Today was the last day of harp camp, and once again I applied a spray of IO split between my wrists and to my chest, and a spray of IFM to each side of my neck. It was also the culmination of the tension and disaster that had been growing since Thursday (as described in my previous threads.) Andrea (my girlfriend) had talked to me once again about Anne’s (an ex-coworker) friendliness and closeness to me during the day. I didn’t see Anne for the earlier part of the day, as she and her mom were late, but when I did see her, she was still as chatty and excitable as before. At one point, while I was sitting next to my girlfriend, she came and sat down on my other side and asked for my number. I gave it to her, aware of the consequences that would arise later, but too kind (and genuinely interested, though I didn’t tell that to my girlfriend) to refuse. I could tell this bothered my girlfriend, and after she had one last biting talk with me later, I sort of ignored Anne when she walked up to us and poked me. After standing there or a good thirty seconds of my not making eye contact with her, except to try to send a sense of desperation and apology with a fleeting glance, she sort of sulked off, and took the elevator. When I did look at her, Anne seemed visibly upset and sad.
Later, Anne and her mom were sitting across the room talking, but I noticed that Anne kept looking across at me, and her mom even looked at me a couple of times, but I can’t read the woman’s facial expressions for anything. I also noticed that when Anne did come over and talk to me, or sit by me, she hardly acknowledged my girlfriend. She barely spoke to Andrea, and barely made eye contact. Later, there was a big argument between Andrea and me about the whole thing, but it’s been fixed. I also made up with Anne after work. She didn’t mention anything about it. We mainly talked about how great it was not to be working anymore.
wow… what a carry on… hope it goes well for you Vespero. I think that it’ll be interesting to see what the social dynamics of you, Andrea and Anne are like when you’re a pheromonal “blank slate” again (without spraying anything, I mean you’ll still be naturally producing pheromones of course!).
When you “sort of ignored Anne” for thirty or so seconds, I wonder if, given the funny counter-intuitive, reverse-psychological ways of attracting women that the pickup pros teach, you actually made her even more interested. I’m not sure of how one would go about discouraging girls actually; it’s not a subject that crops up much in the literature.
I would say a dash of jealousy - well that’s a loaded word, let’s just say “letting your GF know that other girls are interested” - goes a long way. But, like tabasco sauce in a dish, it is possible to overdo it. Looks like all’s turned out well for you in the end.
I can only imagine these 2 (IO and IFM combined) smelling like James Brown. All kinda funk. lolol just kidding but not. anyways good report.
sounds like it all wore off, what was the time difference from when they were close to when they started fighting? hours, minutes later?
btw. Instant Female Magic isnt going to prevent one of the strongest human emotions we have…jealousy…
As in a summer music camp specializing in harp performance? I used to attend symphony camp. I think that’s where I got my first feel 'n kiss. Violin players really put out. Bassoon and oboe players are totally demented from years of brain trauma induced by reed vibration. Great lip and tongue control, lol. I imagine harp players probably have really tough fingertips…