20 in Ga

I’m a happy girl of twenty in Georgia and I’ve been curious about pheromones for awhile now.

I started out doing work for myself when I was in high school doing little bit kind of things here and there. Got a job a few months back then it filed bankruptcy and I’m working for me again. I’m more than shy and polite I can actually be talkative when we get to know one another.

What got me into them???

Curosity and a guy that notices me but doesn’t really notice me.

He’s twenty seven and everything I ever wanted in a man. He’s smart talented poetic hard working kind considerate passionate dedicated. I could go on and on but I’ll spare you.

He gives me the little sister or best bud treatment even though he’s says I should have a boy friend and believes his presence is scaring them off.
He’ll say something slightly off handed like If I was your man we’d be out as a couple all the time holding hands.

He comments about how I look or how amazingly beautiful I am and he says the all of the things a guy would tell his girl but he just doesn’t see me as the girl that he’d watch walk away. I wanted something to make him notice me as more than that little girl who used to follow him and my brother around when we were all kids.

A friend suggested I try pheromones I hadn’t told her that I had already thought about them and ruled them out because I just didn’t believe in them but after reading this forum I’m actually willing to give them a try.

I perfer the sort of silent here I am for you as opposed to jumping in front of him and saying I want you can we go out.

Does anyone have any recomendations and sucess stories?

Hello ShaniLash! Welcome to the forum sweetheart! It’s nice to have more female members!

I’m more like that too…I’m shy when I don’t know someone, but once I do, I’ll yak like there’s no tommorrow, instant openness is awesome for this! I’m a fan of this stuff, it makes me feel comfy chatting with new people, and people around me also become relaxed and they seem to chat even longer which is fantastic

Aww, man, don’t worry…when a TG treats you like a sister, it hurts, but hey there’s still hope :slight_smile: Anyways from what he said

He sounds like he’s interested in you, cause I don’t think that guys would tell that to any girl, specially if he thinks her as a sister lol Is he your brother’s best buddy or something? If so, maybe that’s why he feels awkward to ask you out or something, maybe he doesn’t want to mess his friendship with your brother.

Now, for silent, hmm, Instant sexiness A. It’s sexy, strong and confident phero. I see this one as a quiet yet sexy one. When I wore this out guys would treat me in an old-fashioned way, got lotsa stares. People just look at you with awe.

Instant sexiness B is also nice but it’s playful, flirty, younger, sexy but I didn’t attract many men who were into serious relationships

Anyhow, try both when you have the chance cause it depends on what type of personality you have.

As for the success stories, just read the reports in the women’s section or use the search bar. There’s so many, I can’t even count them lol!

Ever since they were drooling they were born on the same day.
Thanks I’ll head right over there :smiley:

LOL! ah I see :wink: Well, happy shopping! :slight_smile:

Hi ShaniLash

Nice to have a female member on board :slight_smile: It is good that you are giving the pheros here a try :slight_smile:

Ok for your situation, i agreed with msselva(Happy New Year msselva :smiley:) on her recommendation of Instant Sexiness which come in 2 types there :slight_smile: Both of them have good feedback plus also they are a must have for the ladies here :slight_smile: I suggest Instant Sexiness A for you as it is much suited for you there on my opinion :slight_smile:

I also suggest Instant Openness like Msselva have said as this can make your conversation with the guy that you are after much more better, longer & smoother :slight_smile:

Good luck in trying the pheros & Happy New Year :slight_smile:

Oh yes! Happy New Year Phat and Shanilash!

Hi there,

Welcome to the forum and Happy New Year too.

To get the man attracted, try Instant Sexiness A or B. IS A will make you sexy and attractive the Angelina Jolie vibe. IS B will make you sexy and more feminine, the Monroe vibe.

IH will also good to make him closer to you. It can make him talk more personal and longer lasting. It may bring you out of the friend zone.

