1st night out with the JERK

This is my first report. I’ve been using pheros for about 2 months. I finally have some solace and time to give back to the community. So here is my two cents.

Last night I decided to try out my new bottle of instant jerk I just received last night. My mix was

1x instant jerk
2x p74
4x CTTM2
1x TAF
1x A314

We were doin a guys out on the prowl night at a club in NYC. So its 4 guys in total, we have VIP access to this place so we don’t have to wait on line. It turns a female friend turns out to tag along with one of my boys. I don’t know her previous to this but we hit it off pretty well and drinks eventually turned into dancing and dirty grinding. :cool: I’m under the impression she is feeling the instant Jerk and its being buffered with comfort well with the p74 and CTTM2 while DHV with A314. So the music gets bad and we go off away from the music to chill on some seats. We’re getting along well talking, we’ve been holding hands, she’s been leaning her head into my arms and shoulder. We eventually head back up to the dance floor and the music is still pretty wack and the dancing isn’t so together and sensual anymore so I’m thinking it’s probably the music. I couldn’t figure out what it was. :confused:

Eventually … some guy she knows beforehand finds her and they talk and she says the “I need to go to the restroom” deal. -_- So I move on and dance with other girls. Eventually at the end of the night when we all meet up to leave, she is with that other guy downstairs and they end up hangin out. I find out later from friends that they have some sort of history so I was pretty much denied. It sucked because it was a strange club … there was a range from good looking girls to **damn grandma, you need to dye your grey hair before you go out!**There was 40 + yr old women there… In the end there were no other girls I was particularly interested in picking up.

So after this night I am a believer that Instant Jerk DOES work well in clubs buffered. With A314 it gives you that higher value and challenges girls because IJ’s copulins are supposed to give off that I’ve just been with another girl feel. She didn’t seem put off by IJ. I’m not a horrendous conversationalist to begin with but CTTM2 probably helped add comfort with p74 and I ordered TAF because it’s an amplifier of mixes? This was my first night trying that out too.
I applied everything at around 9. By the time things were starting to dull down with this chick it was around 1-130 so I’m thinking next time a reapplication is NECCESARY and will work in my favor.

I was thinking some more IJ and TUTH along with more CTTM2 and p74. I am 22 btw and recently got out of a longggg relationship so I’m getting back into the single life.

I’ve had a similar situation in the past in college where a girl I was goin after also had another guy pursuing her and it seemed like she was feelin the other guy too. What do you guys do in these situations? In my mind, yesterday I made the right move to not follow her around like I’m sooo into her and giving her the power. Instead I moved on with other girls and as a result maybe she would end up seeing me and it would DHV seeing that you’re wanted by not only by her. Last night as a result though I didn’t move any further with her. It’s hard to compete against a guy who has a past with girls. Had breakthroughs in similar experiences guys?

thats what I am having to deal with right now …but I gave up couple days ago. no point.

Do more DHV or just move on. She’s only one chick out of many, many others. A good thing to do is get a couple of women on each arm of yours and let her see it. OR… DHV by gettting a new hot car, bigger house, buy a biz… you know, big stuff. But she better be worth it, otherwise you’ll be pissed.

My advice is to just move on and let her find out later what a mistake it was to let you go. Show her that other women want you. Let her see it but NEVER rub it into her face verbally. Just let her fill in all the blanks on her own.

Don’t be needy. Don’t call her. Cut her off completely. Delete her number out of your phone and if you can’t do it, find a friend who will. It’ll only work against your mind to have her available at your fingertips. You’ll want to say things to her to “rouse” her emotions, and you’ll just dig a hole with her you won’t be able to get out of.

There’s lots of chicks out there for you guy, just go get about 12 of them and you’ll completely forget about this one.

i totaly agree with you nathan ,
And me too i just had a situation 1 week ago, like yours hangin420 . but thanks to these forum i got over it i deleted her number and i cut her off . and yeah she isnt the only one .

just go and get an other girl ..

peace bro

Nice mix of stuff. Not sure you need to throw TUTH into the fray (not saying not to mind you) but you probably do need to reapply the original mix after 3-4 hours in a club environment. Just reapply carefully the first time to get a feel for it.

Nathan is basically right. You cannot go chasing around after her like a lovesick puppydog. And you are right - it is almost impossible to compete with some guy she has a history with as long as she keeps finding her way back to him.

So - do just like you did. Let her go without a word. Until she moves past that other guy - if ever - no matter what happens between you two she will always wander back to him sooner or later.