No attention from guys with Instant Shine, MX135 and others: what am I doing wrong?

Hey guys

A while back my sis bought some pheromones, and I got to try them out. Since she’s still overseas, I’m the only one that’s been experimenting and it hasn’t gone very well.

I’ve tried spraying only one pheromone at a time for a few days, and have tried combos as well. Despite the fact I do three/four sprays of each, I don’t see anything diff happening.

I basically have all the pheromones:
ie instant shine, openness, cttm, instant sexiness(a), taa, tah,tal, the respect pheromones (name which I forgot, bc I haven’t used it for ages), lust after me, mx135 etc

why is it not working for me?? T_T I mean I don’t see instant shine or mx135 give me more attention, nor see guys smiling at me when I wear instant sexiness.
I’m really disappointed.

I wear it with perfume, so it should be diffusing well lol.

help guys. -_- :frowning:

Hi starry,
Regret to hear that. Don’t give up

Why don’t you tell us how many spray you used, where was it used and the mixes? The expert ladies will be able to give you advice and steer you to the right usage.

well, I have tried spraying instant shine on my neck, and hair (like three sprays-4)
and instant sexiness on my neck,wrist, legs etc

for cttm, I did hair and neck

so basically it’s always hair and neck and wrist lol

irl, I’m not shy or anything, I’m pretty outgoing, so I’m sure I’m not sending ‘closed’ signals.

either I spray them separately or I do mixes such as
i/s, tah (to balance out the A is I/s), instant openness, instant shine

or i/s, tah, mx135, cttm, instant openness

I don’t think I’ve ever used A314 (was browsing round forum, now remember the name lol) on it’s own, cos I know it intimidates ppl, so I always wear it with instant openness or sth similar.

I’m going to continue using it, hopefully it’ll work soon T_T
I know I can send it back and all, but I really really hoped it would work for me -_-

oh also I started off spraying 2 sprays instead of three
since, my sis bought heaps in X2 dosages, so should be stronger -_-

Are you male or female, if you don’t mind?

well I’m obviously female, notice what I bought? I/S? lust after me?
and the fact I’m called starryeyesurprise, and the fact I said guys haven’t really smiled at me lol

Hi starryeyesurprise, just want tell u that u have a unique nickname there :slight_smile: Well i find it weird why guys haven’t smile at you although u did wear quite an arsenal of pheros there. U should be getting good results alrdy unlike me stuck with only three pheros but i have great faith & trust in them :slight_smile: I think for your problem it’s better to hear for the ladies opinions instead of us guys opinions.

Haha. Where are you using this? Grocery stores, libraries, work is not the usual pick up places. Try it when you’re going out to a bar. I think, from the sounds of things lust after me works when the guy is already interested. There is such thing as sort of wanting to have sex and wanting to devour your very soul.

Are you doing one spray or four?

My usual places to get picked up is the bar, gym, work parties, restaurants, friends introducing me. People are generally reserved and to themselves unless you live in Hawaii, Florida or California. Warmer places permits people to act like animals. Sometimes it astonishes me how often I get asked out. Sometimes I wonder, do I look like I’m single?

Sorry. Because A314 is more of a male product.

I think I’ll continue wearing it and see what happens T-T

and about A314, lots of females are using it lol, it’s not only catered for males.

oh and I spray more like 3 sprays (sometimes two when I’m spraying a few diff pheros together)

at the start, I thought I was overdosing or sth, but I don’t think so cos it’s usually 2-3 sprays now that I think about it.

BTW, I get asked out so often, my girlfriends stop asking me to go clubbing with them. And of those times I’ve always worn pheros.

When I don’t wear them I seem to fade into a wall flower. Though I can’t necessarily say the guys I’ve met while wearing pheros want a relationship. They really want to get laid.

Hey Starry

If you don’t wear a product solo until you know what it does for you, you won’t know what to look for as far as responses. You can’t base what reactions you’ll get from another persons post or expect miracles at first spray. I remember when you posted all of the things you had bought this was mentioned, and that you’d end up disappointed because of the amount spent with out much preparation or knowledge. Not trying to be negative toward you at all, I’d much rather see you enjoying your pheromones.

Not a lot of women are wearing a314 and those who are, aren’t wearing it for attention or smiles but respect like thedutchess’s post a few below this one, she’s planning to be a correctional officer and wants to project that strong respect signature.

In my opinion you need to start over, read the stickies and pick 1 product to test and keep posting with us. Eventually you’ll see a result and then will be able layer products successfully.

A314 is actually cater for man. Mharris created A314 for men. Refer to www.a314.com, it states ‘exclusively for men’. lol
There are not many women using A314 as said by Inkling.
I agree with inkling, you should learn more about each phero and test them out one by one to see which is effective.
cheers

I know sometimes its hard to get those mones working just right for you. Believe me when I first started out I had some trouble myself. Dont worry we will get them working.

