Hi everyone, just stumbled upon here and I am outgoing confident guy but my girlfriend of a few years just dumped me. I think it had to do with the lacking sex life. We use to have a lot of sex early in the relationship but then I believe Birth Control (BC) got in the way of things ruining the drive, hurting her during intercourse, etc. We are currently friends and going to be friends with benefits for the time being but she is going off the BC and I’m hoping that sex won’t hurt, she will achieve orgasm, and her levels of dopamine and oxytocin will come back and make her feel attachment, trust, etc. The problem is it’s not as easy as that so I think if I try these pheromones it will help the cause of us getting back together because I know she still loves me but is confused and scared. Let’s see if this works! Thanks everyone.
Yes - it is pretty much accepted that BC for women - at least certain types - can foul up women reading phero signatures, etc.
There is a thread in my signature block that deals with married guys and home life. Give it a read. It has a lot of information on strategies and pheros you can use. For the time being though I would focus in on two products: IH and IShine. IH will help generate feelings of connection which more than anything else can help rekindle thos old feelings. And the IShine will help her feel happy to be around you.
After that I would play with ammo - just enough none to let her know you are itnerested but not overpowering. Not sure if I would throw in TUTH or not - at least not until the relationship has rekindleed a little more on the actual romance side.
I would suggest one more thing to go with AMMO and IH as suggested by bosshank.
IH would create the connection and AMMO would project you as a sexy guy. if you start using A314 now, it would also project you as the sexy price. and maybe it can make her think that she probably undervalued you for what you are and start viewing you as a price catch.
since you are both continuing as friends with benefits, you wont need anything very sexual and I hope these 3 would get you the results
I like what has been said above. They basically hit it point and blank. I before reading their suggestions thought this is more of a ammo/tuth thing than a social issue.
If it was a sex thing, then yes ammo and TUTH are good options.
What concerns me is that you said you THINK the reason for the breakup. So I am kinda wondering your communication skills or hers.
What shocks me the most is that you think your sex life is the reason for the breakup, but yet you say you will be friends with benefits. If shes down for FWB, why the break up then? It seems there is more to it.. So maybe some of the socials would be good, IH to find out what the hell is really going on…
