Hi Im Dayna and I just started to explore the phermone field. I’m 52 and need to get the spice back in life and I figure it couln’t hurt to try this. I have been married a long time and just started hormone replacement therapy and this really sucks. I really need some advice on which female phermone to purchase to gain some confidence and ease. I want to enjoy the world around me and the men in it. Thanks for your willingness to help.
Hey Dayna, Welcome!
I’m sorry for the rough time you’re having right now, but I’m glad you came here looking for answers. I believe you have nothing to lose, and much to gain.
In response to your question, there are unisex products such as IS (Instant Shine) which is able to put you in a “feel-good”, and “happy” mood which affects you as well as the people around you, in turn, building confidence.The first time I used it..I wasn’t all preppy, and I didn’t bounce of the walls, but I did notice my mood was elevated, and walked with my head held high. Smells great too! Definitely something to look into.
Other unisex products include IO, and IH. IO is meant to initiate social interactions as it makes conversing easier. IH is used to deepen that connection, hence it’s name: Both help open channels of communication, and may even drive people to come up to you, just to say “Hi!”. Curious hmm? 
(From my experience anyways). – On this forum, we call IS, IH, and IO “socials” because it helps with improving social aspects of life, but even as socials, I believe they are able to pique some sexual interests with the addition of your own personality/social cues/body language. Later, you’ll find that acting “one” with the mones will further your success. Sounds crazy, but it’s true!
There are other products that cater to women especially, such as Instant Sexiness A and B, but you have to have to keep an eye out for these as they do run out quickly. You can find out more about these individual products, unisex and gender specific, by browsing through the forum. There is a lot of information that will help you understand how they specifically work.
Also, tell us a little more about yourself! Like, what do you do? For work, on your free time, etc. Where do you want to effect your targets? And also it would help to know your location. We’d love to get to know you (please don’t take me as a stalker haha), and we won’t judge. And you get a $25 GC to help you get your first batch! Location matters because pheromones are a bit complex as they diffuse differently in different temperatures and settings. With this information, other experienced women, and even men can give you some tips. I found this forum not only provides me with information on pheromones, but also on life. There are great people here who are willing to lend an ear, and take the time to help those in need, so feel free to ask any questions you have.
Hope you find answers, as I did! Good luck! 
Hello Dayna!
From what you have told us, I would recommend you try Instant Sexiness B. It is the only sexiness product that is available on this site at the time. It attracts men and will give you confidence. It is referred to as Marilyn Manroe in a bottle, as it will make you feel kittenish.
Another product I would recommend to you is Instant Shine. It will give you confidence and put you and those around you in a good mood. It is one of my favorite products here .
Glad to have you here,
Tiffany
Hello new world,
Im here to gain some valuable insight and and get some answers to my curiosity. Im a 52 year old female that is brand new to the phermone world and know in my heart there is something to all this. I’m even hoping there is more than what I hope for. Having all but two of my teenagers out of the house, I want to research the scientific aspects of phermones. I will be the subject. I have a couple of hobbies that keep me occupied, but have lost motivation. The hobbies are drawing, mosaics, and my garden in the summer. I’ve been married 31 years and want that to be a source of inspiration again. I’ve been tucked away caring for my youngest daughter who has a brain tumor and all my energy has been in her well being and care.
I want to work on my happiness and well being in order for my family and friends( what friends?), to benefit. I can be a social person when I am in a good mood, but my moods are not on the upswing. I want to start with more of an extreme approach than a mediocre one so that I won’t get frustrated and spend more money than I have to acheive my desired results. I want to feel sexy again and lose about 10 lbs. All of these objectives are within my reach, but I have alot to learn. I just started on this sight and want to get to know how to use it for the best results, so I’ve started reading how to’s. I welcome any and all comments as to the knowledge and experience of phermone members. Thanks for being here!
Dayna
hey welcome to the pheremone
one product i definitely think you should try is instant shine. it is an instant mood enhancer and ive used it many times to calm someones angry mood, or brighten a sad mood.
instant sexiness is highly recommended by the women on this forum. there are two types so I suggest you do research on which is best for you. I read a report where someone sprayed it on one of her female friends and the guys around her couldnt keep their eyes off of her
what kind of other goals do you have for pheremone use? I wish the best for your daughter, is the tumor operable?
Welcome to the forum!
I would second Jnoel’s recommendations for Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness. Now with Instant Sexiness, there are two types: A and B. A is for more alpha, independent female personalities. B is for the more submissive, girly-girl type. Either can work for you but you will get more of the results you’re looking for by using the one that best fits your personality. Also, you might want to consider Instant Honesty. It can help build trust and intimacy with your husband/family.
One word of warning though, there is not definitive research on how pheromones can effect people’s health and there have been a small number of users who have reported that pheromones or their scent packages have irritated those around them. Most people here have at least gotten a headache or two from spraying too much too close to their nose/face. Though more serious side effects rarely occur, if ever, I would suggest being very cautious when wearing them around your daughter. At least limit your dosages initially until you’ve had time to see what negative effects, if any, they may have.
Other than that, good luck and have fun!
Welcome to Pherotalk Sudiecudie!
We can certainly help you do that and help you with your first purchase as well. I just need more info from you to get you started :
what is your personality like and how did you get to know about this site
So after I replied to your thread I noticed you made two which I merged.
I think in terms of your personality is/b would go nicely although for the kind of confidence you are looking for I would more recommend is/a but unfortunately its out of stock at the moment.
The socials are a great place to start when you first start using pheromone and I think you need to get comfortable with the social you and eventually we will work our way up to sexual attraction and more experimental stuff.
Have fun testing these out and learning all about this pheromone juice.
Your gc was issued! 
Mickaelia,
I left a message at the Mones store asking about how long the IS/A would be out of stock, because I think I’ll wait and order that when it is available. Ive not used any type of phermone before and want to wait for that one. Again thanks for your suggestions.
Dayna
You may have a long wait as /a has been impossible to make because of molecule blackouts and without the necessary molecules, you don’t have IS/a…
I’d suggest try out IS/b and Instant Shine. Start out with these mones, get a handle on how they affect you and those around you. Then, you can try out some of the experimental mixes… or the P molecules.
You could also talk with Steve O, I think it’s option 1 on the phone number above to get support on your mone usage. He is AWESOME to talk to…
jnoel,
Thanks for the helpful suggestions. Im going to order the is/a if the wait isn’t long, since it is out of stock. Does it usually take a while for out of stock items to be ordered? I noticed there are more things available for you guys than women. Hum… My daughters tumor is operable and she has had 3 brain tumor resections since 1997 when she was diagnosed. She was almost 2 years old. They cant completely remove it because it would debilitate her physically. Thank-you for asking. My goal is experimental with the phermones to see how they will effect my mood more than anything and hopefully improve that and others around me. Cause and affect thing..