sorry if this is a goofy-sounding thread - but I’m serious…
I have been dating a man who because of work and so forth has been having some self esteem issues. What is the best “mix” I can wear around him to make him feel virile (and of course, very “randy” for me).
Also, if you keep wearing one type of pheromone (I always wear IS/B something sunshiney (Instant Openess, etc.) - does the effect wear off on those you expose it to regularly (while you are wearing it?
I think it’s a great question! Wish I had an answer for you. I am sure one of the vets will pop in and help soon though…
I wouldnt call myself a vet, But I would take a look at wearing some cops around him to make him randy for you (LAM is a good product for this) Around shyer guys I find IS/A is a good one (they seem to like the balance of an alpha women. Also you being into him for who he is will help with his self esteem.
Now to give him manly strength (personalitywise) I would say something with none on (you can wear TUTH, but beware this will get you randy and him, well…wrestling is fun 
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Or you could get him some pheros like A314.
Those are some of my thoughts.
wearing Instant shine around him will help him to feel more positive. And if you need him to open up look at instant honesty or instant openness.
Id say look more towards the reason to find the perfect phero mix.
hoe this has helped a lil and not just confused
CC 
Curious Chic - thank you so much! I never thought about adding Instant Honesty - he’s become somewhat unwilling to talk about how he feels lately, which is adding some distance between us in addition to everything else.
Also want to try A314 - so Turn up the Heat is mostly to make me “randy”? It doesn’t have as much effect on one’s partner?
A314 is for men?
I was reading about A314 - if I wear it - what exactly is the effect on a man supposed to be? From what I was reading, wouldn’t it make him “intimidated” or does it not work that way?
confused (as usual)
Turn Up The Heat is a mens product. It causes arousal in women. Women use it to make sex more intense. When women wear it men get more aggressive. They may feel manly, I dont know, maybe the guys can anwser this question.
A314 on you wont make him feel manly IMO, It may make him more docile in a way. I would get it for him and have him use it. That should up his manly some LOL 
That didnt sound right but you know what I ment (snort)
Oh and you wearing copulins will help raise his testestorone level. Not sure if they stay up after he is no longer exposed to it but that should help to.
So try Copulins TUTH and a sexy teddy.
Tisha
If I’m reading his state of mind correctly, He may have had enough intimidation, and missing feeling the ‘Man’ - I’d go for the cops-based products, and not the ones containing anone such tuth or a314, since he is getting that all day.
what are all the products with copulins?
Bingo!
I can only speak to my own experience here. My husband, Wolf, has a very stressful demanding job. Lots of alpha types to deal with all day long. When he gets home he’s not looking for more aggression…he’s looking for soft curves…not a hard edge. In time you may want him or you to try some more aggressive products containing -none. But for now, if I were in your shoes, I would concentrate on using cops and more feminine pheromones containing cops. Lust After me 5X, and if you wish 20X cops, is the most potent copulin product Androtics offers. A lot of the women here swear by it. I use straight coplins, EoW, to great effect, available at the ‘other place’. Instant Sexiness/A and B both contain light amounts of cops and are effective on their own for sexual attraction. MX135, a personal fav, also contains a small amount. TAH is also a great pheromone for a soft sexy vibe that most men positively respond to…I’ve found. Instant Honesty is invaluable in developing and already close relationships. It can open up communication in a way that must be experienced to be believed. Honestly.
Thing is with all the advice offered throughout this forum, it always boils down to the same thing…we’re all different and have different reactions and responses to the same molecules…you must experiment yourself to see what works best for you. If you haven’t already read the stickies at the top of the women’s forum that’s a good place to start learning and amassing info on how these different molecules work and how to apply them.
I don’t discount that pheromones can give you an edge…but once again in my experience…frankly, nybor, I would use my own femininity and wiles to build his self esteem…make him feel desiable…and let him know that he’s the one who’s provoking these feelings in you. That will work better than anything topical you can apply…every time. Trust me.
And yes people can, with time, become accustomed to your pheromone signature. So it pays to switch it up from time to time…keeps 'em on thier toes.
For what it’s worth I hope that helps.
Bella
Bella, thank you so much - I’m going to order some “copulin” heavy pheromones.
And I’m using all my feminine wiles to help him thru this period - just want the extra edge pheros can give.
thanks again,