I am an attractive 35 year old divorced woman with no children. Love to have fun, read/reflect, decorate - I work full time and am in school for a business degree. I am originally from the Caribbean, but grew up in the Midwest. I am very outgoing with people I feel comfortable with, but here’s the problem - sometimes its takes awhile to warm up to people. I am pretty introverted. When I tell people I am shy they think I’m lying to them. I don’t get it. It’s like people see a totally different person from the real me. Since my divorce I have dated a couple times, but nothing came of it. And truthfully, that’s fine. I want to become more of an outgoing person again.
Before my marriage, and in the early parts of it, I was fun loving, outgoing and pretty cool to be around. However, I was married to a very overbearing man that I let dull my shine. He’s gone, but so is my shine. You’d think it would be easy to get back, but now I have more insecurities. So I started researching ways to be more engaging, likable and positive. I’m really more interested in feeling better about myself, but am willing to take one for the team and experiment with pheromones to increase male attention.
I know that pheromones will not cause you to be someone you’re not. I get that, but I know the old Cane Sugar Sweet is still here someone . I want to bring her back to the forefront. I’m tired of feeling iffy about myself.
I am learning all I can about pheromones as they are so fascinating to me. I read up about them years ago, but never made any attempt to further that knowledge. I am going through a self discovery phase and stumbled upon the word ‘pheromones’ and decided to pursue it. Looking forward to consuming all the information here and trying my own experiments.
Thinking of purchasing:
Instant Sexiness B
Come Talk To Me (Mix 2)
Instant Shine
MX135 (Grapefruit scent) Instant Openness
TAF
That intro was great, tell us a lot about you and what you’re hoping to get out of using phero’s. I don’t know if you’ve already done a bit of reading on the forum but if you haven’t I’d suggest that you start with the stickies in the womens section. The sticky threads are full of great info
You’ve chosen some great phero’s to start experimenting. One thing I thought I’d comment on though… YOu mention that you are a bit introverted and come across as shy before you warm up to people? If that’s the case I’d suggest that maybe you try IS/a instead of IS/b as IS/b is a softer feminine phero, and if you want to boost your personality and get that extra li’ll oumph then IS/a would probably be better. I’m a bit of an introvert myself and IS/b makes me feel like the little damsel in distress, whereas IS/a gives me a lot of sexy confidence. IS/b to me is more soft & romantic.
IS/b I read to be softer, but I am so not interested in the damsel in distress feeling. I guess I thought IS/a would be too much of a leap for me. I’ll have to rethink this. Thanks
Another question - in a couple weeks I will be attending a large convention. We’re talking about 5-7000 people. Hoping my order arrives in time, I’m thinking this will be a perfect opportunity to experiment.
Any warnings for dealing with pheromones in such a large crowd of various aged men and women?
You should be fine in the group environment, just don’t over do it.
For your info - Instant Honesty and Instant Openness are my favourite products for conventions.
Good to see you have already done a good amount of research. If you have not already I recommend reading the womens guideand spending a good amount of time in the womens forum here
Hi there Cane Sugar and welcome to the PheroTalk forum. I’m sure you will find a new home here as well .
I used to live in Grenada and Dominica for a while so I know the culture shock you must be experiencing. You’ll adapt and do very well.
As far as personalty types and mones I think you’ll do fine with the Isexi B. Just remember that where as it will make you seem more feminine if you toss in your natural allure I don’t believe you will have any problems with men approaching you and wanting to chat. As far as the convention thingy goes, just be yourself. The real trick with mones is to be yourself and let the mones work in the background as a tool. Just like a hot new blouse attracts attention, its still you that they are paying attention to. Take that same blouse and put it on a not so hot person and all of a sudden a whole lot less attention (there is somebody for everybody though). Mones work the same way in the background. You’ll do fine
. I want to bring her back to the forefront. I’m tired of feeling iffy about myself.