Steve - Have you seen Goliath’s OP?
He’s clearly a man of principle and from his discription, sending a too sexual signal may actually work against him?
Status/social/attractive, with maybe something like Ammo for a hint of sexuality might be a better road?
I’ll second the A314 - Spray if you must for a try-out but IMO, oil has that extra subtlty that Goliath’s OP seems to call for.