OK I have a friend that I work with, nicest guy you can meet but racked with confidence and inner game issues. 6’5" and over 300 lbs leaves him a little insecure about his ability to attract. Add to it that his wife began an affair and filed for divorce the same week he was diagnosed with testicular cancer and he feels pretty much devastated.
I had tried to give him some advice and strategies but one problem I have is that my abilities as a teacher are sometimes overwhelming. I absorb and incorporate information at a fairly fast rate and I tend to expect others to learn at the same rate.
I’m a big advocate of the M3 model and use it as the basis for my game but I have found with a lot of guys that simply knowing the model isn’t always helpful. It’s a lot of stuff to try to internalize all at once. The Style Life 30 day challenge however is based off the model and helps one develop both an inner game and solid skills that allow for a seamless conversation flow and reading body language (micro calibration) so that you not only know what to say, but when and how to say it. I also often read posts from newbies that come in trying to use pheromones (usually TuTH when in fact they’d be much better served with Ammo but that’s another issue altogether) but complain that they’re not getting the attraction hits they feel they should be getting, and what’s more, when told about congruence the complain that if congruence is needed then the mones are useless.
So I did a little experiment of sorts. I loaned my friend my copy of the “Rules of the Game” and instructed him to follow the steps of the Style Life 30 day Challenge for a month.
I also gave him my bottle of Ammo…about 5/6th full. (I extracted 5ml to put in a to go for my own use) I removed the label and simply told him it was my favorite cologne and worked better than Sex Panther lol.
So as with other experiments I’ve done I keep it to myself until the results are in.
He followed the 30 day challenge with two sprays of Ammo a day, and in spite of being “overweight” the guy pulled 12 numbers during the period. And accomplished the final goal with ease.
Now Style and his program DO deserve some of the credit but that began in mid sept to mid oct. I told him to internalize the methods that he should go through the program again only with a different cologne. That ran from Mid oct to just a couple of days ago. He still had very good success, pulled 8 numbers and accomplished the task but by his own admission, gaining attraction did seem like it took a little more work, and his success rate in terms of percentages was a bit lower.
I find this noteworthy since it was his second time going through the process and had already seen successes so his confidence was higher and his technique a slittle smoother..putting the Ammo factor at a disadvantage. But he still got better results as a newbie using Ammo than he did as a more experienced beginner without it.
The conclusion I came to is that following the Style Life Challenge is not only a great way to learn and internalize the basics of Inner and Outer game for Pickup, but when combined with Ammo (and possibly other AD products) is a near unbeatable combination for being congruent with an attractive signal and getting some phenomenal results.
I may try this with other students and different AD products to see if it works as well across the board.
