The unique attraction differences when comparing Ammo with IFM. and IFM's transience

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q: “the effect of IFM is undeniably powerful, yet irritatingly transient - discuss”

seems to be quite transient in my experiments. so tonight im at me mates comedy venue watching some ludicrously unfunny comedians, and me date for the nites festivities seems to be cosying up to me with 1 IS/ 2 IO/ 2 IFM…IOI’s ? she seems to insatntly trust me, iniates much convo., sits closer, studied my face and i hers…the IFM making me feel the same about her…comfortable, horny, sexual, crushy.

AMMO VS IFM re: description of attraction felt:

i find IFM mysterious, girls seem to get “crushy”, and sometimes “mildly obsessive”…whereas with Ammo, maybe they get a different “turned on or lusty” effect, devoid of any emotional sensitivity, just an instant lusty, primal reaction, but not “crushy, u could be my boy friend” like im getting with IFM . …they think beyond the now…so i did notice she feeling comfortable and shes chatty and sitting closer to me than her friend,…

“So Jamie, what happend next el padre?”
Anyways, .i retreat to the dunnys and add a 3rd spray, she asked me “y did u take the bag to the toilet? what r u hiding? any needles in there???” lol…but the 3rd spray escalated the rapport and sexual undertones. but then the comedy night finished, the mood broken by the lighting, and the spell i temporarily seemed 2 have her under, unsacrimoniously and quite instantaneously,…dissapeared.

so this has happened a few times with IFM, a strong and definite crushy “im really attracted 2 u” affect…but the spell can be broken within 30 mins…normally with a venue change or convo interrupt. anyone else having this problem? how can i fix it? whta makes IFM last longer?

IFM quotes: “jamie i made u a CD, hope u like it” , “jamie i cant find u on facebook, even though i met u 10 mins ago, i rushed to my laptop and looked u up”…“babe, thats the 3rd time uve asked me if im on facebook” :slight_smile:, “so, arent u gonna take my number now? show me some good places to go in sydney”

versus

AMMO quotes: “sexxy boy! " great cologne” "your really friign well annopying me tonight! i told you already, i am NOT interested! " lol.

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IFM didn’t mysteriously stop working. What happened is your rapport with her changed or broke. Do a Google search on NLP and their ideas about rapport and how to build it…matching & mirroring, etc. But basically when you’re in rapport with someone you’re in synch with them, and feeling what they’re feeling. During the comedy show, you’re both laughing, having a good time, feeling good and sharing a mutual attraction. Then BOOM, the show’s over, and the lights come on, and the whole atmosphere changes. You feel it, she feels it, and it feels awkward, like the attraction has stopped. It hasn’t, not really, you just have to rebuild rapport again by initiating a conversation with her and getting to know her.

IFM is great for rapport building with women. I agree with you about the differences between Ammo & IFM attraction.