I don’t think it just has to do with the guy being great. It has to do with both people being in love. Even the greatest guy in the world won’t be all that sweet to you if he isn’t in love with you.
They’re out there, Noob… we’re all looking for them. Stay on your side of the Appalachians, will ya!!! 
And Woofie, we blondes & strawberry blondes usually go pure white or silver instead of gray. Sexy!!
I thought that fell under general human compassion. sorry if something is affecting my mate, it will be affecting me as well.
sorry, I may get wrapped up in my work but if someone needs my time I will find a way to provide it. even if it means the loss of something less important.
Of course it is general human compassion to care. And for friends you help and support the sick or injured person as much as possible. But for the unending monotonous serious intense scary stuff, that requires love. Such as a best friend, bf or h, or family. When times get tough, an uncomitted bf or husband who is halfway out the door, no matter how great he is, just isn’t as attentive and there for you like a best friend or someone else who loves you. My opinion from my experience. Your mileage may vary.
Shite. i had the fuckin best day evah. omg. i guess there are residual effects of mx282!!!
Good - glad to hear it. I always love having a day like that. Well - out with the details …
I agree. Excellent observation.
More pieces to the puzzle of Miss Jane and our dear Tiggerbear. I always liked those white Tigers … lol.
Details?
wow. how often do girls have a crush on a musician - and have them notice the girl back? omg. one in a million? i cannot believe this is happening to me. like a date with Bono or something… Dayumn. I will keep you posted…
This must be serious - a nice British girl getting all excited about an Irish crooner … lol.
Just don’t forget you have friends here to help you over-analyze everything … lol. 
You are correct, my mother had darker than strawberry blond hair, and hers is now silver and blond, kind of straw colored, (her friend asked, how much she paid to get her hair colored, as she was paying $60 a month to make hers the same color 
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Let me find the scientific data, but the reasons girls develop crushes on singers is their pure tone voices, (I get the same with mine once in a while, but that is because I am slightly bass, not James Earl Jones or Jeff Bridges deep, but deeper than some)
Ok it is 2:30 am here. I finished texting with him at 2:10am - we started at 6:00pm. Hmmm. Went pretty well, I would have to say…
sounds like a fun evening, hope you weren’t laying in bed texting, the whole time…
Do tell, Jane.
I had a boyfriend in highschool. A very handsome, smart, witty, blue-eyed blonde with perfect mutton chops! 
LOL! They were so cool. But he was hardly the physical type that I’m usually attracted to as he was patently obese. That is never my sole criteria for determining whether or not I want to persue a relationship or friendship anyways. We were in choral group together and had a few other extra curricular activities in common. One of the things that attracted me to him, in the first place, was his beautiful tenor voice. We even sang duets together, though he was much better than me. Unfortunately it didn’t last long. His inexperience with women didn’t bother me, but his emotional and religious hang ups did. 
He was hurt and confused and it took him a while to get over it. We actually ended up with a decent frienship and even attended the same college…where we, also, sang together a number of times. At one point I was a tad concerned…when we were in a play together, playing a married couple. There was a scene in which he had to chase me across the stage with a prop gun. Sounds innocent enough, right? Uh huh…that thing shot out a flame two feet long! I had visions of my hair catching fire. Thank God I’m fast on my feet. I often think he really enjoyed that …lol.
Guitar, piano and sax players are hot, too.
Bella
all they have to do is hold a guitar and I’m a goner!!
Picks up his Ukulele cool I am going to find a way to get lucky…
Awwww Woofie, what girl would not love that?
Don’t forget the drummers. They’re ambidextrous and can maintain excellent rhythm and time.
I guess any musician is ok. Things are def gettin’ CRAZY tho. I have not been pursued for years (H insists that I pursued him). So its kinda weird having this guy load on the compliments. You see my pic. Go fig. I look like an Elf. My kid is def way cuter. She looks like her dad thank god.
Sooo. Im afraid to post details. My pic is less than anonymous! And i will have to get a better one. But at least its recent.
I was wearing MX274. My fam thought it was overpowering.
NO way, Noob! You’re BEAUTIFUL! … and never underestimate the power of what’s under the surface. Remember… we are always our own worst critics. Man, do I know that! And I felt the same thing about my guy pursuing me, touching me, telling me I’m beautiful, stuff like that. I thought, is he looking at the same person I see in the mirror every morning? But that in itself is a boost to your self confidence. Put a LOT of MX135 on and let it give you that wonderful ‘I am fabulous and nothing can ruin my day’ feeling. Let the pursuing continue and ENJOY it!! You deserve it. H obviously lost his mind quite a while ago when he stopped seeing you as the gorgeous, wonderful woman you are, so stop putting any weight in what he’s telling you! ENJOY!!! Live and Love Life!!! 
She’s adorable. I haven’t see H, but I think she looks like you. Thank God she doesn’t have his personality.
I’d like to post one too. At the moment, I have a recent one up, but I only have half a face. I really do have a whole face but you know who won’t let me post it. I’m workin’ on him to put up an archival pic…ya know like one from twenty years ago? I’m sure only my mother would recognize me and I seriously doubt she’d show up here. We’ll see…or not…
It’s nice to be pursued. Though I don’t mind pursuing and I’m sure you don’t either, but when it’s always a one way street… Somethin’ tells me H could have a harem of undulating slave girls feeding him grapes and anointing his body with scented oils and he still wouldn’t be happy.
OK, Janey. There’s one thing you gotta do, right now. We’ve said it before and we’re gonna keep sayin’ it til you get it, mkay? STOP putting yourself down! Honey, we’ve all got eyes and ears. You are beautiful in case nobody’s told you. Pretty inside and out!!! This guy ain’t chasin’ a dog! Years of neglect can make anybody feel this way, but it’s time to snap out of it! Got that!!!
I’d like to get hold of H for five minutes…just five little minutes… Well I wouldn’t actually be holding him. Cousin Vinny would be holding him. However I’d be doing the talking. Funny how much clearer my words become when Vin is in the room…lol. Don’t worry I won’t let him touch the face.
Bella
LOL … yeah even I can find a guitar around here somewhere - just don’t ask me to really play it much less sing … lol.