Good luck

Hello Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

I think he has a interest as well but either the age or his friendship with your brother is holding him back. He could be afraid if things dont work out for you two he could lose his best friend. Plus men, especially those who have been friends since childhood, have a unspoken agreement with their friends about messing with sisters.

I think you need to take a two part approach. Part 1… mones to project a sexy “got it all together” confident vibe … Instant sexiness A. Dont get B cause that will keep him in big surrogate brother mode.

IH to reinforce your close connection and get him to perhaps open up about his deeper feelings.

Part 2… Now I dont know what you say when he says these sweet things to you but girl, this is the time to flirt a little. You dont have to jump in front of him and say I want you. Just a few well placed innuendos will help push him over the edge.

This is just a example…

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“Ahh, thats sweet, but believe me if I were your women, you would be holding more then my hand.”

Then give him a wink and sashay away. That will scare the memory of pigtails right out of him. Bet he will be right behind you saying "Whats that mean " in seconds flat. Now dont panic remember its a innuendo. Men think of sex right away, They cant help it. But it could mean your heart as well so your not saying anything dirty to him and you can always say something like “figure it out” if he did question it. It will put his mind set in the right place though.

Your GC is on its way :smiley:

Tisha

damn Tisha, you really, really know your stuff lol! :smiley: bows to be baptized by cops

I agree with the winking, and light friendly teasing :smiley: lol…well cross of the word “light”

I remember, I was talking to this dude (seriously this guy has really bad memory power lol) and he asked me if we ever met in person well we never met in person personally except in conferences :roll_eyes: and I said, no. And then he said okay. But then when we said our byes, I just said “yep we’ll see”+smiled (as in we’ll see each other in a conference again), I still don’t know how he took it, but he looked at me with wide eyes and said “what?” and after 10 mins he smiled… don’t know if he took it sexually, didn’t think so, but it certainly made me panicky cause I thought that I said something wrong! but I made myself look calm and collected lol!

Anyhow the moral of the story is to remain cool and collected LOL!! whether you meant it or not, don’t get all shakey haha, cause it happens…even to me sometimes lol

Good luck with that lucky man, sweetie!

Just a quick little update and then I have to get ready to go out

Things have been great the past fews weeks between me and my man well he is now officially.

After a hot shower and a good talk it over with my nerves I decided to try IH and Instant Sexiness A just two sprays each along with a few mini skirts and a few choice tops that I had stored in the back of my closet. My mom decided to replace all my jeans about three years back in effort to be more like the people my age so clothes to go out and party in.

He and my pain in the butt brother were working on changing his car* a 1969 Chevrolet Corvette it’s beautiful* from manual to automatic and he said to me that at some point in time I was going to have to learn to drive that he couldn’t keep giving me rides all the time. I politely handed him his gear stick and smiled as I walked away a turned just to look at him a little and said but why I thought you liked the idea of giving me a ride. When I looked back again he was scratching his head.

At the end of the week at a friends party I was surrounded by guys and you can’t he but flirt back when they flirt with you and after finding a way out to get some fresh air I was rendered breathless and very speechless by one of the best kisses I ever had.

Well what brought this on I asked he paced a bit he always paces before he says something that he’s been dying to get off his chest he stops looks at me paces so more then he just throws up his hands. You shouldn’t be with men like that you should be with a man that appreciates your fire not just your body. A man that will desire your intellect.

Well if you would point me in the general direction he gave me a serious look before taking a deep breath. Woman can’t you see I want you! You’re not like all the others fawning all over me for my looks or what I can give. I didn’t catch much else because it was the first time he had ever referred to me as a woman. Not girl not kid not Rob’s little sister but a woman that just happens to be the object of his affections.

Are you even listening to me you know you are beautiful when you’re lost in thoughts. I never noticed when he put his jacket on my shoulders but I was suddenly aware that I was very so and female and he was very musclar and male. :smiley:

And Now I have to go.

Holy Aphrodite :smiley:

I am so happy for you Shani, this is exciting news. I look forward to hearing more about your new relationship.

You go girl, I knew you could do it :wink:

Tish