It’s been ages since I posted last, loving my phereos though, and tend to wear them every day.
I got some EoW and I think it had an an effect on the guy I liked from work!!
Well, we had to drive up to Birmingham together - us alone in a van for a 2 hour trip each way, so figured it would be a great way to test the waters with him. So, I doused myself with pheros:
4 drops Eow, 2 behind ears, 1 on each wrist
2 sprays instans shine to chest
4 sprays istant openness, 2 to wrists, 2 to neck
2 sprays instant honesty, 1 to back of nexk, one to hair
1 spray turn up the heat to chest.
All I really wanted was to get us talking again - turns out he lied to me about seeing someone!!! And he was definately flirting the whole time, and he suggested we stop off for lunch, and the whole time, it was how it used to be between us. Fun and chatty and flirty, without being overly flirty - just a cute ‘getting to know someone’ vibe.
And that night at 3.30am, I got a drunken load of missed calls from him, and when I called back, yes he was drunk, but he told me he likes me!!!
So now, I’m even more confused!! And he’s backed off again now. Obviously I don’t want to wear turn up the heat or EoW at work!!! But now I know they definately work - plus I got an awful lot of attention last weekend whilst in a club wearing Eow and ISA!!!
Go girl, take it from a man, he’s interested. Sounds to me as if he is afraid of taking the next step in case you reject him, hence the flirting (giving you the opportunity to take the next step), the drunken phone calls were due to his lowered inhibitions revealing his true feelings.
Anyone who has to go to Birmingham in a van deserves some fun! Grab him, spray him with TUTH, snog his face off and ask him out!
You go gurl! I too think that he’s into you. there’s a good chance that he’s afraid of complicating things for both of you at work. Also he might not want to deal with the rejection, cause he might think that that’s your relationship ( to be a little flirty with each other) So I say, ask him out for drinks and try upping the ante a little, let him know you’re interested as well.
By your thread title, I’m assuming you’re TG (as well) and do you think that might be another factor as well. He might be afraid of looking a little gay ( to his friends), if he get serious with you. Which shouldn’t make a difference. Or he might just not know how to interact that way with a women like ourselves. But hey, men are a little strange that way.
Anyways props to you again for bridging the gap again with your friend!
TG in this instance isn’t meaning “trans-gendered” but it’s an abbreviation used a lot on the women’s forum - I don’t know what it stands for myself… but having read various posts with “TG” in them and judging from the context maybe it stands for “target guy” or something? Someone please enlighten me as to the exact meaning of this bit of women’s-forum esoterica! I meant to ask a long time back but was stricken with noob-shyness:o
Well, I suggested that we hang out together sometime - I though it would be good for us to have some time away from the office together - but he totally ignored it!
And has backed off completely!!! Guess he was just playing.
But, I have a works event next Tues, and it’s basically going to be a small conference room full of men (60 of them) and 5 girls!!! Great place to try some pheros out!! And yes, I know it’s work, but I fancy having a little fun, so I was thinking that the following might provoke some amusing hits:
Or is that far too much? LOL - I’ll also be wearing a sophisticated and hot little number, so don’t want to give any of our older clients any heart palpatations!
empl, I’m truly sorry for assuming and the miss-interpretation of the term.
Sounds like a fun night, but again I need some clarity in the abbreviations used, is/o and is/h. Are you meaning instant shine openness and instant shine honesty? Or are there more than just the two instant sexiness?
Once again I apologize for the mistake in decoding the terminology used.
Thanks soo much for clarifying the terms for me. I have both is/o and is/h, but I haven’t tried using them yet. Since I purchased CTTM and got both is/o and is/h in travel sizes as gifts! But I love CTTM, I’m sore the other tow are absolutely fabulous!
