Turn Up The Heat on someone who's already had a thing with me..?

There’s this girl I have had a little thing with who spends time with me every couple of weeks. We’ve already spent the night together and kissed on several occasions, though we’ve never actually had sex.

I can tell she wants to get closer to me, but doesn’t put out because of her current romantic situation: she has a boyfriend.

The reports I’ve read here say that Turn Up The Heat is unsuitable in occasions that have not begun sexually - too intimidating. But what about if you know that the person is already sexually interested, but inhibited, due to various reasons? Could it be a short cut?

Well you’re a complete douchebag for wanting to ruin her current relationship.

But now that’s out of the way: TUTH can be hit or miss in situations like this. It could very well work in this scenario. I’d use it in combination with IFM. The comforting aspect of IFM works well in conjunction with TUTH.

If she is already kissing you, yes, TUTH will have the effects you desire. This is the situation that TUTH is pretty much designed for.

obviously there is a moral issue here which i won’t try to push you one way or the other on. but regardless of what people tell you on an internet forum you will likely do as you please anyway.

How old is she?

I would do TUTH & IH or TUTH & IO for the next intimate setting. TUTH neck & chest … IH or IO to the wrist or back of neck.

Two or three sprays of IFM covered by two or three sprays of TUTH does a woman goooooood, 2!~ :wink:

My two Lincolns … and what can you buy with two pennies? Nada. BUT! If you continue to save my two pennies, you’ll be able to purchase something sooner or later! :roll_eyes:

She’s 25. I’m 39.

I am aware about the immorality of the situation. However, it was she who initiated the entire thing by crawling into my bed one night - I hadn’t really thought of her in that way until then. Not that it justifies anything really, but what the hell.

Will give TUTH and Instant Honesty a go next time I see her. Thanks.

danger! something is mentally wrong with this person if she hasn’t dumped her boyfriend. She’s filling a void in her life, and currently, you’ll do.

I’ve been in situations (luckily was too dumb to initiate) similar. nothing happened, and she wound up shacking up with someone else. I was stuck being ‘buddy for a night’ for her 2 year BF while he grieved. call me old fashioned, but I like common courtesy. at least end the old relationship before firing up a physical one with someone else.

but if that doesn’t matter to you, then roll that dice. :slight_smile:

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