I’ve been looking through these forums for a couple of evenings now and I think it’s given a different perspective on my life that I previously hadn’t considered. In light of this I could use a little advice.
Let me give you a little background info.
I live in the England and a year and a half ago I started a new job in the healthcare sector. I’d been out of work for some years (taking time out to look after the kids) and was able to get an interview with the NHS. I have absolutely no qualifications whatsoever, only a handfull of mediocre grades from high school, but never the less I was successful in the interview being the last man standing from what I found out later to be over 250 applicants for the job!
Forwarding to the present, I’m now part of the senior staff and run the section I started in having beaten off a lot of more experienced staff members to the post. Upper management seem to love me, and my staff (I have 20!) look at me with trust and respect. I seem to have created a balance between the different ranks, all seeming to be off guard and friendly with me.
I’d like to say before I continue that I’m far from an arrogant man, not even cocky. Nor am I particularly attractive. I’m in my mid thirties, overweight and probably fairly low on a womans ‘out of ten’ scale. Dispite these physical setbacks I’m happily married to a good looking woman. We met when she was married to a person I would consider to be better looking than myself, but left him for me. I was always attracted to her but because of her marital status I kept those feelings hidden. I discovered she felt the same when she kissed me one night out of the blue!
My point is that these sorts of things have happened often throughout my life but I’ve never really understood why. Why are people friendlier and more open with me than with others? Why when I’m not an attractive guy would my wonderful wife leave a better looking man than myself to be with me? I’ve often thought it must be something I actually do that I’m not aware of, but reading here I also wonder whether there’s a ‘vibe’ I give off on a physiological level that has aided me over the years.
Either way I’d quite like to increase that vibe in the workplace and it seems others are having positive experiences with A314. I’d also like something my wife and I could have fun with (this is how I discovered this site in the first place). I’ve read somewhere on here that pheromones really only work effectively on people who don’t know you well, I’m not sure if this will have an effect on the wife and I using them. Looking through the products available in the UK it seems pretty limited fair so I think I’ll order from Androtics.
Thanks for sticking with my waffling on, any advice on products or purchasing would be very welcome.
For your work, A314 oil is probably ideal - Conveys so many excellent professional/high-status qualities and as an oil base, it settles to a very light and barely perceptible scent quite quickly, which is quite acceptable in the kind of no/low scent environments that are common in healthcare.
For use around your wife, I would suggest some different products, although A314 also conveys great LTR qualities.
Instant Shine - Happy and good to be around feel.
Ammo - All round sexy social guy. Good for going out. Combines superbly with IS.
IH - Increases closeness and bonding. Great for those “shared moments”
TUTH - Absolutely intended for use between sexual partners in an established relationship. Save this for when you go to bed.
TAC - An experimental product, so no AD warranty here but it has been noted for its enhancing properties during sex. Apply 20+ mcg, some TUTH and don’t hold us responsible for any sex-related injuries!
Hi there, Mobocaster has give you a very precise recommendation… what I would also suggest that use just 1 drop of A314 and slowly work your way up on the dossage to your sweet spot where you get the best results. I told so cause I feel that if you start wearing lets say 2-3 drops suddenly, it may possibly cause insecurity with your superiors… to avoid this.. its better to gradually expose them… till they have mentally accepted the highstatus signature of A314…
Yup - start low and work-up with the A314, give it a few days between each step too.
A314 oil can take a bit longer to get the hang-of compared to other products due to its complex, subtle and wide ranging nature. I reckon I took about a month to get comfortable around it at work and it still occasionally surprises me with the occasional new facet a couple of years later!
Follow the Sweet Spot Guide in this thread for the most efficent way of evaluating new products:
This thread also covers all the basics of choosing and using pheros effectively.
not quiet… after a few years of use, I have taken clean breaks for more than a month and did not see any major difference in behavior from my colleagues who has been exposed to A314
Not exactly negative but it is the case that some folk who knew me well did not quite know how to take me with my new phero sig for a while - This was most marked with A314.
However, after a few weeks, they did adjust to me and all went well.
Similarly a few colleagues were slightly unnerved and there were a few moments where I was required to back-up my new “superior” signals but again, by the end of a month or so they had adjusted just fine.
