Hey Starry, I’m quite new too…and not a huge social animal. I’ve used them with terrific and interesting success at my work place and to a rather strange encounter at my regular hair salon…QUITE unexpected. I vcan absolutely FEEL these potions changing my mood at about 5 minutes after application and dry down time…I feel a MARKED difference in mood and spirit. Have you felt anything at all just on YOU when you use them?
I have to say I read MOST of the womens pages before I started while waiting for my order to arrive…I wenr mad on the first day and doused myself pretty good, kind of OD’d a little I think…but since then it’s been very smooth and i am seeing subtle and really nice differences in myself mainly and how I relate to people…it has made ME more open to conversation and then it stimulates the other person…see if you feel any effect just on yourself…and read! That was REALLY key for me…hope that helps~
It’s sad cos I actually went around this forum and read ALOT before the items came. And I did spray and wait for the pheros to ‘dry down,’ but hmmm…I’ll continue to use it and see what happens T-T. It would be really sad if it really just doesn’t work.
Keep track of exactly how much you spray on and where as well as the enviroment and let me know and we will see if we can get them working for you. I really cant help without this information. I do this with the guys all the time by PM and we usually figure out whats gone wrong or what needs to be done differently.
Tisha
Listen to Tisha, she is a Hostess of this party for a reason.
IMHO, it does TOTALLY matter where you wear the pheros. Also I have noticed the environmental conditions play a big part. Close proximity is important, as is limited air flow. Duration is major. If the person is not around long enough for the brain to register, it will not work. I’m thinking if we could wear this stuff in an elevator crowded with hot members of the opposite sex, that would be the best place. Now, how do I get in an elevator with 10 or 15 attractive men going to the 120th floor? Oh, and no security camera. ![]()
I am not sure at this point I can offer any good advice, I do not know enough about you and how your using the pheromones to help.
If you could give a few examples of what you have tried..where you tried them and what happened I think we could give better advice.
You original post said you 18 going on 19. What are you doing to get in close and spend time with your targets? What kind of signals are you sending them? Are you flirting with them? Are you smiling? Are you talking to them before class? Are you meeting them on the beach. Basically what are you doing to attract your targets other than putting on the pheromones?
Ponderu
Oh yah I forgot to mention scent is #3 on the list of importance. It is the reason people give you a second look. #1 is the way you carry yourself. #2 is your facial contours and expression.
There’s a book called “How to Get Guys to do Stuff??”…the author says all it takes is a smile and a nice perfume. That seals it. Pheromones are a level up.
Are you smiling? ![]()
Well, as I always remind the Newbies, you have to be patient. You can’t plant a seed today and expect it to grow into a big tree tomorrow.
You need to allow the pheromones to “blend” with your body chemistry. As many people already know that pheromones are not magical…there’re actually “tools” for you to use wisely, correspond with the correct attitude, situations and environments. Just use it and go about your daily routine as usual and you will know when it starts working on you.![]()
Good luck and God bless you.