Hello everyone, 31/M in Southern California here. I’ve been out of the dating world for about 4-5 years now; my last break-up took a really big toll on me. I’m now ready (sort of) to go out and meet new people. I don’t know much about pheromones except that they may help give a slight edge on certain aspects. I’m interested in trying them out of course, but don’t really know which one is best for my situation and such.
Browsing around the forum I see discussions of combining different pheromone spays and such to enhance certain traits or aspects of our characteristic? Not exactly sure how that would work. I’ve looked in the store, and I’m assuming that each spay have their own fragrance? Wouldn’t be mixing any combo to get a more desired affect compromise the scents of the sprays?
I’ve met a pretty cool girl through an online dating site and we talk/chat/text plenty; we’ve set up a date for next week to meet in person, the whole get to know each other better deal. I could use all the help and advice anyone can give me!
Its a perfect introduction, which explains your purpose of using mones.
In the situation you described, I would suggest you to go with AMMO + IS + IO.
AMMO will pose you as a potent boyfriend material. it will give you a sexosocial vibe . IS will boost your confidence and will make you stand out from crowd. IO will not only help you open and become chattier rather make her also same so will increase a bonding between you two . And s chemistry will start working .
Have some TUTH too . But use it only when she becomes comfortable with you both physically and mentally.
Man, that breakup sounded like a doozy! Based on how it affected you, I suspect you’re the more introspective type. I also take it that you might not be the type of person who goes out clubbing much. Would this be a fair assessment? I mention this because it would help to match the right products to your personality and situation. (I’m more of the introspective sorts, and I’ve gotten to know what products works for my temperament and which ones don’t.)
Soni suggested Instant Shine and Instant Openness. These two are excellent when meeting someone for the first time. Instant Shine will uplift the mood between you two, and Instant Openness will encourage a smooth flow of conversation.
Another angle to consider is Instant Shine with Instant Honesty. Since you already have a rapport with her online, perhaps you might want to encourage a bit closeness and let her know that she can safely share more intimate things about herself. Instant Honesty will do that.
To give this mix extra glow, either Ammo or A314 would do the job. I prefer A314 over Ammo because it suits my personality better and seems to work better with Instant Honesty than Instant Openness. (Instant Openness works better with Ammo.)
As for fragrance, all commercial line products (sprays) come in the same scent, Neroli, which is a nice orange blossom. AD adds only 6% to cover up the musky oder of the pheromones. The exception is Ammo, which comes in a different fragrance at cologne strength (20%). Ammo also comes in three different scents - regular Ammo, Summer, and World. All mix nicely with Neroli.
A314 comes in oil and spray form. The oil form is sandalwood, which is a more masculine scent. The scent dissipates in about 20 minutes, so it’s not much of an issue. It also seems pair OK with Neroli.
If you choose to get any of the Instant products mentioned above, I’d recommend them in double strength. Most people need at least two sprays of them. Getting them in double strength means that you can spray less and allow you to use another cover scent if you prefer.
Welcome to he site. So just getting started can be very overwhelming and frustrating. What to order and what will work and what size and how much so on and so on. So for this reason I think your best bet to succeed is the men’s starter pack. You will get the whole consumer line to try including A314 but in spray version. This way you will get to try everything and it is a great price to verse trying to get everything separate. I know this is a best bet for you, but I like to give options and let you decide what is best for you so here we go.
Ammo for attraction and with being single and dating is a must have. Very balanced and nice cologne scent as well. A perfect standalone.
IS a must have to. Very social and you will come off as a young happy vibrant healthy male. Boosts confidence and will put her in a good mood. What is nice with IS you can wear in your hair to unlike other pheromones because it washes out easy and you can wear in any situation social, family gathering, work, school, anything.
IO this I think is a borderline must have. The reason being when dating this will help break the ice and make meeting women much more open and the approaching much easier. This can help you out a lot and is up to you if you think this is a must have.
OK here are some great options that can help to
TUTH highly sexual. Best used last minute and for bedtime. A little goes a long way. Just don’t go to crazy and spray a whole bunch because you will get negative effects. Start with 1 spray and move up from there.
IH will help with bonding and conversation. I would wear on wrist or maybe elbow are as you will want it to effect the ladies more than you.
CTTM2 this could be an option to get the women chatty.
The men’s starter pack comes with all these items except the CTTM and more like A314 and MX297 which is a party MX.
