I know what Instant honesty and instant openness do, but what exactly should I be looking for? People who I don’t know start talking to me? Freinds telling me stuff they wouldn’t normally? because maybe I haven’t been looking for the right stuff.
Some people might initiate conversation with you, people that might otherwise be “out of your league” might be more receptive to you when you initiate the conversations. IO seems to be a good mood lifter so look for light hearted chit chat. IH is a bit more serious and deep. The few times I’ve tested it it works slower, yes people might give more personal information or talk more openly about certain subjects but only after a few minutes of initial casual convo. With IO the talk usually stays casual unless you’re using other mones to steer it. IO plus TuTH for example could get conversations to take a very sexual direction.