I hail from Orlando. I’m 31 yrs old. I heard about pheromones years ago, but never gave them much thought either way. Recently I found a clip in US weekly that picqued my interest. It was about a lotion Jennifer Love Hewitt uses that has pheromones in it. I stumbled upon this forum while searching for reviews.
I’m generally a very shy person. I never approach guys unless a have a few mixed drinks in me first . Anyway, there’s this really cute guy at my gym I would love to get to know better. We’ve been eyeballing each other for months, however neither of us has approached the other…so sad, I know. I don’t want to make the first move so anything that would encourage him to take the plunge would be greatly appreciated. And I have to admit I’m curious if pheromones really work.
It is your prerogative as a woman not to take the first step. Traditionally, that is the man’s duty.
But, that being said, there are definitely pheromones for women that achieve the effect you are after.
Check out the women’s sticky guide in the women’s forum for a short primer on the various effects.
There are also some unisex pheromones that can help you with your shyness; IShine comes to mind. I have also heard of women using IFM on themselves to calm themselves down.
Otherwise, i’ll let some more experienced female users chime in for suggestions.
Hello Choclatgurl1der!
Welcome to the forum! It’s really nice to see a new lady among us. So, again, welcome! I’ve read to your post, and did you already notice any product of your interest? I think that the girls of the forum would be happy of suggesting you some. I think that for you could be good both Instant Ipenness and Instant Sexiness, as the second one also give self-confidencs (at least I’ve read somebody writing about it), while Instant Openness encourage casual chattiness. If you ahve more questions, feel free to ask!
hi welcome to the forum! i always get super excited when a girl joins the forum (cuz it means im more helpful!)
some of my fav pheros include instant sexiness. i think it’s a really good pheros to start with. also, id look into MX274, it is my absolute favorite.
if ur a shy person in general though, id personally try instant openness since it would make conversations flow with more ease
Thanks for the warm welcome. I’ll be putting in a order soon for to-go Instant Sexiness, Instant Shine , Instant Openness and maybe I’ll give mx235 a whirl. I’m sooooo looking forward to how this plays out. I will definitely keep u guys updated.
So your have a target guy in mind, thats good. Have you spoken to him at all or has he given any indicators of interest ?
I think Instant sexiness A is a good choice. It can up your confidence a little as well as give a sexy strong female vibe. Then I suggest either Instant Openness or CTTM to help break the ice. Instant Shine is always a great choice to help uplift the mood and draw people to you.
I know your nervous to approach him but try to give some signals if you can. Hold eye contact, smile, and then continue what your doing. This combined with the pheromones will make it easier for him to approach because may be nervous as well.
Oh and by the way spill girl and tell what this lotion Jennifer Love Hewitt is using is called. I gotta look into that
It’s funny…we’ve had countless opportunities, but we’re both chickens. I’ve caught him watching me numerous times. He even joined me in one of those lil group exercise rooms once. It was just the two of us in there. I was doing walking lunges while he pretended to hit the heavybag. He gave that up after a few minutes and just leaned against the bag and enjoyed the show I was putting on . He followed me outside once and cleared his throat so loud I could hear it over my ipod, scared the crap outta me. I vaguely remember muttering a greeting that one time. You have to understand I’ve been a tomboy all my life. I’m fine with guys as long as they are unavailable and I’m not attracted to them All my guy friends are either married or gay!
Dang you missed your cue. The loud clearing of the throat is a cue he wants to approach. This is where you are supposed to make eye contact and smile. Its OK you can create a new opportunity for him to cue.
See this is how it works, You both become attracted and do the glancing thing for a while. Then the guy will usually begin his approach and do something to to gain your attention right before the actual contact. This is the moment when he is gaging how approachable you are
Now if you have a open stance, make eye contact, and smile he knows he can approach and he has a good chance that you wont think he is a creep or something. Remember he is nervous to, its hard for guys to approach.
But if you mumble, dont make eye contact, close your body stance he takes that as “get away from me” and he pulls back and doesn’t approach.
Once you have your mones be sure to give him another opportunity to approach. If he is in the exercise room go in and lunge LOL Follow him out the door and clear your throat. Walk by him and drop something. You dont have to actually speak until he makes his next approach just give him the signals you are open to his speaking with you.
I know it sounds silly but believe me it works. I can get a monk to approach and speak to me LOL There is a link in my signature to body language. Look it over because it can be very helpful to shy people to learn how to read and convey body language.
I know I need to work on my body language. I have my serious b*tch face on at the gym. I use alot of the free weights and most of the time I’m the only female over in that area. The stares can be very,very unnerving. I had this guy interrupt me in the middle of a set one time, I could have hit over the head with my barbell.
. Anyway, there’s this really cute guy at my gym I would love to get to know better. We’ve been eyeballing each other for months, however neither of us has approached the other…so sad, I know. I don’t want to make the first move so anything that would encourage him to take the plunge would be greatly appreciated. And I have to admit I’m curious if pheromones really work.
. He followed me outside once and cleared his throat so loud I could hear it over my ipod, scared the crap outta me. I vaguely remember muttering a greeting that one time. You have to understand I’ve been a tomboy all my life. I’m fine with guys as long as they are unavailable and I’m not attracted to them