Hello. My name is Dean. I am 18 years old. I am a male. I’m from Chicago, Illinois. I look at myself as an ALPHA male but others don’t seem to. I started working out and gained some good muscle and strength. I would think that big muscles and higher strength would get me respect because no one wants to screw with that, but it doesn’t seem like it. I came here to get some products to gain respect and authority so I don’t have to whoop someone’s a$$ to get respect. I would also like some more success with women even though I don’t really have trouble with that. I have been looking at your products and I think I might buy all of them..lol..I have to buy a suitcase and store them in there..lol..I see that you can select different strengths of the products..Does this mean that the effects will be increased but the amount of cologne you get is still the same as the amount of the lowest strength? So, in simpler words, the more strength you buy, the less amount of sprays you have to use to get the same effect every time and vice versa?
Hi dj,
Sounds like you’re an A314 man all the way. This is a trust and respect pheromone, but must be used carefully in order to avoid overdosing.
Another general product I would recommend is Ammo, to help with attracting the women.
Yes, you can order varying strengths which will have an impact on your application. Note, A314 is very strong, and most people only use a drop or two.
dj, have a good read of The Mens Guideand let me know if you have any more questions.
The beautiful Tisha should be online again soon - she should give you a gift certificate.
Be sure to return and let us know your results once you start using pheromones ![]()
Hello Dean!
Welcome to the forum! I’d agree with A314 for the respect.
As for women, I’d go with Ammo and some Instant Openness.
Hello Dean and welcome to the forum.
If you have to whoop some’s a** to get respect you’ve lost the battle. They may fear you but they won’t respect you. Respect is earned, not taken.
A314 is the classic “respect” product here. It can give you a strong alpha leader vibe. The trick is that you have to act like a leader or people will ignore the pheros signature and treat you as they normally would. Try reading the first thread in my signature block to get a realistice expectation of what these products can and cannot do. After that look up renny’s thread called “Congruence? What’s That”.
I mention the congruency thing - acting like the phero signature you are giving off - because you say you feel like an “alpha” but others do not treat you that way. I guess you need to look at what you consider an “alpha”. You also need to look at your behaviors (if you display real leadership) if other people do not see you that way or treat you with respect.
The trick is that A314 gives off such a heavy signal it is often difficult for people as young as yourself to carry it off well. A second thing to bear in mind is that when the A314 works well with you it often creates what I call respect distance - that is people will give you a lot of room out of respect. (I offset that side effect by using IH.) A third detail you need to look at is the fact that a lot of girls your age are not necessarily drawn to the A314 phero signature. It is too “old” for them as it something more like their dad’s age.
What you might consider instead is IG. It will give you a cool, smooth vibewhich draws respect but in a slightly different way. And as a result of that smooth vibe it often makes you seem a little older than you really are.
For a good read on the difference check out the thread in my signature block that compares the two.
You might also consider trying Ammo. It has a balanced dose of 'none in it - and just enough to get the ladies noticing you. This might help also.
You amy also want to look at some Ishine and/or IO. IShine will leave people feeling happy to be around you and IO will help with general conversations.
Hope some of this makes sense. Let us know what you decide to do.
Bro, body build DOES help but trust me the idea of respect has come a long way since the days that brute strength ruled king. There is a lot more to respect, social and physical, than muscle. Don’t forget that, and it’ll help you make better interactions.
Nowadays, people give respect to people that they think really deserve it. Too much shit is going on with the economy etc. and nobody wants to put up with that strongman stuff lol.
If a decently strong person were to say, “I’m bigger than you, don’t fuck with me” in 2009, the average person would tell them to fuck off. This same average person would respond much better to someone who is strong EMOTIONALLY, and CHARACTERISTICALLY. That is the key to respect.
As for the pheromones, the doctor prescribes:
A314 - 2 drops.
Instant Gentleman(switch it up so you don’t intimdate people too badly, and they will treat you with more of a cool respect, rather than a scared respect) - 3 sprays
Ammo has some Androsterone in it as well, which is the primary pheremone that says, “Respect me, I deserve it.” You’ll be interested to know how this works, right?
Younger humans naturally produce more Androstenone - arousal, more attractive
Older humans naturally produce more Androsterone - respect, wise
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk
I suggest Either A314 or IG. Now there is a fine line between respect and intimidation and with your build I think you should start with a to-go of IG and see how you do with that then if you still feel you need more move up to A314.
You start with the regular strength. More is not better with mones its just more. If you find a particular product you need to use more then 4 sprays with consider getting 2X next time and then you would use less sprays.
Your GC is on its way , I look forward to seeing you in the forum ![]()
Tisha
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