I’m due to go out for dinner tomorrow night with my target’s parents, for the first time. I met the mother briefly a few days ago, and we hit it off immediately, but tomorrow will be the first time meeting her father.
My target has had a very hard time over the last few years, and even after her divorce she was still treated like dirt by her ex.. Naturally, she is very cautious about getting involved in a relationship again, and the parents are very protective.
We’ve known each other for almost 5 years, spend a lot of hours together at work, and have become closer over the last six months - pretty sure I’ve got her trust. (I have keys to her house, all her banking details, and look after nearly all her paperwork for her); But I want to make sure her father gets the impression that I am a reliable guy who genuinely loves his daughter and will protect her.
I’m thinking A314 (2 drops) and some Instant Honesty.
OMG that went in a different direction than expected!
I went with non-AD products - 2 drops Ascend (less imposing than A314) and one drop Evolve.
Hit it off with the parents, all smooth, no problems; but nearby was another friend and her cousin . . . . I met the cousin about a year ago, and she’s recently widowed, maybe a 7 / 10, but a man-eater. She kept sending notes over about how hot I was, sent her phone number, etc; set up a date for next week. My target thought it was all very funny. Of course, a bit of competition and jealousy between women can spark a relationship along, but I’m not sure what to do next week. I know for sure a date next week would end up in the sack, and she’s attractive enough, but my target is the woman I’m in love with. I’m pretty sure that if she found out I had fucked the friend’s cousin, it would be game over. That’s how her marriage ended, with her ex. having a secret affair. And she is 100% certain to find out, as the friend will report everything.
The cousin only visits this town every so often; so I guess the optimal solution would be to go out on the date (to demonstrate that I’m attractive to other women), but stick at a few drinks and then leave. She’s back in 2 months, so if my target is still playing hard to get by then, (been a 12 month campaign), change plans and bang the cousin?
I’m recently divorced, so this is all new to me.
I don’t know what I was thinking when I wrote my last post above - not used to a woman coming on to me like that. I’m guessing the Ascend/Evolve played a role, as when I walked in to the restaurant everybody else was already there. The first table I passed had my friend and her cousin sitting there. I stopped to say hello, we chatted for about 2 minutes, then suddenly the cousin gets up and gives me a hug and a kiss on each cheek (fairly normal behaviour here in Spain), but she lingered over the hug. She will have got a good dose of the Ascend on my ears and the Evolve on my neck (2 hours old at that point). Then I went on to the table with my target and her parents. The evening went by with some good-natured banter and insults between the two tables, but quite quickly the notes started coming over.
At first I was flustered, incase my target thought I might like the other woman. Then I realised that a bit of competition might not be a bad thing, so I stayed cool and tried to enter into the banter/flirting as well. At the end of the evening the woman came over and gave me another hug, lingered again around my neck, then took me by the arm and steered me out of the room. Thankfully my target was near the door and managed to stop us going outside by engaging in some quick conversation! Next thing I know, I hear myself agreeing to a date next week. This woman would aim for one drink then suggest heading back to my place.
At first I was tempted, (being a man), but then reason entered into it; I’m a reasonably well-known personality in the community in my small town, and if I had sex with this woman she would want to make sure that everybody knew about it. It would spell the end of my relationship with my target.
Today at work, my target tells me that the other woman thinks I’m incredibly hot (her words), and can’t believe my target works with me all day without getting wet knickers. The rest of the day she’s flirting like crazy, touching me, dancing to music on the radio in front of me. Then she asks me out to eat with her folks again tonight. I’m just back. We all talked about the man-eater, and my target’s parents said they thought she was too old for me. . . . . Then my target asks me to help with fixing up some fun activites for her kids on the weekend, and announces that she has also arranged what we are doing together for the next 2 weekends after that!
So, it looks like the Ascend/Evolve attracted a competitor, which has resulted in my target making some definite moves to get us to spend more time together! It turns out the parents are a pushover, but my pheromone ploy worked through a different channel than expected. Still a good result!
You have picked-up on just about everything I’d have said about an Ascend/Evolve combo and I’d put a lot of it down to the smart/dashing/younger nature of the non-cops Ascend, combined with the intitally social, then building sexual nature of Evolve.
I also have a feeling that as a result of this competition, your target is now sending-out signals that you really need to start acting-on and driving your interaction in a more sexual direction soon - otherwise blowing the cousin off for the status-quo with her will be sticking you firmly in slobbering lapdog territory.
I had been using the “fallout” combo of A314, Instant Honesty, P83 and some A1 in the form of Cohesion oil. Then I switched to XiSt solo for 4 weeks, with odd top-ups of TUTH/P83 (low dose) or another spray of XiSt for drinks after work.
After 4 weeks I just didn’t feel that the XiSt was doing it for me, and 2 weeks ago I switched back to A314 (now rev.32), P83, Instant Honesty, and Cohesion oil. Almost immediately I saw a more lively reaction at work.
I only wanted to change the vibe a bit for her parents, that one evening, but as reported I got an effect I wasn’t anticipating!
So now I have 2 problems I’m chewing over:
Stick with the proven “fallout” combo during the day, and change to Ascend/Evolve for any evening opportunities (There are a few coming up).
Or move over to Ascend for daytime too?
Keep the date with the man-eating woman for drinks ONLY, and stop at that, - OR cancel the date. (She leaves the following day anyway).
Either way, I agree it’s time to step up to the plate and make a move at one of the up-coming meetings - the problem is getting her on her own! There always seems to be a friend / acquaintance / child around. Last resort will be going for a kiss / make out in the car, as I’m doing all the driving shortly.
