I know it’s usually not adviced to switch signatures with your target girl too much, but in this case I think I have no choice.
Here’s the story:
I hooked up with a girl (27 yrs, 8/10 in hotness, brunette) last week in a very disinhibited environment (a lot of alcohol involved) with a basic TUTH + P83 mix. I had been wearing 3 sprays of Ammo during the day, but by the time I met her it was at least 10 hours after application. Maybe there was some residue but not much I think. It definitely was the TUTH + P83 that I applied in the bathroom that got her on the hook.
2 sprays of Heat, 40-50 mcg P83.
She was with the crew I was with in this bar, and I saw her eye-fucking me from a distance. I had never spoken to her before this night, but turns out she’s a friend of a friend of mine. Went for a talk, got a little light rapport, took her hand and danced with her. After some dancing I pulled her aside and went for the kiss. Kisses were very animalistic and I started some hairpulling and was basically feeling her up right there in the bar. Took her outside to get some privacy and we went on a little adventure in the park. Escalated physically as much as was sane in winter weather. I could tell she was super turned on by me cause she moaned like crazy when I touched her down there. Could’ve easily gone for a ONS that night if logistics weren’t working against me.
Also didn’t forget to get some deeper rapport in. Turns out we have some mutual interests and hobbies. She was a bit awestruck and was constantly telling me she couldn’t believe she’d never met me before, as we have some mutual friends. For the rest our conversation was very playful and filled with innuendo’s. By the end of the night she actually asked my number before I had the chance to ask hers.
Waited for 2 days before initiating some playful texting, referring back to our little adventure in the park. Ever since we’ve been texting every other day. I’m keeping it light, short and playful and she’s been responding well to this. I never found excessive texting does any good. After the first time I texted her, she’s been doing the initiating mainly.
Still have to ask her, but I’m planning to set up a date next weekend in a nice coffee place. This is where I need your advice. What mix should I go with? I can never wear unbuffered TUTH + P83 in this environment in my opinion. Maybe I can leave a little TUTH in there, but I need to buffer it with something to make it more acceptable. Also: I want to display a broader set of qualities than a pure horndog vibe.
She’s working and due to some things she said during our night and her age I have reasons to think she has a more serious outlook on life. She’s not a party girl - maybe she once was. My goal for the date is make her fall for me hard. Not immediately thinking about a LTR here - I’m keeping an open mind. If she becomes a fuck buddy I’m totally pleased with that too. But let there be no doubt about it: I want to get in her pants eventually. If not on this date, I can be patient.
I obviously need to re-establish attraction, but I also want to get some deep rapport in. After that I’ll just see where things take me.
Mixes I was thinking about:
A314 1 drop (my sweet spot)
IH 2 sprays
P74 12,5 mcg
TUTH 1 spray
Optional: add more TUTH + P83 later if things head in the right direction. IShine maybe added to the base mix
The tricky part here is the A314. She knows me as the sexy naughty TUTH boy. My experience with A314 is that it can be pretty serious around younger girls, but she’s right at the age where I think A314 might make her see me in all the right ways.
The second option I was considering involves P75 instead of A314. P75 is more masculine/sexy and less serious than A314. But it doesn’t have the imprinting/fallout effects of A314. It only screams one quality: I’M A MAN! Some girls like it, some it scares away. Same with A314. The problem is: I don’t know if she likes A314 or P75 better.
I can also go with something more simple like Ammo + P96, but this doesn’t display the right qualities and is maybe to light I think.
What would you guys go with in this particular situation?
Thanks in advance!