on the topic of girls playing games, I have one I’m dealing with myself. She texts me all night, speaks to me during the day, but not nearly as much as when were not in person. I always get this and I’m just wondering what most of you guys do in such situations. I mean I don’t like the thought of just sitting tight and waiting for her to come out of her shell. But I also don’t feel like scaring her by forcing myself on her. When I’m drunk, I get it done smoothly and they are very willing lol cause I don’t care about what the girls’ thoughts are, but sober, I am more tactful. This seems to be working against me when it comes to going past initial attraction. Thats my main problem. Tomorrow, I will be going back to one of my favvv mixes, A314, IH, Tuth. It is one of my last school days, so I will be wearing mixes that I know and love. Or should I replace A314 with mx297?? Making me more open to talk to?
ON TO THE REPORT.
So, I went to my buddy’s house for his B-day dinner. I didn’t feel like wasting mx301 on a test where I wasn’t aiming to pick anyone up so that will be done the day after tomorrow (after my A314/mx297, IH, Tuth mix 2morrow). Today however, I, on a suggestion from mustang, decided to go for a drop of A314 split wrists and then 3 sprays of shine. 1 split wrists (layered over A314), 1 split elbow, 1 straight neck. Needless to say, Dinner was UHH-fucking-mazing and we had Loads of steak, short ribs, potatoes, etc etc and Icecream cake. Also, for breakfast, I had gone over for pancakes (made by my good friend/his gf) with this girl I’m trying to wheel (from the above post). Anyways, back to dinner, We’re all sitting outside which I was a bit unhappy about (since less diffussion) however, my friends little sister (grade 8) whom I had recently thrown into their algae filled swimming pool for being a snobby lil biitch, INSISTED on sitting next to me pulling some “Hb 10” shit and bitching out her older brother (b-day boys brother), though hes my friend, and made him move. Unwanted, hit from a girl too young (though she goes out with multiple guys at once)…
Also, When I was telling a story about one of my alias’ (yes I have an alias) the mother was adamant in hearing out my story and shut her HUSBAND up, so that I could finish my story for her.. A314 is the shitt and I’m repping it for the millionth time. Though the shine helped alot too I feel. Helping people feel open enough to talk to me and express themselves.
Don’t change your sig, she’s responding the way most guys do when they’re insecure and talking to a new girl. It’s extremely common for guys to be more open and confident with a girl via text and email than face to face, it has to do with your value perspectives. It seems like she’s perceiving you to have a higher value than her. I don’t think it’s mind games, I’ve had women try mind games often enough that this doesn’t even come close. She’s just a little shy, maybe insecure and nervous. I don’t know if suddenly changing your signal is a good idea or of it will even work.
On the one hand her impression of you being suddenly different might make you seem to chameleon like, always shifting…when I get that vibe about people I tend to assume they’re fake or insincere. But then A314 tends to leave a lasting impression, once somebody gets a sense that you’re a certain type of person it takes time and effort to change that.
I suggest simply doing the logical thing (at least imo) when you do manage to get her face to face, force the conversation by asking open ended questions that she can’t just give yes/no answers to. If she gives a good answer, reward her a little with a non appearance/sexual compliment now and then, accompanied with some innocent kino. Basically give some approval, make her feel good about herself and about her chances with you. Make sure to do this more face to face than via text/email etc.
The good feelings she gets from compliments and IOI’s will only be experienced when she’s open and talkative face to face. You’ll see her loosen up a bit. Enhance it with some IH added to your regular mix and you should be fine.
My sig with her has been IJ for about 5 months. I know its not exactly an ltr phero sig but that’s all I had ( and tuth but couldn’t use that) My phone bill has become extremely high over the last few days (150$) from non-stopp texting and I need to do something about it (mainly get unlimited texting). Anyways, I’m planning to ease in A314 to get that dependability vibe up and running with IH and Tuth. But I also want to test out MX301 and MX297 over the course of my last few days with school as a testing ground. So right now my dilemma is test mx301 or mx297 or work on N (I’ll call her N) with A314. OR should I try A314 with mx301/ 297. Whihc one has rone in it?
nobody knows for sure what’s in 297 but the status and respect hits indicate it’s a high rone product. Like a real buffered and social A314, honestly if you’re working up to A314, 297 would be a good transitionary mone imo. Lots of respect but not as intimidating.
MX301 is a very sexual/social product, if you want to test it as a standalone I recommend it. But if you’re considering mixing anything with A314 this would be it. A314+297 might be too much rone but I’ve found 301 compliments mx347 (A314 in a spray) really well.
Never tried it, others have said they think 297 has none (which makes sense since I did notice some good attraction hits along with the respect) and none OD might be a concern.
Glad to hear it worked out well. I would test out MX297 + MX301 with someone other than who you want to get with. Its just from what it seems here you’ve changed around your pheromone signature with her, it might lead to confusion and some congruency issues. But if you’re bold enough to try it. I’d like to hear about that report.
I have rugby practice now but my day went amazing. (8:20 AM) I went with 1 A314 split wrists and then run along my jaw line, 2 IH 1 on each elbow and 1 mx 301 split wrists. And then, (12:45 PM) 1 mx 297 to neck. I’ll report laterr
