so A314 (oil) and Instant Shine (spray) is all i got. I have been wearing it for a few days now. to mention i am usually very alpha naturally (leo), but I love the effects of A314. so here is my story:
It was new years eve, right after the ball and i had a few too many drinks in (and I was wearing a314 2-3 drops along with 2-3 spray of IS, with armani code parfume as cover), I was getting out of club and saw this gorgous blond girl (26 y o), and instantly stopper her and hugged her (not in a creepy way but in a confident manner), kept talking to her and got her number. texted her the next day and we went to a wine dinner (in a very romantic place), she loved it but was very nervous and self cautious. left thanking a ton without giving me a sextual kiss and only a big pair of blue balls.
asked her out again tonight, went and picked her from her place, brought her to mine, (i was wearing A314 2-3 drops along with A3-14 atleast 3 sprays), I cooked her the best T bone steak, and made a beautiful dinner with expensive wine, side and salad for the two of us. again things were going great she was throwing flirts left and right, after drinking over 2 bottles of wine we ended up watching tv, cuddling for a little bit, but she got uncomfortable very fast. after the movie she thanked me a ton, called uber and left, she was very nervous again.
now, I am NOT a douchbag, but rather probably the nicest gentlman you can meet. I am very talkative and have a foreign accent, so I guess my question is
is wearing A314 and IS a no go with woman? I love A314, what can i wear it with? where can I wear it? how much should I wear it. how often should I refresh?
Hmm. May I ask your ethnicity.
Also I’ve never heard of zodiac signs having an influence on phero production.
2-3 drops may be a bit too much. Ever tried 1-2 drops?
Also to turn it sexual I would suggest an order of TUTH for those movie cuddle times..or some AMMO.
AMMO and Instant Shine are awesome together.
1 drop of A314 with those two should do awesome.
People with higher testosterone have naturally higher levels of pheromone output and would be seen as more alpha. Your pumping out those sexual and status mones. Then you are adding to this with the A314 at full doses meant for someone with lower T. That can cause some intimidation and the nervous effects as it kicks in. It might just be coming off too strong, but she obviously likes you or never would have come over. Try lowering the A314 dose first, only using IS, or increasing the IS dose. Try using it out and about until the dose feels right. Some people just add more socials such as IO or CTTM or P96 instead to the mix, or use more socials then sexual or status mones with higher T for best results…
Also try not to have expectations with dates, sometimes it may lead to a nice dinner, maybe sometimes sex… Most women I know also absolutely hate it when a man is too attached to a single outcome with a woman, whether its just wanting sex or ALSO being their boyfriend.. ESPECIALLY when the relationship is new… If you NEED the outcome to be happy, women always sense this and think you are NEEDY..
And neediness repels womens attraction like nothing else as you are finding…
Do I have this right, on your second date, you wore 2-3 drops A314 oil and 3 sprays A314 - or do you mean IS? If it was A314, which version?
Mid twenties is IME when a woman begins to shift from tuning in to A314 on an authority/fatherly level to an attractive level and that process may not be complete till she’s into her late 20s/early 30s. ‘Quality’/LTR-minded may switch earlier/faster though, so she may be shit-testing you hard by not putting-out to see if you live-up to more than looking for a quick shag.
So I would have had something else in there as a sexual Her age suggests Ammo but as your personality seems to carry it, IS/TUTH would be quite viable too and in a home environment, going down on the A314 could also be good - more relaxed and easier to cuddle-up to.
Remember that whilst A314 has many attractive qualities, it isn’t in itself a sexual and only contains a small amount of None, so often needs some extra help there
Doesn’t matter how sexy you are, or how tight your game is, girls will try very hard to put you in the boyfriend category if they respond positively to A314.
That means no love you long time for AT LEAST 3 dates, often much longer (to prove to you that they’re not ‘that type of girl’).
You will need to beat her over the head with a good dose of TUTH+TAC next time and dial back on the A314 on those occasions when you are in isolation with her and sex could potentially happen.
Then you can (and most definitely should!) use A314 if you feel you want to pursue a long-term relationship with her and IF she proves to be someone worthy of such a big prize
The stuff you are doing is all serious relationship stuff, if you want a hook up you are going to have to change your approach. Not be too concerned about the outcome. Basically, you’re trying too hard. I wouldn’t change anything now, keep doing what you are doing. You could also try having an open conversation with her about how she’s feeling, especially if you see her visibly uncomfortable. Maybe she has something going on internally that has nothing to do with you! You won’t know until you talk to her.
I have experienced similar effects. What you might be experiencing is the invicible “wall of scariness”. It usually happens when a woman feels really great being around you, and then suddenly starts to realize that it goes “too fast”. She will immidiately pull the hand brake and jump out of the vehicle.
The way you are doing it is good, but don’t expect A314 and IS to do magic on day one. Like real magicians, you need to learn how to control your newfound powers. One of the things I learned was not to go too fast and too heavy. Dating is similar to cooking meat. Don’t put the fire on full and start cooking like your life depends on it, the meat will quickly get charred and you will be left with raw burned food. What you should try is slow down a bit, show her that you are not doing those things because you want something from her, but because you like her. The way you do it is good, and it will work, but think on the long run, not the short. Aka: Think with your head, not your dick
Go with cuddling, and slowly work your way up. Don’t expect her to be into you from day one, it takes time to get her accustomed to the feeling. Make her feel comfortable, not scared. Women can be similar to a deer, and its best to give them the space and comfort they feel most easy with. Especially when they never sniffed A314 before, it would literally start lighting up their brain like a christmas tree. If you really like some cuddling, I would recommend trying out Puppy Love? It worked wonders with my wife, usually she becomes very cuddly and starts sniffing me everywhere. I used some TUTH, but be warned with that, she must be in the mood for it, or else you feel like you have been sleeping on an anvil.
