Potential relationship, which might I try. newb

I am 22 and there is this girl at my “school”(in the military) who goes of and on with flirting. She has had a boyfriend the whole time, but I get a really strong vibe from her, but not much touching. Her boyfriend leaves next week, and they weren’t really serious.
Anyways, I’m kind of a nice guy, and I don’t want her to have the “Let’s be friends” thought. Of course I’ve hinted at seeing her, but lately she hasn’t been as receptive. We used to sit next to eachother, and I’m pretty funny with her. But now we’re in completely different classes. But I can walk in and talk to her on break.
I’ve used pherlure, and seemed to make a little difference, but now that we are separated I don’t know what it is that is putting the distance up.
I just ordered A314, instant shine, instant female magic, and turn up the heat.
She is quiet and a little reserved, but I know she can get quite frisky. She can have a strong latin/new york attitude(she’s both) if pushed, but doesn’t really go there.
Sorry about the length, but I wanted to give a lot of detail for anyone that might be willing to help, on the pheromone side, or the game side.
Everyone here seems really nice, and I appreciate any feedback.
Thanks

A314 will show you as the man, they are normally more interested in you or a relationship when around A314, IFM is great for making women be around you but TUTH is better for using it when you are both alone in a place with possibility of sex, but not very much for attracting outside those situation because it might frighten women (or maybe attract in some strange cases). Just experiment with low doses of TUTH and let’s see if there’s some luck :wink:

thatnks a lot. I’ll try that. But my order is still “processing”. I paid for it by cc 2 days ago, but they haven’t sent it yet.
Also, with A314, how many sprays might i want to start with, and what’s the max that i can use, with or without others, without overdosing.
Thanks

also, since I don’t really spend time in class with her much anymore, do I have to be around her for awhile for A314 to work, or could I just stop in and say hi? I try not to talk to her too much cause i don’t want it to seem like i need her. I think it was getting a little obvious before, that’s why i stopped initiating a lot.:o I think once I get this stuff and her bf leaves I’ll ask her out to dinner again, but I don’t want to seem needy.
Thanks again

You need to trap her a little for A314 to work (its subtle and oil based, too), you could make use of any -nols to make her talk until she gets a little sniff.

You could also wear a little on your hands and move them a little around her while talking.

Good luck!

thanks a lot capone. They just shipped off today, so I expect them to be here next week. I’ll let you know how it turns out.

Don’t “ask her out to dinner”, make it more of an “I’m going to grab a bite at this place I like, want to come along?”.

Thanks a lot guys. I’m hanging out with her this weekend, but haven’t gotten the pheromones yet. I have a little pherlure, and I think that stuff works a little, but not nearly as much as what you guys are talking about with these pheromones. I’m kind of tempted to try mixing a little a314 and instant female magic when I first get it, and/or instant shine. Is it really as bad as yall say to mix them in the beginning. The biggest reason I want to start mixing is because I don’t have a lot of chances to test them out and tweek them. And a little impatient, I guess. Thanks again. I’ll let you guys know how things turn out.

You can still start mixing, but it is not recommended though because you can get some strange or not expected reactions and effects and you can’t easily see where they come from. It’s up to you.

Anyway if you stay low on A314 use Instant Shine and spray IFM away from your nose you are not probably getting bad effects, but you can get no or unpredictable ones…

Good luck, tell us!

Hey yall. So I went out to eat with this girl, she asked me during class today. I was wearing pherlure, about 4 sprays, at the time, because these ones didn’t get here til the afternoon. Her boyfriend leaves at the end of the week, but she would still mention him during the date, but she would kind of wisper it, but she mentioned him about 5 times, and she’s going about an hour away to pick him up from the airport tonight. So they’re still kind of together.

Anyways, I got the pheromones after school, I put 2 sprays of IS on before going to the gym. wasn’t really expecting, nor did I get results.

After taking a shower I put on 2 drops of A314, 1 on wrists and 1 on my jawline, like the website said. I put 2 sprays of IS on, chest and wrists. and 1 of instant female magic to the head.

She seemed about the same; no closure of personal space or anything, but she kind of hinted at me paying for things. Of course, we split it because we’re not dating, but she was definitely hinting. She also thought I was going to open the car door for her, of course I would have, but I didn’t see this as a date because she is still seeing her bf. She actually calls him her “man”.

So that’s about the whole thing, there were a few more silent moments than usual, and I had to do the initiating. I was thinking maybe a little intimidation from the A314. But she didn’t seem intimidated at all. Just a little less talkative.

Next time I will just try one at a time. I’ll wear 2 drops of A314 to class tomorrow.
Any suggestions or interpretations are always welcome.
Thanks a lot for your help guys.

Another little side note. I want to buy Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, and Ammo, because in retrospect I feel like those would have been better suited for my situation.
But I don’t want to buy those until I see results from the ones I have bought.

