This whole gentleman thing

Im starting a lot of threads, hopefully not getting on too many peoples nerves as I rapidly alternate between the enthusiastic newby and the cynical newby! I can see my stuff has been dispatched now and its due to arrive in a few days.

Basically I know I need to get my hands on the stuff and start playing with it to work out what the score is and at the moment my questions are really just theorizing but in reading around I have come up with a question I cant find much discussion on.

There is a product called intant gentleman and also one called A314, these sound similar, if anything the IG sounds a little like a watered down version of A314 in terms of what it does.

Ive read on the forums the importance of “looking the part” in combo with these products. I get that this is important to look the part with all the products but these 2 it seems “the part” could be very different from some peoples (my) natural look.

It seems someone spraying ammo would be effective in a club walking around, meeting someone for coffee, at a gig or even just at work and they would naturally look the part in those environments.

Ive seen multiple posts on the forum where people talk about walking into a room wearing a suit having used IG or A314 and that adds or amplifies the whole package. What if someone happens to look like a 210lbs biker (not talking fat!) mostly covered in tats with long hair and a beard?

Im not going to have tattoo removal, cut my hair, have a shave and buy a new wardrobe. Obvioulsy my look works for me and I dont work in an office and dont own a suit. In the groups I hang with its a normal look… but i dont think I have ever been called a gentleman - would these 2 products perhaps not be for me and I would be better sticking to a thing like ammo tuth IO etc

I dont like posting pictures of myself online and dont even have a facebook so this isnt me its just a phot I found online to make the point, could you really call someone who looked like this a gentleman:

http://writerchrisweigl.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biker-with-long-hair-2.jpg

No worries about the questions as that is what we are all here for! I find with A314 that for me it is very commanding and gets me a lot of respect and the vibe is that I am a leader and completely in charge and the captain of the ship.

IG for me the main difference I have found is I am way more stable in my mood and I don’t get easily irritated when things go wrong. I still get the respect from everyone, but for me I can easily adjust when things do go wrong(as things always go wrong in life) where as A314 it can make my mood not so good when things don’t go my way.

When using solo A314 VS IG the IG has a more approachable soft vibe which can be a good thing, where as A314 can sometimes if used in high doses can slightly intimidate people and they will perceive me as to high a value and not talk or approach me.

Actually if you test both a good setup is to take 1 drop away from your sweetspot with A314 and try 1 spray of IG and the IG will help make the A314 more stable and useable in a lot of situations.

Pheromones just compliment who we are and a big key I have found with them is to be yourself. I mean I am more clean cut no tattoos with shorter hair and more clean cut, where as you described you have more tattoos and are taller and bigger than me and don’t do the suit thing and A314 or IG would work equally for both of us even though we are very much different!

Pheromones are part of a total package. I think a lot of people think that you can spray “magic in a bottle” and expect things just to go there way and women to just fall in there lap and it does not kind of work that way. To be honest the biggest thing I have found with all of this is to be myself and nothing else. When I got this down and starting using pheromones that is when things really took off for me.

I hope this makes sense and if does not I will try to do better to explain and I hope others come in and offer there advice as well.

The whole suit thing is really just a metaphor to suggest that people do become proactive in taking a bit more care of/interest in themselves, their appearance and projecting best personality traits in order to support the effect of pheros and help get noticed/create a positive mindset where everything will work together to best effect - and maybe its most suited to IG’s smart/sociable nature, especially where younger women and their (generally) wider-ranging attraction triggers are concerned.

IG isn’t really a watered-down version of A314 though - Its a quite different product with more smart/sociable/youthful status feel, compared to A314’s smooth, capable, collected and more mature mastery/in command feel.

And every walk of life has its alphas/leaders/people of status and quality, suited, rich or not, it always shows - and A314/alpha signatures/traits are just as important - so you would be using A314 to support your appearance and personality traits in your world. IME A314 will still suit you just as well around bikers as it will with bosses/potential LTRs etc. :slight_smile:

I’ve never felt the need to dispose of or cover my tats, despite now wearing a suit at work - The hair has taken care of itself though :frowning: and even though I had to give-up the bike when arthritis set-in a few years back, I’ve still ridden since I was a teenager and even though I’ve had to embrace clean living a bit more than I used to, my basic mindset and approach to life is unchanged. :slight_smile:

This made me smile, I reckon I am a few years behind you. Seeing the 1st signs of a bit of thinning!

Yep that is in line with my expectations, some people always expect too much, you cant spray the stuff on a sidewalk tramp and sit across the street and watch him get laid :slight_smile:

I think you nailed the answer to my long question with that one line, I was reading the suit thing literally not metaphorically and if I rolled up on the bike in a armani with some prada boots no amount of ammo would stop me getting my a** kicked!

Thanks for the sustained answers to my daily questions!

Hey no problem we are all here to help each other. To really see big monster hits it took me a while and some long testing to put together some really hard hitting mixes. If your goal is attraction and to really see the effects I might test IShine first just because it will definitely show you the power of pheromones. I almost always use this one in a mix because it is so good and what I like is the standard 6% Neroli I have never found 1 person to be offended by the scent. This is why I suggest this one first because it will show you that these do work.

Then I would test the Ammo for your main goal which is attraction. When you find your best dose for this one then try using the 2 together and you won’t be disappointed. When I need a general mix for daytime use still till this day this is my main go to mix and for any situation pretty much for me outside of work.

That dude on the bike seems pretty fuckin’ alpha to me :wink:

A314 is ALPHA vibe.. for some guys that would translate to a corporate type of persona while for others it m ight be something else, like a tough biker.

Soldiers can be alpha too, when I’m in uniform and wear A314, people step aside and take notice!

IG is more young, social, ‘dreamy’, cool guy-vibe for me..

(And combining the two products have always been a winner in my experience. Others might disagree, but for me there’s a great synergy between these two.)

I’ve tried wearing A314 out at work and didn’t act very alpha and people seemed confused. Like I’d be the one saying ‘excuse me’ and ‘I’m sorry’ while passing by people and they’d give me a look in their eyes like ‘did the king just say I’m sorry?, what the..?’
‘The king mingling with us commoners..?’

On the other hand…
I’ve worn high sexuals (like TUTH) in public and one on one with women,.. and acted very calm and timid and women still would throw themselves at me, obediently and with love, trying to get me to lay the pipe.

I think there’s something definitely to acting the part.
… I just cannot put my finger on it.

I find that mones naturally will put the wearer in that ‘frame of mind’ anyways though. Like when I wear A314 the self effects make me feel like in charge boss.

I’ve worn both and Instant Gentleman is very easy to be congruent with the signature. When I wear A314, the vibe is hit or miss for me.

If the person doesn’t know me well and I’m just in casual clothes, I project a stand off and sometimes confusing vibe. A314 also seems to make me quiet…I wear it when I want silence presence to be the vibe.

With Instant Gentleman, people like me more. Period. I like it because I don’t get burned out when wearing it. I’m not tired, I just feel happy and zen like. People will do things for me and I can approach anyone about anything and things seem to work out in a positive way. I can approach strangers and they will talk to me and be very positive.

Last point: I’ve tried alpha blends from almost every company out there…Instant Gentleman is my hands down favorite. Why? Because all the others have at least some downside to them. No downside at all with Instant Gentleman. Yes, you may want to add a bit of Turn up the Heat for night time use, but Instant Gentleman is a perfect day wear mone that is safe any where. It can be steered any way you want it to go and people feel good around you.