Hi im a newb and i had a really good experience last night.. lots of IOIs from girls even hooked up with 2 of them…
Anyway heres the situation. Im really into this girl and i know she feels the same way but i told her i liked her and things just got awkward.. Ive known her like 4 years and we have kissed bfore and it was spontanious.. Not like this time.. i know its going to happen evantually.. coz i know shes the one i mean its always been she likes me i like her… back and forth!!! Its so obvious she gets jealous when im with other girls and gives me that DIHL look a lot and she mimics everything i do.. and her body language just points it out… but things are really awkward between us now as she knows how i really feel… but its one of those situations that it just has to happen…
Any advice??? with or without pheromones…
I will do anything and spend anything…
I’ve actually had some great hits with Spaceland, if you have a scent that can cover it well enough. At about 4 sprays from a to-go bottle, a girl and i were hanging out before heading to a club and were extremely relaxed, giggly, sitting very close and touchy. Mix that with a bit of Instant Honesty, and i think you may get the confession you’ve been looking for.
Pherosmurph, I don’t think this is a pheromone problem. Try to get one of the more experienced PUAs to comment on this. But for now let me tell you what I am seeing.
Girls want what they can’t have. Now that she knows that she’s got you she’s losing interest. For the next few weeks, don’t call her or text her. Try to avoid being where she might be. Avoid her. If you happen to run into her or she calls you, be cordial. Be as desirable as ever, but work at keeping enough distance that she has to seriously wonder.
In the future don’t give her such a serious compliment/commitment unless she just did something amazing to warrant such praise. Otherwise you look easy and therefore not worth having. I know it sounds childish, but that’s the way the feminine mind works.
There’s a thing that men do sometimes, too. Once we let a woman know we like them, we change without realizing it. We kind of relax and become more dependant – less of a leader. A woman percieves you as acting less like a man and more like a son. They are repulsed by that.
See… You are sounding desperate. That’s unattractive. It is kind of like premature ejaculation. You have to learn to hold your energy – instead of just letting go and throwing everything out there. This does NOT just have to happen. You are sabotaging it with that idea. Reel her in slowly. You talk as though the game is over. It is only just begining.
As far as pheromones, A314 and/or Instant Gentleman and/or Ammo are the most relevant for being manly, desirable and not necessarily easy. IH and IO are also very good, but secondary to the problem you describe. Try to get some of the serious PUAs to discuss this with you.
