Hey, nothing against you, your a cool person and all, but no post isn’t without it’s off topicness and while the matter at hand has been thought through by both me and my sister I still had to speak my piece and nothing said here has gone too far from what I can see. It’s all just truth. Which was the main point of my post. I was trying to get out the truth. And now that we know that I never lied I think it’s come down to what exactly I wanted to say and exactly what I wanted people to know. If someone else does say something else against me I will defend myself.
You may think I’m embarrassing myself or whatever you call it, but I have my way of doing things and you have yours, and I’d rather stand up for myself then let people call me a liar and a TROLL.
What else would one talk about other then there beliefs and opinions. How come when I state my opinion you almost always feel threatened by it and have need to insult me ? I just don’t get it and we went through this before on other subjects. It seems like the only opinions that counts to you are the ones that match your own.
I am sorry you don’t like my posting style. I wasn’t lecturing on purpose I was just sharing my opinion on a subject that came up. The censoring of LP on the forum. I cant write in little snippets and witty little phrases like you its just not me. I bring up light and dark a lot because it is a belief ingrained in me. Just like other people bring up things that are close to them.
What does that have to do with the conversation. I never mentioned it in this post and I don’t recall even talking about truth. Your gonna judge me for that to ?
Your right, there is a lot I wont and cant say out of respect for both sides you don’t have a lot of info other then what certain members have told you. I went though all of the episodes with first hand knowledge of what was happening,
Its a forum of course we focus on words.
Nope all forums are spidered almost daily and the posts filed even the deleted ones. You just have to know where to find them. First thing they taught me in my first moderator job. There are other places besides way back to access them to.
I do agree with the girls though let it go before more bitterness is created. Kitsune the best thing to do is talk to Mara. She will explain the rules to you and why what happened happened, and then its her decision because its her forum, She is the only one who can help at this point and the only one whose opinion matters on it.
I just talked to her myself by email and she is very nice but then again she has always been very nice never a bad judgemental word about anyone .
i finally realized what company you are talking about after all the names were dropped and i did some searching…all i know is ordered from them once and never again…it took them over a month to ship the product to me, what horrible customer service, and I am in the US
Er it says it takes about two weeks or more to get a product lol I always read a sellers shipping page. BPAL has the same policy its pretty common for custom blended oils.
As for witches or otherwise.
I’m not going to judge someones religious practices mainstream or otherwise I have my own beliefs and that’s fine for me let the rest of the world think what it wants or needs to.
Although I will say I’m particularly fond of Buddhists.
Actually denec Electra is right. Custom made oils can take a while and they have a pretty good tat time over there. 2 weeks is good compared to most companies who custom make there oils.
You dont see a lot of oils here because of the work that go’s into it.
but mine was not a custom blend it was an unscented phero that they got from stone phero
sort of like SOE, i cannot even remember the name
that would have been fine if they said up front it would take 1 month, but they never said it would take that long. It did say 14 days, but over a month is ridiculous. I forgot how long exactly but it was definitely over a month
EDIT: I just checked all my emails out of curiosity ( i keep all my emails since they give you like 3 TB now or something like that LOL) and I ordered on March 7th, and received it on April 9th
As I recall, Ail was only banned from the Men’s Forum. That, for attacking PUAs. She was repeatedly warned it was against Men’ forum rules. After she was banned from the Men’s forum she left the site and demanded all her posts be removed.
NOT correct. She is a very close friend of mine. She was banned from the ENTIRE community. That was when she requested that her posts be removed. BUT, they only changed her username and would not remove her posts.
And, just for the record, she did not do the attacking. It was the other way around. She was called some very vile and ugly things, and only entered the dicussion in the first place because it was a discussion that had several men AND women involved in it.
The hell she didn’t!!! Before you correct others and set records straight, you should know what you’re talking about. She may be a good friend of yours, but she made a lot of enemies here!
Oh, I know the story, as I read all of the posts and the whole discussion. It seems that this is a community that I don’t wish to be a part of. Over and out.
Almost. She was originally only banned from the Men’s Forum, but kept posting gripes in the other sections so was banned from the entire site. She also got banned over at Love Scent.
It’s kind of too bad 'cause I really liked her until she went nuts.
Yes she posted in the mens section in one of the PUA threads and got into a heated discussion that resulted in name calling on both sides.
She was banned from only the mens section of the forum because it clearly indicates at the top of both the womens and the mens forum that if you cant play nice in the opposite genders respective forum to stay out of them. Rule is still posted in both stickies. This is easily proven by using google to search wayback archives. Once in the site search Pherotalk.com and its all there in black and white. Those posts can not be removed by Androtics from the internet archives even once deleted here. All forums and websites for that matter are spidered.
The men however were not banned because they did not violate the rules and they stayed in the mens forum. But I will say in Ail’s defense a few of them were down right disgusting and mean and were as much responsible for the whole episode as Ail was. After all fire wont burn without fuel and they did not hesitate to fuel it. If I were moderator back then all of them would have been banned but I wasn’t. It was not fair to just ban her but in this forum the men have always gotten preferential treatment. (edited to add)… Neither Steve nor I were involved with the forum other then members and both of us tried to change the preferential treatment here after he became admin and I became mod.
After that she was harassed by PM from what I understand and the rest I am not privy to and occurred between her and Jasmin which resulted her being banned from the rest of the forum and the change of her name.
She may have requested that part I am not sure but I know she didn’t feel welcome safe or comfortable here any longer.
Unless you were here for it no you do not know the whole story Dj. But just as you pointed out to me over and over in the beginning of this thread that happykitsune violated a posted rule over there and this is why she was banned. Ail violated a posted rule here and now you are also boardering on it as well. Course we will give you a warning first.
Now you are certainly welcome to be a part of the community here if you choose to but if your just coming over to stir up trouble then you know where the X button is.
I will say that I do understand why Mara banned Happykitsune because of the rule violation and inconsistent information she had posted over there but I know kitsune and it was not done to cause distress in the forum over there. Granted rules are rules and as many of us pointed out she needs to contact Mara. It is her forum and she has the right to protect and run it as she see’s fit. However your coming here and dragging up old hurtful business that I am sure Ail would not want to relive just has one purpose. To cause distress in our forum. It also can result in more hurtful things being said about her which is just not fair to her. I know you care for her and you want to defend and support your friend just as we care for kitsune and want to support and defend her.
As I stated before let the bitter fueding end. There are good people in both forums. Both places have good products. Everyone not just the people there but the people here need to forgive and move on.
