Hello iamstretchypanda & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
Interesting nickname btw
Good that you decide to join this forum & your keen interest in pheros Hmm, speed seducer well i guess you have know a lot about dating there & with the pheros here you should have no problem with the ladies 
Ok here is my recommendation to your situations there as listed below:
For question 1: try A314 + Instant Openness
For question 2: try AMMO (AMMO – Sexual Attraction Pheromone Cologne For Men - Alpha A314) + Instant Shine (Instant Shine Spray — Mood Enhancing Pheromone For Men - Alpha A314) + Instant Openness (Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314)
For question 3: try TUTH & Instant Honesty
Here is a link about A314, AMMO, TUTH & the Instants here: mens pheromone guide and i leave it to you to decide on my recommendation there.
I hope i was able to help you out there. See you