I’m a 21 year old college student. I dress real nice with the latest fashions and I’m well groomed. I have a real hard time talking to women, I’m really shy. So would purchasing pheromones help me @ all?
Hi letsgitit,
Welcome to the forum! Pheromones normally enhance your personality, doesn’t create what you don’t have. You need to work on your socializing skills, get into dance classes, gym (aerobics) or just work out, places where there is a big population where you will meet women on regular basis who are probably looking to socialize as much as you do.
Then try using some of the pheros on the Instant line, like the Instant Shine, Instant Openness and Ammo is a good phero giving a sexual vibe well buffered with some social mones.
Reading a good book on the subject like The Mystery Method can point you to how develop your skills in that area.
I am sure you will get even better suggestions from some of our experienced members in the game.
Kusro 
Hey, We’re both in the same boat in terms of shyness.
What Kurso says, definately, is correct. No better way to help overcome your fear of shyness than to jump headfirst into the sea of socializing.
From my experience, if you need that little extra boost of confidence, the fine Androtics direct products will definately help the otherwise akward to help gain self-confidence. What I would reccomend is either A314 or turn up the heat to give you a feeling of “owning” wherever you may end up in, and balancing that with either Instant Shine or Instant openness. I have experience with Instant shine and turn up the heat. From what I can tell, they seem to build on each other quite nicely, but because of the potency of it, I would reccomend either 2 sprays Instant shine or Instant Openness to 1 part Ammunition…
Shoot, just buy all of the commercial products!
They’re worth it!
If you’re a little skeptical about these, and for whatever reason, don’t want to/cannot throw $80 into it for two bottles of sprays, I would reccomend browsing through the to-go sprays and ordering accordingly to the desired effect you’re looking for.
Yes they will benefit you but they wont do all the work for you. Products like IO and IH have self effects as well as effecting others. You will feel more comfortable openning upand talking with others.
Ammo will attract attention and boost confidence.
IShine will draw people to you and make you both feel upbeat happy and comfortable.
These are the best choices in mones for your shyness.
TUTH would be to over the top for you till you work on your shyness.
Mones take a little practice but once you learn how to use them they can be really fun and helpful to use.
Be sure to head on up to the intro section at the top of main forum page and post a intro so you can get a GC for $15 on the products.
Keep in mind they have to-go products which are small and inexpensive so you can try them out first.
Knowing your shy and having a willingness to work on it is half the battle. Do some of the things that Kusro mentioned and try out a few mones and you will overcome it.
Tisha
What Tisha said.
Highlights: They will help you but you will have to interact socially for them to really give you an edge.
Tisha also gave you some great product advice. Go for the social products: IO, IH or CTTM2. Ammo is great but start low. TUTH is probably a little strong for your needs and age. We have had a few guys reporting 'none ODs here lately. It ain’t pretty.
Say hello in the Intro section with a little more about yourself and get that gift certificate Tisha and SteveO would love to send you.
Hey letsgitit, Tisha and Bosshank have given you some great advice on phero selections, so I will just agree on what they said. I will add that Come Talk To Me Mix 2 would be a good choice for you too, and is a 50/50 mix of Alpha and Beta Androstenol, which are the main compounds in Instant Openness and Instant Honesty respectively.
I do have an exercise for you though, which should help you overcome your shyness: Make it a point to say hello to everybody you pass by at school. You don’t have to say anything more than that, and I think you will find that soon it will become lot easier to strike up longer conversations with people. You will probably also find that people in general are more friendly than you might have thought.
Yes, it will, provided that you help yourself too. Being shy won’t be an advantage to you. Make a habit, talk to people, make new friends and I don’t see why it won’t work for you. I make new friends via Yahoo Messenger. You wont believe me if I tell you that young girls travelled many miles to meet me! Perhaps pheromones can travel thru internet cables too, who knows?
Anyway, welcome to the forum and good luck to you!
Good point Mohammad, The pheromones while being very helpful wont do it all. I know its hard when your shy. Its not something you can just stop doing instantly. The pheromones will help you open up a bit. Sometimes people who are shy are fine once they get past the initial first meeting of a person.
My oldest son was extremely shy to the extent that he wouldnt anwser the phone when it rang and I actually helped him out of it by having him do certain little exercises when we were out in public. I actually took him out and coached him lol. He was to young to use pheromones at the time so he didnt have the extra edge.
So start out at trying to be more open by smiling and making eye contact more with women. Once your comfortable with that say hello or good morning in passing. Not to stop and talk but just as your walking by. Then move on to “Hi How are you today?” The social pheromones will kick in and make them more responsive so you can get past that first meeting gitters. Once your used to it, it will become natural and you wont feel as shy.
Between the pheromones and practicing the above you will easily be able to become alot less shy.
Tisha
Thanks, Tisha!