Hi there,
I cant really help to much with what you are experiencing, but this thread my help. I can say, after my x-wife had our daughter and we started to use condoms as bc, I truly believe it was the begining of the end of our sex life. The connection that was once there, was not the same. Anyway, hopefully this thread will keep you busy until some of the married guys can get to this thread. Oh, and go to the search function and look for a forum member named Bosshank. He is married, and uses phero’s at home so he may have posted some thing that may help. Good Luck!