What I’d really like to do is throw away all my same-old jeans and polo shirts and start with nothing but suits and business casual. That would force me to get used to dressing well, until it was a habit. Then I could add in some shorts. Steve! lol
Ist, I’m talking about my wife before she said romantic feelings towards me It does appear to be Catlords scenario #2, her breast would push against the side of my arm while in lineor would lean into me if she was laughing or giggling. (whenI was using p79 with tuth ,she’d ggigle alot).
She didn’t tell me about have feelings toward me till we went to a ministry discourse about tearing down emotional walls and baricades.
I dont think its that women dont do it. I think its just they wont admit it they do it. Plus I am not saying its appropriate to boob hot strangers on the street. I am saying once a attraction and connection has been made it commonly happens..
My husband and I communicate on so many different levels depending on our moods. Sure there are times when we are both blunt. Just shouting “lets go” can be fun but there is something to be said for “dancing the dance” (thats my mothers phrase LOL) now and then. It keeps things Mysterious, fresh and new. It prevents the relationship from being same old same old . Which is one of the reasons I started using mones to begin with. There are times when he will be blunt like your SO is and just say “wanna go” but there are many times when he will go with the flow and let things build.
Hell my mom and dad are in there Eighties and they still boob and peacock. Its probably why they have been blissfully together 60 years. My mom always told me and my sister “if you wanna keep your man never stop dancing the dance” Course we both went… ewwww Maaaa… (snort) But what she meant is never stop sending those signals, never stop trying to grab his attention. Never stop flirting with him.
So I have no shame in admitting it…Yep I boob my husband on occasion and thats mild compared to some of the things I do to him
I suspect it may also have something to do with breast size and the degree to which a woman’s subconscious and/or emotional side is allowed to express itself.
sorry,Tisha,
I admit to breaking laws
and Id admit I “boob” people if I did,
but honestly thats just something that seems so blatantly overt that I mind as well just say “do me”.
That I will admit I do
I know toooo many people in the bar biz
to know way too many boob-sizes than any one woman ought to know (its wrong, I tell you)
so Catlord might be off to think size has anything to do
with how open a woman is expressively
(oh my GOD the memories of being flashed by a million breast-sizes …make it go away )
however,
the degree to which her emotional side is allowed to express herself
implies that most openly-emotional expressive women would boob.
LOL.
I just dont see it as that huge of a deal to admit to.
Its like saying I like to have sex.
I believe I’ve been “boobed” a few times before and I think that the trick is not to make it over the top.
I think it sounds like “boobing” is a lot less subltle than what it really is. It’s not that a girl rubs her breasts against you in an blatant way that might make even us guys uncomfortable, it’s more of an “oops just passing by” that makes you wonder if there really was that little space lol. Many times you won’t know for sure if she did it on purpose or if it was an accident (sometimes it is), but you will definitely be thinking of that girl later. Whether it is a hit or not depends on the situation, did she really have to do it? Anyway, if it gives you the confidence to talk to her, just interpret them all as a hits!
I got boobed on a few occasions. One of them happened in a salsa class, where I was wearing Ammo and IH. I was dancing with this woman who appeared to me between 35 and 40. She looked cute, but clearly on the older side. Apparently, the pheromones I was wearing had an effect on her. So, during the dance, she kept getting closer than normal and bumping into me with her boobs. I wasn’t sure if this was her way of flirting, or if she was just stumbling through the dance moves, but it sure felt good. So, going to back to the original question, getting boobed is definitely a hit, unless you have clear indications that it isn’t.
Yup, happens to me - actually one of my female friends does it all the time when we’re out having a big night - but I don’t think it’s a conscious thing most of the time.
Most of the times it’s happened to me it’s because they have been invading my personal space - you want to get closer to someone you like.
Therefore I still class it as a hit, but more from the fact that they wanted to be pysically in contact with me rather than that they were deliberately rubbing their boobs against me. Sort of corresponds to a guy slipping his arm around a girl’s waist and pullling her close - as opposed to whipping out the trouser snake and waving it in her face
reminded me of the Danza Slap lol. from urban dictionary:
This refers to the early years of Tony Danza. Before Who’s the Boss, Danza’s porn name was Tony Nadz. His signature move was the danza slap where he smacked the girl across the face after receiving oral sex and would call out “Danza”. He was known to leave welts.
You have got to be kidding!!! This is a hit??? NO!!! I have tears in my eyes and hiding in the corner now!
Apart from what I’ll say next, this happens a lot to me in bars.
I’ve have had this discussion with some friends (female). It goes something like this…
I have a VERY vivid memory of a hair dresser that I would go to all the time. She was a perfect 10 and I mean Perfect, amazing eyes, hair, ass, figure, frigin everything was just right! Not to mention the twins!. I was about 25 at the time and I would request her every time I got my hair cut. She would do the boob rub on my shoulders ALL the time. It would happen at lest 10+ times in the duration of the cut (she didn’t have short arms either by the way) I used to think, yep, that’s just the norm, her style. Until I talked to these female friends of mine… they were like “ummm, no, that’s not normal”. I refuse to believe them because it would mean I let this one go…
You guys suck! You really do… post’s like this should be removed for the egos of the few that didn’t know what this could have meant.
It’s kind of like the girl sleep over thing. You all getting naked and having pillow fights… I was devastated when I found out that’s not what happens! haha
Hahaha
The great thing with the hair dresser was you could erect a marquee and then know pretty much how long you had to get it down before the cape got whipped away and were told “there you go, we’re all done”
My gf boobs me all the time. Sometimes it’s kinda subtle, like passing me in a doorway, and sometimes she’ll just come right up and put her boobs on me. She’s not shy about expressing herself boobularly.