Wanted: Expert Help! :)

Hey Guys! I apologize in advance for the ridiculously long post and thank anyone who reads it in full! In addition, I would like to thank user sharkndragon for helping direct my education here thus far.

My first pheromone experience was the girl bottle from the company JO. It was ok but I wanted more. This catapulted me to Androtics and this amazing forum. I have been surfing the forum and soaking up all the great info that this site has to offer!! I am still a little lost and could use some help from female and male alike.

Just to give you a little over view of me I am a 5’2 red head, I am in pretty good shape, and I do not have one shy bone in my body. I am always the “loud” one in the group. I work in a high pace sales environment. My customers always leave feeling as if we just became best friends because I joke and grow close to them in a short period of time. I am very blessed that to have the personality that I have. (All credit of my personality must be given to my dad!!! AKA most amazing man EVER) So needless to say I do not have a problem talking with ANYONE about ANYTHING. Now enters my dilemma.

A couple of months ago I started seeing a guy, we shall call him Jake. He is a local High School Teacher than myself and a High School Teacher. (I am 25 he is 32) Alas, we met on Match.com. When we started chatting we discovered that we were both looking for the same thing, a LTR and not just a hookup. Our first couple of dates whet great we had instant chemistry. We laughed a lot, got really competitive with some arcade games, etc. Then we slept together… face palm. Our chemistry in the bedroom was explosive and amazing. Then that was all we started doing. It was very frustrating for myself and we just stopped talking. In the 5 months we were not talking I started casually seeing another man. After it ended about 3 weeks letter Jake contacts me again. He apologized for falling off the face of the earth and being a jerk. (No worries girls, I gave him hell and made him work for forgiveness!) We have gone on a couple of dates and they have been even better than the first ones. He pre-planned a date for us this week. He is going to cook for me and have a movie night, something he has never done before. So our chemistry is undeniably there, but I have learned from the past and am not going to put all of my eggs in that basket until he shows some change.

This time around I want to make him over the top crazy for me in the bedroom and for a potential LTR. To make that happen I think it is time for a little help from some pheromones! Knowing my situation now I would love to hear some feedback on what you guys believe would be the best mix for myself/situation.

Because I was still a bit confused on what was right for myself but anxious to try out these pheromones I went ahead and ordered IS A, IS B, and IH. For this week I am thinking that ISA mixed with IH might be better for me because of my already alpha personality. The IH because maybe this will help give him that little kick towards a LTR?

I will be wearing a flowy shorter skirt and a tank top, where would be the best places to apply them? Also, my girlfriend and I were chatting (who is now about to make her first purchase as well!!) and thought of an interesting question; If you knew you were going to be in the “throws of passion” that night with your special someone would putting a spray in your vagina region have any good or just a waste of a spray?

Thank you all so much for taking the time to read my mindless dribble! I am so excited to have help from all the experts on here on creating my insanely toxic mix to make him putty in my hands!!!

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!

  • Reagan

Wow, my very own shout-out :slight_smile: Glad I could help at least point in the right direction…

I Did read the entire post in Full! Sounds like you’re already well on your way to a successful relationship with this guy. He seems to be apologetic about letting things slip away before, and seems willing to put in some effort to get things back on course. That’s Gooood!

It may be difficult, but it’ll be up to the both of you to ensure it doesn’t slip back into the “all sex all the time” category. I know from experience that having chemistry that explosive with someone can make it seem like that’s all there is. It’s always on your minds, and it’s always sought out regardless of when or where or how.

Having said that, I think your focus should remain on the ltr geared fallout mix. IH being a key player. It’ll open him up and cause that feeling of deep connection and trust. The more time he spends with you, the more that feeling will root itself in his brain.

I urge you to research P74 and P75 and the rolls they can play in a proper fallout mix. Since I’m not expert on these putatives, and haven’t done much reading on fallouts geared toward Men, I will let you do the reading, and let the more experienced take it from here…

Good Luck, Reagan

Hello

Well first let me say … DO NOT USE P75

Its to masculine and wont do the same thing on a women as it does on a man. People tend to forget that. IS/A and IH are a good start. P74 is a nice addition. These will harbor more attraction and connection as well as increase intimacy.

I suggest Ishine for everyday use. People tend to want to be around and connect with people that make them feel warm and good. Ishine does that. Bottles says for men but its really not masculine and women love using it.

Ultimately if I were in your shoes though I would break out the big guns.

EST and copulins which you cant get here. Try Love scent for the copulins and Liquid alchemy for the EST.

If you decide to get them and need help let me know.

Tisha

Yes, see? My inexperience shows. Thanks, Tisha for setting me/her straight.

Just curious. Has any female fallout mix been made yet?

My guess would be it contains copulins for sure and some b-nol (Instant Honesty), likely some TAA (Instant Shine). Yet to try/read up heavily on EST. TAH and TAL seemed interesting and I gather they are main components in the Instant Sexiness line. I think TAL in A and TAH in B. I’d also think P74 would be a component but still very, very much a newbie here.

The standard female attraction products plus 3 sprays of IH and add 25 mcg beta nol to it. Dosing. Repetition. Duration of exposure. These are the variables. Folks don’t use as much IH as in the past since the 2X and 4X became too costly and went away. Beta nol alone I don’t figure enough. But IH and nol together may help. I’ve put some effort into understanding this alleged fallout deal, or whatever you care to call it. And like much of the forum, their are gem posts buried in 1000’s of words and the laundry lists of mones in people’s signatures that complicate searches. But the determined will find it. A specific post from Tisha in 2010. Someone asked her what she thought IH was. I think she was correct. Beta nol requires a bit of extra synergy for the full kick. Whatever it’s doing in the brain that provokes the Honesty needs a slight boost of focus to go into full gear. And that’s your fallout, crush, whatever. One reason why A314/IH I think works so damned well.

I’m not sure if a female fallout combo has been proven…yet.

But with the help of the Men’s Forum (several of the gents who are chipping in here!)

I created a mix that I’m ecstatic to try out in a few weeks. Will surely report results.

I have no advice for you as far as Pheromones go but I may be able to give you help on the relationship side. I have been married to a 5’2" and 7/8’s Red head for 10 years. She is an all star athlete, and she light up any room she is in. People are just naturally drawn to her. So I see that she may be quite like you.
I dated her for 2 1/2 years then got married. Our wedding night was the first night I had ever slept with anyone. It is my recommended method but that isn’t really what people want to hear so I have some other thoughts for you. I have had a lot of friends do it ether way but something that they all agree on for LTR is passion cannot be part of the foundation. Passion is what makes a relationship beautiful but it has to be supported by friendship and trust. What it looks like to me is that you had started to build a relationship but then added fire and burnt it out because you didn’t know how to control it. Think of it as getting a stack of wood and lighting it on fire. you were so mesmerized by the beauty of the flame that you didn’t realize that you had burnt through your fuel source until it was too late. I could be completely wrong in your situation but I have had a lot of friends that did it but never got back together. So the fact that you to are trying again is AWESOME. Just make sure you spend plenty of time off the bed in order to stranghen your relationship. Do activities that bring you closer together. I recomend rock climbing. Find a gym or go climb a mountain. Good luck and I hope this helps. And yes I do understand that it is very easy to get carried away having sex and not doing much of anything else. I’ve been there to and we just had to switch direction. Have fun building your LTR. It isn’t easy but it’s worth it.