People say I should have bought the togo ones first, and that’s what I’ll do with the others, but is there anything I can do with these that might work with her.

BTW, this forum is great and everyone here has been very helpful. I really appreciate it.

Try 3 or 4 sprays of Instant Female Magic when mixing with A314 if you can bare it :wink:

IMO if she uses “his man” too much when being with you, it can be because she doesn’t feel very well with what she’s doing, and it’s reminding you and herself that they are still toghether, this is halfly good in my opinion because if she thinks he’s doing anything wrong is that considers you a real option. Anyway before singing victory just make sure you are not in friends zone and in case she’s only telling you her problems.

Anyway, I am not very much into going after a girl with a relationship unless you are dying in love for her or he’s a real asshole with her, IMO there are many women out there to try before making people unhappy doing those things.

I am not judging you in any way, really :wink:, it’s just that I don’t see very fair phero playing with a girl when her boyfriend has only a normal and now-but-not-then boring everyday-routine to offer. I really hope you won’t take this commentary on the bad side, maybe you are really really in love or something, we are not here to judge anyone. :slight_smile:

Anyway, please leave report about your dosages and winnings :wink:. Let’s investigate.

Thanks for your insights capone. I’m always open to criticism and what you said kind of gives me the feeling that I won’t be as disappointed if I’m not successful.

You might be right about going after a girl with a boyfriend. But he is leaving this week (military), and I do really like her, but not in love w/ her. In this area, especially on base there are very few girls to pick from.I will still persue her, but I do take your comments into account.

She doesn’t really talk to me about her problems, except the simple ones, like too much homework, etc. real petty stuff. That’s kind of why I wanted to get Instant Honesty, etc.

Is that combination of Instant Female Magic and A314 very strong scented, does it put people off. and would it be inappropriate to wear in a classroom environment. I have a good cover cologne, but I don’t want to smell like I jumped into a bucket of ass and flowers.

I noticed the IShine smell is a little stronger than I expected.

Once again capone, I really appreciate your help. I never expected such insightful and quick replies.

BTW what does IMO mean? I’m new :slight_smile:

In My Opinion :wink:

that’s weird. I posted a kind of long post right before that one. will it post or do I need to rewrite it?

Sometimes it appears after some hours sometimes it never comes out, what I normally do is to copy the text i write with right button-copy before posting it and, if it fails and least I have it to paste it and try to post again :wink:

Ok, thanks. I’ll just rewrite it.

Anyways, I do appreciate your insights capone. I believe criticism can make me a better person. And I know you’re not judging me.

Her bf is leaving by the end of this week, so they’re breaking up(military). I have a feeling that she likes me, but she just needs time to adjust. She asked me to dinner, there was no occasion. I do really like her, but I don’t love her. In the military community there is very slim pickins for females.

I will still pursue her, only because her bf is leaving. But I will definitely take your insights into consideration. And will feel a little better if I’m not successful.

Is that mix of A314 and instant female magic strong scented. I don’t want to smell bad, and I sometimes wear cologne to class, so I don’t think it would be really weird to wear that, but I don’t usually wear a lot. about 2 sprays.

Would it take a lot to cover that stuff up?

Also would that mixture be ok to wear to class, or should I just stick to A314 for that? Or maybe just Instant female magic. I think I’m going to test the stuff out separately, and then together, IS too.

And is 2 drops of A314 too much for a 22 year old caucasian. I just started recently working out every day.

I’m gonna save the Turn Up The Heat for nights and stuff like that. I want to test that stuff out this weekend.

Sorry for all the questions. I never expected such insightful and quick replies. I really do appreciate it.

A314 is lowscented, recommended for non-cologne environments. IFM has a powerful (IMO) scent but goes off quickly leaving a little of herbal aroma. Make sure you have not just sprayed it and wait a little after spraying before going to class or any closed environment.

IFM scent is very controversial, just spray it and ask your target if she likes it (great oportunity to make her take a sniff). If she does, don’t cover it as if you cover you will have more cologne than you should wear in a classroom.

Test 2 drops of A314 I think it would be wearable by a 22 years old military man :wink:

You are doing fine leaving TUTH for situations where there is a possibility and place for sex, it would be more useful this way. Although it can be used to attract and makes a good combo with IFM, IMHO it’s better to reserve it for that occassions and doing this she wouldn’t be used to -none when you need it. TUTH can make her nervous if not in the correct environment, read about -none and you will see why you have to be careful with it before using it. Stay low and even staying low you can get bad reactions from men and women.

I’m not sure about the rest of you gents, but this is always a sweet gesture, whether you are dating a woman or not :stuck_out_tongue:
You know, don’t be ridiculous,:roll_eyes: but little signs of deep seated courtesy and respect are always winners. Develpo these as habits and it may be one of the “tipping points” for the lady you will really love one day (after you’ve run through all these other practice/recreational “targets”)