So with everything here and what others suggest you should have everything you need to make the best choice for you.
Thank you for the advice, and yes, your assumptions are correct. I’m more of the introvert type and does not go clubbing at all, it’s just not my cup of tea. I’m typically a homebody type person. When I do outside activities, rather then clubbing or going to the movies, I’m more of the nature type, going hiking, visiting national parks, going to the beach and such.
With all the different products suggested, how would I put them to use? Do I just spray it anywhere on my body? Or is there some sort of strategic targeted areas that I should apply it at?
You will want to read this thread about application points:
It all depends wether you are looking for self-effects, to affect others, or both. And in some cases, it depends on the product you are using (for instance, Instant Shine is one of the few products that washes off hair easily, others tend to cling to it). If you still have questions afterwards, feel free to ask.
Thank you, I will give that a read. I didn’t know that these sprays can be applied to the hair. I use hair products on a daily bases(Gatsby), it’s somewhat scented. Would that affect sprays like Instant Shine in anyway? Or it’s fine to spray on my hair on top of my hair product?
Just to clarify you got me right, Instant SHine in hair is good, other products, beware .
I don’t know Gatsby, but depending on the composition of it, it is possible that there be some influence. Maybe someone here knows this product and can comment.
Otherwise, you might prefer to apply IS elsewhere. Hair is not mandatory lol, its just that when applied there the hapiness effect on others is more spectacular.
Ah ok, thanks for the clarification. Gatsby moving rubber is kind of like a pomade. It’s Japanese made, and originally targeted for Asian hair; it has a mild green-apple fragrance to it. Not sure if any of that would help determine if I can apply Instant Shine with it or not lol. It seems like IS is best on hair according to other posts I’ve read the forum.
I think I’m going to try the suggested combo of AMMO + IS + IO . Now I guess my question for this is, can I use all 3 together? How exactly do I go about doing so? Something like IS on my hair, AMMO on neck, and IO on wrist? And how long does the effect of the pheromones last, and when should I reapply and such? Sorry for all the newbie questions lol.
Yes I think you got it right with where to apply. the effects should last you 4-6 hours around there and with Ammo you might see random effects all day or until washed off. I like to keep the socials like IO on my wrists so it effects others and is an icebreaker. then when they are comfortable they tend to get closer and then that take a big whiff of the Ammo IS combo. Works really well. TIS will diffuse the fastest and if you have to reapply it would probably be this one first. Ask all the questions you need we are always hear to help.
Thanks for the advice. I was browsing the store and I noticed that some of the sprays have a double strength option, and for Ammo the store stated that for people who are age 30+ the double strength would work better than the normal one. Now does this hold true for the other sprays that have a double strength option? I didn’t see any other ones mentioning anything about being better for ages 30+ in the description except for Ammo.
Going through more forum posts, I see a lot of mentions about A314, from what I am understanding, it’s somewhat like Ammo? But oiled based? I read the description on the store and it kinda feels similar as well. Can anyone explain to me what the difference is that I am missing? lol. Would A314 work well with IS and IO like Ammo? I think I read a post somewhere saying IO doesn’t work too well with A314, and it’s better being paired with Ammo?
A314 is a status boosting pheromone. It gives strong leadership vibe. It exists in oil-based version (slow constant release) or in spray like regular mones. It’s not intended to be like Ammo. A314 can be used for flirting too, but it usually does not attract the same type of girls. The main important use of A314 is for business or infleuncing people. You can trust what people say in their journal concerning mixes, but testing for your own biochemistry is always important because effects, reactions and product interactions might vary from individual to individual. And most importantly, if you want to try A314, try it solo first to get acquainted with its effects. I’d say this is true for any pheromones in fact . Let me point out that A314 is indeed great stuff.
Thank you Conjurator for the explanation. Yes, I see that there are a lot of great praises about A314 around the forums. I guess my main concern was if A314 will be better suited for my situation, getting back into the dating scene and such; but since it’s more towards a status boost for business and influencing people, I think Ammo would be my best bet for dating? There are so many good products, I can’t make up my decision lol!
Or get both. The spray form of A314 is a lot cheaper. If you get good results with it in the dating scene, then consider getting it in the oil version. I’ve tried both A314 and Ammo. In social situations, I prefer A314. It blends well with my personality. In fact, I still use Ammo because there are some situations where I want something slightly playful. But most of the time I’ve been using A314, even when just hanging with friends.
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