Jenni thanks so much for the extra input as it really helps to see that i can now recommend you another mone that would work great for your needs. Instant openness is said to be the ice breaker and is universal meaning its for men and women! It will help you to feel at ease in new social situations and with new people, you will be more confident in approaching people, and the convos continue to flow nicely without a lot of awkward silences. You may even find people telling you things things where they feel like they have known you for years.
You can pair these two together to get the best effects once you find your sweet spot with each ! The instant openness will also break down that barrier where people feel you may be unapproachable and its like an open door if you will.
Hope this adds a bit more of help to your needs!