Hi all,
Well, after waddling through endless other pheromone website, I’m glad to finally see a site that has an active community actually posting stuffs/experiences and recommendations with pheromones! (Unlike those “independant” review sites if you get my gist
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My name is Terry, I’m 22 this year, asian chinese, about 1.83m (ok, actually we use metrics here). Also has a slim build (I seem to be able to eat tons of any food and still not get fat). I would say I’m a confident but sometimes a little arrogant kinda guy, part of a reason due to dwelling on too much dating material. I could say one thing, even with my height and appearance, I do have and face lots of problems during dating. I have too big a problem approaching.
How would I describe my dating life? Hmm.. well, bad. I’ve got that infamous approach problem (partly its due to local cultures here as well). I am fine and rocking once I am out on a date with them or already “on the vibe” with them, I can pretty much handle any situation but I just can’t seem to approach or find new targets. I could have a problem with nerves, like many guys, I’ll hope for some indicators of interest first from them, a smile, a glance.. I needed that “edge”. That something “extra”
So I was thinking.. Pheromones?
It all started when a friend of mine introduced me to pheromones, the idea of using a certain spray that would, in fact attract the opposite gender just by smelling it. Interested, we went to order 3 bottles of pheromone cologne from a certain site (whose marketing is really aggressive). Effects described include stuff like “increased glances”, “initiates conversations more” etc. Struck gold? Sad to say, of the 3 bottles that arrived, only 2 were full, the last was broken, and the envelope had a permanent “pheromone” smell. Hoping those 2 remaining bottles had some use, I tested it myself and sprayed 2-3 times and went about my normal daily activities. Strangely enough, nothing happened, was talking to a girl and its like.. normal? It seemed like ordinary cologne to me ![]()
I wanted to give up on pheromones, believing that there probably isn’t such a thing called human pheromones, or it is outrageous.
I stumbled across this forum while looking for review on that product, was surprised to see quite a number of negative review about it. However, I am quited pleased to see real live field reports using products from this forum, could this be the real stuff?
I’ve read abit about the products here like IO , IG , IH , TUTH etc, but still kinda blur.
I’m someone who has always believed in the “natural” advantage, when it comes to dating. It could be the fact that the person is very fit, with an awesome six pack (which shows him to be a healthy, protective male), or the fact that he has a long record of lots of girls being with him (which shows him to be preselected). I believe that, pheromones, they DO give you a natural advantage as well. The problem is, finding one that actually works.
True, pheromones are not magic potions that will “get you a date” or “seal the deal” for you, prior effort including talking and socialising needs to be done. However, they do help.
Thats what I’m hoping pheromones could do for me. I’ve really got a serious problem approaching (partly its due to local cultures here as well).
I’ve read from some pheromones sites, they make the opposite gender notice you more, initiate conversations (aha!) and generally make things a whole lot simpler.
Perhaps now, finally, in this site, I could find answers..
Through research, I’ve grasped basic understanding of how pheromones work, the NSO etc.
However, I’m still pretty much clueless on how to actually use them to be effective, what kind of results to expect?
Like if I sprayed “XXX” on myself and got on the bus with certain females on it, what kind of reaction would I expect?
I’m also thinking of giving pheromones another go (after the previous incident), for my situation, what should I look for?
Cheers and looking forward to meeting the community!
Terry