I am new here. I am in the 40’s (No not born in them, honest) Originally an Essex boy from over the pond.
I am also a “born again single” and am looking for a little help to start attracting the ladies again
Any suggestions to what to use would be gratefully received.
I have been busy searching, that is how I found my way here. I would really like to no if there is a difference in product results that is age related.
In other words. Can I hold out any hopes at all? Could not find any products called “Passed it” or “over the hill”.
Was outgoing in my formal years, but time and tide (food) has slowed me down, so just lately you will always seem to find me in the kitchen at parties.
And I don’t get many followers, in fact many leavers and usually end up filling up the dishwasher, the electronic kind unfortunately.
Give it to me straight and I will try and keep my head out of the oven.
The title, although true is an antidote to theh08 who posted earlier. I am just jealous.
Hi there, longitude! Welcome PheroTalk, THE mone forum!
Ok, well, you have a fun and outgoing attitude and humor. That SHOULD work in your favor.
Age related differences, yes. In general terms, more -none is produced when we’re young and less as we age. Products with -none (varying amounts) would be AMMO and TUTH. I think that AMMO it is well rounded product and really a good starting point for a sexy confident male vibe with it. However, being from the 40’s () I’d suggest you get AMMO x2 so that you get more mones per spray. Basically, double what the single strength AMMO provides.
Thanks for joining us… plenty of people from all around the globe on the forum that are willing to share their experiences. I’m sure we’ll enjoy your sharp wit!
Well, there are plenty guys in their 40s/50s here and few of us consider themselves over the hill!
For starters, the higher-none, status and more overt mixes do far better with guys (and gals) in our age range, so I’d suggest looking at the likes of A314/TUTH for nightime/partying/clubs, Heavy Ammo for daywear and the socials like Instant Shine and Instant Honesty to shape/steer the mixes in different directions.
Hey! Welcome to the forum! That dishwasher joke.. nice. Yes, there’s still hope!
You asked if there is an age difference in products. There isn’t, but some products need higher doses depending on age. The main pheromone you’ll hear about is androstenone. This one is the sexual attractant mone. Younger men produce more of this, and production slows as we age. Women however are more and more attracted by none as they age. none is found in the consumer line in ammo, TUTH, IJ, and A314. However, all four are are very different in their uses. You can read up on the product info on the site for the basics, ask here if you want to know more!
To recap, it sounds like you’re a male in his 40s. You want to attract women, but for whatever reason it’s not working out.
I think the best thing for you would be ammo. It attracts very nicely. I suggest you get yourself a togo bottle of the 2X strength version. You can start with just one spray and move up. Stop when people start to ignore you. More on that in just a sec.
You also may want to get some IO. It’s basically a product that gets people talking. If you find some women that are too intimidating to approach, IO may be just the thing to start an interaction.
Read into these two threads for more info.
The first one covers just about everything on the basics of pheromone products.
This one is all about finding how many sprays you should use to get the best effect. Really you should be starting off with 1X strength, but you will most likely need more than two sprays, which is why I suggested 2X. How to find your sweet spot… - PheroTalk Pheromone Research Forum
Anyway, that’s about all I have to say. Let us know if you’ve got any more questions! You seem like a pretty funny and charismatic guy.. I’m sure you’ll do great with a little more confidence and the magic juice AD sells!
In the process of editing, it looks like 1Aplha came in and dropped his knowledge on us. Oh well, I’ll just leave mine the way it was
These products all work for guys of any age pretty much the same. You just may need a higher dose of those products that have 'none in them: Ammo, TUTH and maybe a higher dose of A314. As with all these products, you will need to experiment a little to find your sweet spot - that is the point where you see the results you want - or at least are realistic.
I am close to your age depending on where you are in your 40s so my dosing will probably be close to yours. So read through the threads in my signature block and do a search under my name for threads I have started. It should give you an idea of the realm of possibilities - bearing in mind I am married and not out chasing women.
At the beginning of this welcome I said products work pretty much the same for guys no matter what your age is. The one partial exception is IG. Across the board it gives the wearer a smooth, cool kind of vibe. Now for younger guys it often makes them seem older. But for older guys the effect is often to make them seem younger. But you will probably find that in the thread about IG.
Good luck and please ask any questions. We are happy to help.
Many thanks to all you guys that responded, with help, this sure is a great site. And you all have provided, plenty of good advice and reading material.
Mickaelia, I took it the other way, as in he needs help with women who intimidate him, versus wanting to intimidate women. Maybe he can clarify who is right.
longitude, mones should be just part of your “action plan”. Diet and an exercise regimen works.
I think an attitude adjustment is in order as well. 40’s is not “over the hill” I am 50 and now that I have dumped 20 pounds and have been hitting the gym now for a while, I am looking better than what I have in a long time. I know men who are well into their 50’s and are single and having the time of their lives.
