figured it out!
Which spray should really depend on the specific effect you want to have. You’ve probably read the description for each bottle. I think it’s best to start off slow and do 1-2 sprays of whichever product, alone. This way, you can learn to pay attention to how each spray effects you and others. (do you like it or not ? Was this considered a hit or would you like tt see more hits ?) Than, once you feel comfortable, ante it up !
cookie girl just pretty much summed it up 
great job cookie 