urgency of my scientific experiment.
Kitten, Inkling - as always, I really appreciate the input!
I have been wearing Instant Shine since Monday. Is it psychological, or is it REALLY having an effect on my personality?
Can it possibly make me feel more confident? Also, I feel sparkly for want of a better word.
I used Instant Sexiness last night, and my husband said “mmmmm, I can really smell you tonight”. Wow, I think that’s the nicest thing he has said to me in years! He even put his arm around me which he NEVER does. I was also wearing Chocolate lovers perfume by Aquolina.
So today is Shine (3 sprays to hair) and MX134 for the office (two sprays to wrist).
It’s partly psychological and partly a positive feedback loop. Person A smells you. A smiles. You talk to A, and A already feels good about you because of your pheromones. You feel good about A because A is being nice to you. So now A feels even better about you. And on and on.
Wellll. MX 135 is fast becoming an interesting item.
I ran into a couple of people that I have known for quite a few years. One never gave me the time of day when I was overweight - always polite, never flirty with me (he was with the other thinner women). Anyhooo he has seen me since I lost the weight so it cannot be that.
When i walked over to the table where he was, he sniffed me and asked me to give him a hug. His friend then said it was unfair that HE was not getting a hug from me (???) So I hugged him. The first guy then exclaimed “OMG what is that perfume you are wearing?” “It smells SOOOOOOOOOOO GOOOOOOOOOD!” (Pink Sugar/MX135)
I have to tell you this was so weird for me. These guys are nice, but always kept their distance. It was really out of character for both of them.
Also, when I wear honesty, I DO notice that people get chatty with me. Strangers mostly.
I have always been really shy, nerdy and, well, to be honest a huge computer GEEK. Now I feel like the life of the party! What a paradigm shift for me.
As I mentioned in another post, I think the new people should know about the underestimated, powerful and extremely positive self-effects of the pheros.
Many newbies are buying the products to attract the opposite sex - which I think is great, but I think there should be more emphasis on the self-improvement benefits as well!
To say that these products have improved my life is an understatement. I was so skeptical at first, but the results are there.
Yes, i usually use 3-4 sprays. mostly to my hair. Seems anal retentive, but I keep the same thing on the same side, like shine on the right, sexiness on the left.
I am now reading posts where people are trying it in different places - like on their sheets and furniture, etc. Hmmm…
I would love to spray something like Spaceland all around my workplace. That could make for fun times! Alas, there is always someone there, and I have no excuse to use for why I’m spraying something everywhere. :o
Oust? ROFLMAO! I can only imagine in my house. I have 3 pre-teens (12, 10, 10). Gawd, you should hear and see their antics when their friends are over. Hmmmm. Maybe I should get some Spaceland to diffuse. Might be nice if they were all spaced out for a half hour.
Ok, so this evening will be an experiment. I have been brewing my LAM in a vial with some Pink Sugar. I’m going to use that, and OF COURSE my fave MX135. What effect will it have on my very conservative and serious hubby?
BTW - did I mention that the pink sugar people also make a scent called chocolate lovers? it really has chocolate in it, as well as a tiny hint of pachouli maybe? Anyway, it works really well with mx135 and those kind of scents. it smells like walking into a bakery that serves coffee and has just pulled a batch of brownies out of the oven!
Ok… It’s been awhile.
Stuff has been happening, but it’s not as exciting as the things that are happening to my fellow SINGLE Jaguars <sigh>.
I did get some weird hits from in-laws over the Easter holiday. My BIL asked me if I had a six-pack (just for the record, I do not), and generally hung on my every boring word rather than watching the game. Seriously out of character.
My BFF and I were out having coffee, and the mgr just pulled up a chair and started chatting w/me. I kept looking at my friend like WTF? When we went to lunch, my friend asked if I noticed that the waiters (all around 20 something) were totally checking us out!
I dunno, maybe they wanted me to drive them to soccer practice or something.
I just got a call from my son to say a DHL package arrived from “BEVERLY HILLS CALIFORNIA!!!”. “WOW! CAN I OPEN IT???”
Nooooooooooooo! Just drop the package, kid, and back away…
So much for the down low! It’s my P83, P79 & TAA!!! I am going to brew up a batch of something naughty this evening to test tomorrow. Bwahaha…
I realized that I seem to be going to the same places with the same “mix”. If I am going to be a true experimenter, I must change up my application AND start going to different places. Hence my new order.
Ok. It’s been a rough week - I need to come clean…
I’ve been trying to use the pheromones to revive my long-term relationship (over 10 years) - it aint working.
It’s not the pheromones - I am suddenly getting hit on by random guys at the store and other places. People are now treating me like a celebrity.
Which is nice. But not a big deal.
Also, I must admit that I have a HUGE crush on someone that is not the guy that I am with… I am obsessed.
My man does not seem to care that I am getting hits from other guys - WTF? He does not try harder or act jealous. He is not loving or affectionate even with ample doses of LAM.
I guess I am writing this because I want to be honest from now on about why I use certain pheromones and why.
I don’t want to be cryptic because that compromises the results of how affective these pheromones are. So there you have it.
Best wishes, Phernoob… I’m sure most of us can sympathize to at least a small extent. It never feels good.
I think the most important thing right now is that you’re honest with yourself, and honest with him. Have you spoken to him about how you feel? If he doesn’t seem open to conversation, don’t just accept it passively. It’d be different if he wasn’t in the mood at the time… but from what I understand, this is more or less a constant. Take initiative! Let him know what’s on you mind!
And, it may not seem like the easiest thing to consider, but you have a decision to make… Is this worth it? Do what’s best for you. Make the most out of life! You don’t want to be sitting around feeling bored, ignored, and nostalgic when you could be pursuing potentially greater things. The journey and the destination are equal rewards.
I truly hope things turn out for the best. Keep your head up, and don’t let anyone bring you down.
