I have problems with shyness and it has greatly limited my life. I think that it is just a part of my personality. I heard that Instant Shine is a good product to help overcome this because it has an effect on the user. What is the ingredient in Instant Shine that gives it the effect it does? Is it a drug and can it become dangerous after using it for a while? Also, if I have a natural tendency toward shyness, would Instant Shine even work on me at all?
YES it WILL work!! No, It is not a drug, it is a sinergistic combo of pheromones. it will not hurt you it is all natural. Try it with A314 for an even better response. People will treat you like a rock star.
Hi Safeasmilk
Welcome to the forum. Intant shine is a great product to start with and it will help but it wont change who you are. You will have to try to put some effort into it as well. I would also try Instant Openness and IH. These will get people to open up more and talk more which in turn may make you feel more comfortable so you can not feel as shy.
Good luck
Tisha
Yep, I have to agree with Tisha, pheromones won’t change your essential nature. You have to do the grunt work and change from within. The little buzz you initally get will fade with regular use, so self-medication is of limited scope. However the pheromones will accent your assets, sorta amp up your words and actions to those around you. So if you put up a confident, positive vibe, you will seem even more confident and positive. However, if you put out a negative vibe, that too will be amped up. So you must use pheromones with some intelligence and technique for best results.
I’d recommend CTTM as a great social lube and conversation easer.
I’m a quite shy person myself and I’ve been using pheromones for two weeks now. I had some skepticisms before use, but I’m quite convinced. Instant Shine, A314, and Instant Openness did the trick for me. I usually use them during my work hours and my co-workers approached me regularly, but I actually put myself to the challenge and made myself more approachable. In other words, pheromones just made things easier for me, but you won’t know that until you take the first action to make yourself approachable/initiate. Before pheromones my co-workers described me as serious/reserved/shy. Now they describe me as fun/cool.
Probably the most important secret to success with pheromones is synchronizing its use with congruent behavior. That is, your words, actions and persona should agree with your pheromone signature. Thus a friendly signature won’t work unless you back it up with friendly behavior. Yes, pheromones can make things easier but you still gotta play the part. Otherwise you could spray TUTH on a stiff at a funeral and watch grieving women hump him raw. Not…
If you take A314, or raw power,
you’ll still technically be shy
but you’ll feel too strong and powerful to care
or see it as a weakness
so your shyness morphs into staying ‘quiet’ by choice, and when you do talk, people will listen… that’s what I’ve noticed for myself, maybe I’m rationalizing
Actually, this is very very accurate to what I’ve seen some of my more introverted/shy testers do while wearing A314.
They won’t talk, but when they do, they’re intently listened to.