I agree with inkling, lets start over with a clean slate.

Use one product at a time. I would start with IO.

Read this post from the mens section on how to begin testing them.

I am not sure if you read this one but if not it will help you know what to expect.

Now be sure to try different application points on your body. Also if your wearing something like IO you have to look open to conversation. Another tip is to “set it and forget it” if you walk around all day looking for hits its like watching a pot of water until it boils. It will make you aggitated and then you start producing some negative mones of your own. So put your product on in the morning before you go out and then just try hard not to think to much about it. At the end of the day look back and jot down anything that was out of the ordinary even if your not sure it was from the mones. Sometimes you can see patterns forming this way.

Now I see you mentioned you sprayed to your legs Are you wearing a skirt on those days because if your not you will need to walk around nakky. Plus legs dont really heat up good.

On women hair, cleveage, neck, behind ears, back of neck, wrists, elbow, are all good. In the summer if its warm and I am wearing a half T that shows my waist I will spray right below the belly ring to. Works well there.

A314 is a mens product and if your using it for attraction it dosnt work that way on a women. Its more likely to make them not respond to you or just treat you with more respect. Even if your using buffer mones with it. This could be why your not seeing reactions.

I use A314 when I want people to leave me the hell alone. LOL

They single molecule mones like TAA TAL and TAH you should wait to use till after you see results with the standard products. These are not ment to be used on there own even though we test them that way. They are for mixes or layering.

Dont worry you will get it working :slight_smile:

Tisha

But I know quite a few female members are using it (A314). Doesn’t that apply for instant shine and openness as well then james bonded? Since they’re under the men’s section, but both sexes are buying it.

I actually tried using it one at a time, I tried TAA by itself and instant openness, I think I’ll continue using it and see what happens.

hopefully it’ll work

when my sis is back, I’m going to ask her to try it and see if it works better on her.

sigh…

Browse the women’s section in smartmones.com. There are Instant Openness, Instant Honesty and Instant Shine for women. Women buy them because they are in the women’s section. A314 is not in the women’s section.

I encourage you to read more to understand the individual pheromones.

No it dosnt apply for all products.

A314 is especially designed for men to use its a tremendously intimidating mix. Yes women have used it in certain situations but not for attraction. It more for them to gain respect.

MX134 is the womens version, the harsher mens mones have been removed.

Ishine first was released as I mens product but in testing they found it worked well for both sexes so now it is sold as a unisex product.

TUTH is only used in dabs or tiny amounts by women. Using to much can cause extreme crankiness. The only real benefit women get from this is more aggressive sex and increased libido.

Tisha

I know it’s not in the women’s section, I was just stating that it’s not only catered for men, unlike ammo. Cos, if you read around, some ppl have used it, and they’re not male.

anyway, does that even matter much? I haven’t used a314 for awhile, it’s the other pheros that aren’t working.

told my sis to get A314 for the sole purpose of using it when alittle bit of extra respect is needed xD.

It is catered for men. Trust tisha, our pheromeone goddess.
MX134 is catered for women.

Trust the creator Michael Harris. He says it is exclusively for men.

May I add some things to help?

If you are applying to your legs, make sure you are wearing a skirt or dress and apply to the BACK of your knees. Anywhere else won’t matter.

Give yourself dry down time. When I first started I had no idea what dry down time was, let alone that I needed it. Don’t just apply it and expect miracles the next moment.

Be sure that you have on the right items for the effect you want to have on the person you want to have them on. You probably want a different effect on those at the office than you do a lover.

Find the “sweet spot” as far as how many sprays or drops you need. Sometimes you need to test sprays/drops to find out what gives you the effect you are looking for.

If you read my journal you will see that the best (and funniest) hits come when I am SO not expecting them. I know I have them on and it makes me laugh anyway, but I can also tell when I am getting hits I would have gotten without them. HTH!

Oh. My. Starry eyed surprise. Gonna dance all night to this dj gonna dance all night to this dj. Oh. my.

Tisha knows her stuff, Starry, sweetie. Androstenone and Androsterone are man pheromones. Women only produce them in minute amounts. 314 is for men. A few women wore 314 and posted about it here years and years ago, early in Androtics history, because MX134 hadn’t been invented yet. MX134 is the way to go for respect and an alpha lady allure.

Pheromones work, but you have to work them as well. Take it easy and look for subtle positive cues from others. You will really see it if you take the initiative to talk to others (especially strangers) when you have your pheros on. People who already know you will take longer to adjust to your new phero signature.

All the best,
Kitten
XOXO